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Time for a rant...
Discussion - started by Dangerously_red, posted on 3-Jan-21 6:22PM
Why are there so many time wasters on here??? Grrrrrr!!!

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Comment #1 by BANNED:massagenz in response to the main topic
Posted on 3-Jan-21 7:49PM
men must mad to waste your time ffs
Comment #2 by Goodguychch in response to the main topic
Posted on 3-Jan-21 11:22PM
Lifes to short to waste time,I wouldn't waste my time but give you all of it๐Ÿ˜
Comment #3 by Calypso122 in response to the main topic
Posted on 3-Jan-21 10:46PM
I know right I haven't met anyone off here since December 2019 thank god I'm no longer single ๐Ÿฅณ just here to read discussions and check my groups.
Comment #4 by oneeyedcantab in response to the main topic
Posted on 3-Jan-21 11:33PM
Agree makes it frustrating. Yes I have kinks that i love and I think I get a match and then no. Some convos start really well but don't last.
Comment #5 by silvergrey565 in response to the main topic
Posted on 3-Jan-21 11:48PM
Yes, I completely agree. A huge block of keyboard warriors on these days, very few discussion threads.
Posted on 3-Jan-21 11:59PM
I've had 3 guys in the past week or so who have said they would meet for a coffee/drink. Two just didn't show up and the other let me know about half an hour before we were due to meet he wouldn't make it. That was after I had showered, got nicely dressed, put make up etc on...what a waste of time and effort...
Posted on 4-Jan-21 12:05AM
And believe me itโ€™s much worse for a male, and of a certain age group as I am. Just in round figures, say I send out 10 messages, 8 will not even reply with a thanks but no thanks, one may do that, and the tenth may have a conversation which suddenly dries up, or arranges a coffee meet and doesnโ€™t turn up. Grrrrr!!!
Posted on 4-Jan-21 12:36AM
Would you like to go for a coffee?
Comment #9 by josie2 in response to silvergrey565 ( view post )
Posted on 4-Jan-21 8:29AM
same in auckland, lots of married and cheating, no shows or just plan rude
Comment #10 by Owen in response to Dangerously_red ( view post )
Posted on 4-Jan-21 8:36AM
Dam problem is your in the wrong area hmmm if your ever up in the manawatu area hit me up๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ˜‰
Comment #11 by Cheekies in response to the main topic
Posted on 4-Jan-21 3:47PM
Time wasters are everywhere.. Ive been fortunate to have met many genuine people from here and made some great friends in the process. Block them or name and shame who knows they could be notorious time wasters
Comment #12 by Robbie63 in response to the main topic
Posted on 4-Jan-21 3:35PM
Don't matter what ever site you use or even old fashioned pen and paper contacts you will always have time wasters.
The genuine ones show up.
Everyone has different needs.
Nothing wrong with a bit of fun on the side.
Posted on 5-Jan-21 7:37AM
Rude but it's their loss!

Mine is partially due to finding a lot of men boring but it also has to do with men thinking I'm available when it suits them but time waits for no man and also most of the men who want to meet me live out of town but I've had better luck on that other site ๐Ÿ˜œ
Comment #14 by MasterSargeant in response to the main topic
Posted on 5-Jan-21 10:07AM
Hell, I would almost kill for a meet and greet with a lady. Just being on here I find is a complete waste of time...most think I am way past my best before date, but will never find out unless at least they give it a go.
I may be one of the last gentleman who actually cares about who ever I connect with.
Posted on 5-Jan-21 11:12AM
Yes, I agree with all those sentiments. I struggle to get people to realise that Iโ€™m actually not dead and that they may benefit from someone in an older age group with decades of experience in making those he meets feel special.
Comment #16 by Letshavfun in response to the main topic
Posted on 5-Jan-21 12:16PM
Time wasting is a choice I haven't yet been faced with....it would be nice to actually meet someone
Comment #17 by josie2 in response to Letshavfun ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jan-21 2:19PM
maybe all over 60 should have a get together buggers the young ones
Comment #18 by josie2 in response to Letshavfun ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jan-21 9:01PM
20 people looked today and no one hello
Posted on 5-Jan-21 10:12PM
Same here Josie.
Go figure.
Comment #20 by Oralguy6968 in response to the main topic
Posted on 5-Jan-21 10:17PM
We have the same problem on all the sites we are on
Posted on 5-Jan-21 11:03PM
There's other sites!!
Comment #22 by amm in response to Oralguy6968 ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jan-21 11:33PM
Please educate us with these other sites as well if you don't mind
Comment #23 by Funtimes69 in response to josie2 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 6:49AM
I had 42 look the other day and No hello just the way it is
Comment #24 by fons7075 in response to Funtimes69 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 6:58AM
I will be lucky if I get 42 looks in a year and most you ladies are to faraway
Comment #25 by kiwivoy69 in response to amm ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 8:50AM
Kiwiswingers... fetlife... nzdating...
Comment #26 by amm in response to kiwivoy69 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 8:54AM
Thank you
Comment #27 by kiwivoy69 in response to amm ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 9:02AM
You're welcome... I have only ever met 1 person from here... a couple of years ago...
Fetlife I get more hits as I'm a Daddy Dom...
Nzdating is good for party scene...
Kiwiswingers had a great chatroom...
Posted on 6-Jan-21 9:20AM
We are also on kiwiswingers, nzdating, male half has profile on fetlife and squirt
Posted on 6-Jan-21 9:41AM
I think that we have spoken a few times over the years..
Comment #30 by Robbie63 in response to Funtimes69 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 1:11PM
Hello" all the best for 2021.
All the good folk seem to be in the south island.
Thought to say hi"
Cheers
Comment #31 by KEG in response to Funtimes69 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 2:14PM
I've had a look, would say hi๐Ÿ˜‰, but the distance makes it impossible for me๐Ÿ™‚
Comment #32 by Funtimes69 in response to Robbie63 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 6:15PM
Hi and I thought there's some great profile's in the north too
Comment #33 by josie2 in response to Funtimes69 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 6:17PM
mine.......
Comment #34 by Funtimes69 in response to josie2 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 6:19PM
Yes interesting profile you have ๐Ÿ˜†
Comment #35 by josie2 in response to Funtimes69 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 6:28PM
thank you, x
Comment #36 by KEG in response to Funtimes69 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 6:31PM
Was thinking the same about the South
Comment #37 by Funtimes69 in response to KEG ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 6:34PM
Hahaha true the grass is always greener
Comment #38 by KEG in response to Funtimes69 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Jan-21 6:56PM
, not always though
Just taste different ๐Ÿ˜œ
Posted on 7-Jan-21 10:29AM
Iโ€™d meet you without a doubt. Would just be a heck of a long drive.
Posted on 7-Jan-21 10:31AM
What other site please. Iโ€™m new to the online arena. Thanks
Comment #41 by Apisa in response to josie2 ( view post )
Posted on 7-Jan-21 11:06AM
I will look at a profile, read their message, and if I donโ€™t meet their criteria then I would not bother them with a message. They might explain views but no messages.
Comment #42 by EB-rider in response to kiwivoy69 ( view post )
Posted on 7-Jan-21 4:30PM
The NZD message boards can be interesting.
Comment #43 by josie2 in response to Apisa ( view post )
Posted on 7-Jan-21 4:45PM
maybe, just polite to say not keen, ?
Posted on 7-Jan-21 5:14PM
It's possible

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