a group for men who are blokes and yet feel their body shape is not right!

In my case. i am a male who is inked, hairy and has a beard(LOOK like an old bikie lol!)... YET!!!

i see myself as a submissive male with BREASTS(I wish... I wish... I wish!). go...figure... that's my ideal. to take the wifely role and yet keep my maleness. SO how do I??? and the others who feel the same way... just MAKE IT WORK????????????