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You could extend that further to those females that have their profiles on the Search area. Apparently most get absolutely bombarded with messages, many I understand are one liners or totally inappropriate. Makes it very hard for folk who would like to build a communication up towards meeting to further the conversation. Of course, no way to monitor that but same effect - drives off genuine responders.

Yes, I concur.
Quite often see that on female profiles about one liners etc and that those sort of responses will be ignorned or blocked.
Definitely makes it that much harder...if only guys would think before acting on impulse.

Haha, sadly the brain is located in the wrong part of the body

Unfortunatly that is true in many cases.

It is extremely rare that I send out messages to women these days...have found it to be a totally pointless exercise. So many that string you along.
One lady I was chatting to for some time was a classic example....no matter how many meets were arranged, something always came up the day before on her end so she couldn't meet. Saw the light, now have nothing to do with her.

Yeah I said I was keen to get gangbanged when I lived in Gisborne last year and one guy messaged me about it but no follow through and I saw the same guy commenting on another women's GB post and I time waits for no man and I certainly don't 😜

That a pretty sad state of affairs when willing party people get stood up, let down or otherwise generally fucked around and not a fun way

Agree. Online dating is largely a waste of time. Men and women both have frustrating experiences - although for opposite reasons. Women get swamped with dick pics and 'wanna root' messages from idiots, and the few genuine guys on here never get a response 'cause their messages get lost in the recipient's inbox. Not just this site, same across the board.

In this case I didn't get stood up because he didn't follow through with organising it so I just didn't bother but it sucks when someone does stand you up I've found North Islanders to be the worst time wasters so no surprises there and that's why only 90% of my bodycount are South Islanders we do it better down South and they seem more willing to travel and make the effort I've had a few guys drive down from Christchurch 😏

The amount of white knighting in the P&C threads with guys offering to chaperone is creepy.

That's what gave me the idea for this thread.

*GASP* It's a WAHMEN! Get her, boys!

Really, it's no wonder more women aren't that visible on sites like these, and why people often think that women don't use them. Would suck to get pounced on by hordes of boys clutching their dicks in one hand while furiously typing out a response in the other.

It has been said time and time again over the years I have been here....if only the guys would show a little maturity, respect, manners and common sense, the ladies may be more willing to stay on these sites and interact a bit more with the guys. It's the idiots who think they are gods gift and hammer the women with silly offers and remarks that stop them doing so or make them want to leave.

Release the hounds

I never understand why guys feel the need to comment "have pm'd you" as the recipient of the pm already knows Or when they comment "pm me" - after all, they're the one showing interest yet can't comment first..... WTF

A not-so-subtle reminder to the woman to "Read my mail! Please respond to me! Why aren't you TALKING to me!"

It's like talking to a woman in a bar and trying to get her number when she has clearly shown no interest. If it's not okay there, why do they think it's okay here?

Yep. Feel sorry for their inbox.