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Take it slowly and make sure everyone is relaxed and comfortable

I personally think,the biggest thing is, make sure your both comfortable with who you choose to allow to join you both in the bed room
Experience tells me, if ya wife/ partner isn't comfortable with the 3rd wheel it's not going to be enjoyable for all parties
& If you guys have ground rules make sure the Xtra guy knows them also
Other wise enjoy, I know I use too

Couples have different reasons. Some the husband just wants to watch, others wife wants to see husband and guy enjoy each other. So it does depend on your reasons. Most conventional would be 2 guys have a sexy time and pleasing wife. Start with an experienced guy , #enjoy x

One other thing you should be aware is that this is a Pandora's Box that you cannot shut once open. Watching your partner with someone else for the first time can elicit a lot of emotions. Just watch out for that. To make it happen - find someone on here and go for it.

From experience I actually suggest you both search for a professional that appeals to you both. This makes sure there's no room for any emotional complications. Make sure you reasure each other of your love for each other throughout. Most important regardless of who you chose there will be emotions and possible insecurities that will need to be discussed between you bothafterwards. Stay true to each other and true to yourselves and enjoy your experiences

Hi there brown couple. Nice pic you have. Well a threesome is a big step for a couple to take. Letting an extra person in to enjoy your teratory. Well first of all choose wisely a partner that's not pushy and respects no very important.
Maybe some one like your selves a beginner then all can experiment to see what works. Don't expect too much first time but enjoy what ever you manage to do. A few simple ground rules then it's up to you.
As a couple you keep control.
Try it and see if it not for you no halm done.

Hi as a very experienced 3rd wheel I can offer a bit of advise
You 2 need to talk it out WHAT do u both want to happen do u want to watch her get it on ? Does she want to get it on with u both
Make a sexy game between you make a plan write it down , give it time and keep the game going and the plan will evolve
Watch some 3 some porn see what each other like and again write it down
Review the plan and then advertise your requirements and qualify your reply’s and select your candidate’s not on looks but previous experience and this is important as most guys think they can perform in a group situation but few can actually pull it off
You your self may experience this and that’s were the 3rd wheels experience can help Save the date as he will have experience of this and encourage and include you he will know how to ease and relax her
meet them for casual chat and drink and go from there again if you move to inviting them to join you his experience will help the ball start rolling on the night
Your first time should be a great experience if you follow all the advice everyone has offered you good luck

Depends on what you both want out of a 3some.
Mfm, mmf, fmf, ffm. So many options for you both to enjoy.
Set your rules so the third person knows what is expected.
Chat to prospective thirds to see if they are suitable.

In my experience, I answered an add online by a couple, we chatted briefly and dicussed boundaries and expectations, what they wanted from me, and things I would like to do, basically set the rules, we then set a date for the following weekend, met them in a bat for a couple of drinks to see if we all go along and then off to a hotel they had booked, was a little awkward waiting for them to get the ball rolling at first, she sat next to me on the couch, called him over, she kissed him, then kissed me and then it was fine, we moved to the bed and undressed each other. A couple of hours later I was on my merry way walking home. Unforgettable

JP8 gives great advice. I have been with a few couples now and agree with all he says.
In particular make sure that the two of you are very clear on what you BOTH want. One of my experiences went wrong as the guy clearly wanted and excuse to get into the MM aspects and she got neglected. One couple made it clear that she enjoyed watching me with the guy but the main objective was satisfying her and more than one cock was needed for that. Another it was very clear that he just wanted to watch. In each successful case there has been a bit of a getting to know each other session (once actually in the bedroom) where they have made an assessment of me. If both aren't comfortable don't go ahead. In any group of three there is an extra. Unless it is the point that it is one of the couple make sure that the third is the outsider and that will bring the couple closer.

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