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Wasn't an address in Ilam was it ? Name and shame , although i believe that there was a bloke with fake female profile that did that to you.

Had the same done to me Friday past in New Plymouth ! Got given a meeting place got there waited for 40min after jumping through hoops and come Monday I message her and got asked "who is this ?" Being the gentleman I am I started talking about the conversation we had on Friday and guess what ? No answer two days later still nothing ! I agree if you change your mind TELL ME ! I have put myself out there for a service that others have to pay to get and I give it for free ! If you are not prepared to go through with the arrangements tell me and let's move on ! Don't just ignore me ! I agree Duotwo.

Jesus h christ. ..that suks to the max. So it's obviously still going on.
Happened to me a couple of years back although cost me over 2 hundy. ..got the come to her town and get a motel type of thing. ..did that. ..guess what. ..no show. Didn't get an explanation either. ..just got blocked.

No it was in the CBD. We can all take no for an answer. Just expect some common courtesy. Difficult enough making excusss to leave work to be left high and dry so to speak.

Like i said, name and shame. Sounds like that "Heathernzxxx" who was basicaly a pathetic perveted wanker from Timaru who was getting off by playing games with people. It wouldn't suprise me at all if it is him again with yet another profile.

The picture looked genuine and obviously appealing when a voluptuous women is lying nude on the bench top. What red blood male or female wouldn't be tempted by that. I'll wait a day or two to see if the profile comes back on line just in case the person typed the wrong address in their own excitement.

Name and shame her if it was a mistake she will get back to you, no one wants to be named and shamed but if you do a new thread about her you can knock it on the head if it was a genuine mistake. She may be doing the same to others.

Cheers it will be posted in the morning. I think it's a false profile .

There are a lot of people who get off on leading people on. I would say almost without a doubt that it was a guy.

We have been accused of being fake before though - by a guy who seemed to expect that because we have a profile on here we are always ready to host with no notice or forward planning.

I suspect you are correct. The person asked if we were both coming over which was strange as I had mentioned that it was just me. You guys have some great photos by the way, I think what some people on here fail to see is that if we are organising the meet then it is on our terms. Thanks for your thoughts. Going to check if profile is back if not then it is into the name and shame board.

There is a huge difference between scheduling difficulties and getting someone to actually go to a false address - that is just plain game playing. Not sure what people get out of that. A sense of power perhaps that they have manipulated someone.

We have had a couple of no-shows where the other person just clammed up and said nothing. To be honest, once I typed the wrong street number on a message to one poor bastard who spent an hour trying to find our rural property when I had directed him kilometers away. We were sitting waiting with her all dressed up and thought he was a no show. He was pretty pissed off but it was an honest mistake.

Fucking stood up again. Grrrr

Drove to Waipuk for a meet, been waiting half an hour. ....looks like another no show. Fucking typical. Time to leave. Grrrr.

Yip. Had an event planned last night. 2 singles and 1 couple out of 17 registered people bothered to show up.

Its just not worth wasting energy on these cunts.

True that, I know there are genuine people on here, just a pity the amount of crap you have to wade through in order to find them.

I was chatting with a couple for a week... things were sounding really promising and then the guy bailed on me. He finally responded to me a few days later when he gave me a street name and general direction but no number. Then bailed again, no replies and closed account. I can understand if there is a change of mind but common courtesy would communicate a change of decision. Anyway I was really disappointed and feeling let down. 2 weeks later they opened account again and asked for my cell number. We chatted for awhile then I got the cold shoulder again. Talk about getting mucked around. Anyway the next day they contacted me to say it was all go. But still no set time or address only promises without firm commitment. Anyways I got myself ready for a meet. Contacted them via txt waited and got the message the female was in the shower getting prepared. OMG... got there address, arrived and they were legit. The female was a gorgeous babe who was a little shy but over came her inhibitions by wearing a blindfold. Oh yeah! She serviced her partner and I with an amazing sexual appetite and stamina I have never experienced before. All n all the set backs and frustrations were worth it. I haven't had any financial set backs but have had many pm frustrations it seems to go with the territory on here.

Why spending all this energy telling us about the set backs and negatives in 31 lines when the important part was just a mere 2 lines , you met them, they were real and you had the time of your life. Why the rest ?

Huh?

Rich coming from u.
You mucked me around. Bailed a week before we planned to meet. i guess that was the positive out of it. But u gave me no explanation etc just changed your tone and went mute. No animosity from my side. Believe me. Just kinda made me l.o.l reading first half of ur post.

Was only interested in mfm pines not 1 on 1 deal. I communicated that. Good luck finding yr third tho. You won't have any problems with that because yr so stunningly gorgeous and sexy xxx

Zzzzzzz to your response.
We both agreed on 1 on 1 first before MFM. So dont try come off anti-timewaster & ur comms skills was shitty fyi. Anyways ciao

You advertised mfm then gave me I wana try 1 on 1 first. I changed my mind on that deal. Get over it. Cya

Thank you for exposing yaself. My points publicly proven. Shitty comms skills = timewaster. Fyi nzp world.

Good on you for bringing that out in the open , i just couldn"t understand, why would one go to the trouble of bringing up all the nevatives to a happy ending story .

Thanks vscap61 ... had to. Wouldn't want anyone else going thru same thing with him or any timewaster. That was my only motive. Not for the reason(s) he believed. Holding grudges takes too much energy zzzzz ...

You made yourself look like a fool. You did that on your own accord. Classic! well done

Rich coming from you newlady17. You ask if I'm keen on threesome with you and your tranny friend which I kindly refuse and wished you luck, only to receive a nasty message and blocked well done

For fucks sake. You again! Mate.i saved both our quality time which is why i chose the quick goodbye and block after your silly rude reply to my proposal. I do suspect your ego is also slightly deflated after i rejected you. again on Petone Peaches n Cream discussion this morningYou seem to have deleted your "" reply i noticed. Fucking grow up and come back with a better argument or just shut the fuck up

Hahaha someone's angry I'm fine hun way better looking chicks on here. Don't be mad

Your precious ego is still recovering isnt it

that's a bit rude

and you turned down a 1 on 1 are you mad

Can't believe that Readytomingle turned down a 1 on 1 deal.
Omg, that's so rare.

Or just plain "stupid"

him bailing on me was a blessing in disguise actually

Oh I see, alls well that ended well then.

Without disrespect i hear he's an "OJ" type of guy , or was that "BJ" hmmmm

OJ?
Yeah whatever.hes just a timewaster & a douche for not communicating properly. Anyways ... hope u gentlemen are having fun out there!

Fun ?......not even although, I do keep trying.
Thank you for the well wishes, please take care.

I'm sorry this happened to you. Some people huh!

I personally just cant understand the time wasters. It is beyond me how people get off on wasting someone elses time when in fact they are actually wasting there own time as well. For me if I have used my valuable time to contact someone for a play date it is because I want a bloody good time having said play date. Not turning up or giving a false address just does not compute with me at all.
Just my 5 cents.
Cheers

I think they get off on disappointing others so you probably wouldnt have had fun even if they turned up.



Or at least that is what I tell muself every time it happens

Yeah but is still bizzare, but your probably right unfortunately

Yeah i think, maybe ... its a power trip for them

Yeah bang on the money there for sure

I'm surprised you actually admitted this story on here, they were clearly screwing with you & got a big laugh from it, you should have just pretended you never showed up yourself. As far as naming and shaming do you really think as an adult they will care? The types of people who usually name & shame are losers themselves. I would say just learn from it, they probably gave lots of signs they were time wasters and you never read them. Did you guys exchange cell and have a quick chat over phone? If not you sound extremely gullible. 9/10 people online are time wasters, simply online to make themselves feel good or get off on fantasy. This game account probably lived opposite where they sent you and were watching the train wreck .

This part of your comment "The types of people who usually name & shame are losers themselves." is utterly moronic.