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Yup totally agree! There is being lonely in singleness as well as in a relationship. I've experienced both.

I find it most interesting that many of us are lonely in our relationships and have simply checked out because the other half is too busy with their own stuff. Shout out to all the guys and girls that keep holding it down while having a bit on the side!

Everyone is different and I think we could agree people don't always really know what they want. Sometimes people don't know what they feel either. Personally I don't get lonely, I'm introverted and being alone for me is my happiest and most comfortable. Maybe if I was a guy I'd just eat my cum and never need anyone

Every one is different I am after NSA and nothing more, I can meet have a sess and walk away but I make that clear to anyone I may meet so maybe why I have met so little people on here .

We are trying to find people that want regular meetings whether its as a couple or playing alone. I (male half) would love to find another female or couple to have regular fun with, my mrs can play with other guy's alone as well but chooses not to unless im away overseas.

Hi bazzy, are you looking for regular meetings cos it relieves some loneliness and you want the companionship? Or is it just pure sex drive that you need to get your rocks off. Just curious.

For both of us its purely sex. We have the companionship but not all our individual sexual needs are being met

I am on here to find a hot couple for semi regular meets i want sex need to feed that hunger to get off

We get many men who are in loveless or sexless marriages who contact us on here. More so than lonely singles.

I wonder when these men will start asking themselves, or their wives, why the marriage is sexless.
Seriously. I could write a novel about the subject.

I totally agree with comment no. 9.......why are there so many sexless marriages? Do couples stay together for convenience and then look elsewhere to have there sexual needs met? One thing I would be interested in knowing is if married men/women find it easy to find someone else to play with, nsa.

Even though me and my partner aren't married yet but are engaged I've found that we have a deep emotional connection to each other and do have the physical connection too. It's just with us we each have different kinds of sexual needs that aren't being met by each other. When playing with couples when I was single I found this to be the most common problem with long term relationships.

Well said mrs whippie

Agree, emotional attachment can be maintained with a partner while sexual needs can be explored with others. But it does require some phycological fitness. Also, along with sex,an attachment is formed, sex is the ultimate in intimacy after all. multiple partners can work and it is very exhilarating.

You should check out reddit/r/deadbedrooms to see how this happens and why.

Gosh so agree!

Never thought I would be in a sexless relationship but I've ended up in one. Even though I love him for me IRS no sustainable longterm for me.

Yea I concur exactly difficult ah

Have any luck or is it just a time filler here for you too

Im in a sexless marriage ever since the menopause started she cant stand being touched thats why i decided to play away however thats harder than i thought it was going to be as welltheres a lot of woman on here who appear to be keen and pull out when it comes to it.

Yep hard to believe there must be thousands of people that have a less than satisfying sex life yet just meeting for some fun and excitement in this often difficult and strained life seems almost impossible,this site has all the foundations for it to be so easy yet it is so hard

Nerves get the better of a lot. We had one person drive two hours to get here then freaked out and left five minutes later and didn't even get his jacket off. He was married and desperate and scared.

Hiya

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Hello hun

Totally agree with you

Yes, married men/women find it pretty easy to find someone else to cheat with... if they're a certain type of person. They need to be efficient at: lying, remembering the lies they've told, deleting messages, and using their creativity to come up with reasons to go somewhere.

I don't know if I'd agree with you that sex is the 'ultimate' in intimacy. I think there's an intimacy that transcends even sex.

Do you not feel able to talk with your wife about this?

Yep. Some people's consciences are more ethical than others.

well i did for 4 years until i got sprung

We have had several conversations about it and she does try but just cant bring herself to go all the way again, and she used to be so in to it.

Oh man. That's so sad. It really does suck being a woman sometimes. The things our bodies have to go through. I hope you're being understanding.

I really meant have you talked to her about the possibility of you seeing someone just for your sexual needs?

Or maybe a counselor to help you both deal with the situation.

Not a 'silver bullet' (as in an instant solution), but helps process things as sometimes both males & females 'can't see the forest for the trees'.

Hello darling

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Totally agree darling

Im giving her all the time in the world i know it will happen again. No i havent spoke about other possibilities perhaps i should.

Unforrunately its just a hormonal thing that one day i hope will pass.

I'm sorry it's happening though. It can't be easy. I understand how desires can take over.
I'm sure you're being amazing towards her. x

You are right. Love and intimacy with depth of feeling. Giving and being given to is a beautiful thing. A full loving relationship is the ultimate as it comes with soo much more. Sex for just fun is still amazing though!!!

Thanks. Its not easy i do have high sex drive and apparently now take longer showers.theres lots of lovecad affection just no physical it will come back and im sure when it does BOOM. Im just giving her all the time and space she needs and a good spooning now and again