Another Reminder Guys. A Discussion By DeviantQueen

Another reminder guys

Discussion - started by DeviantQueen, posted on 23-Apr-24 9:06AM

This group is for discussions .. generally about anything .. even maybe a bitch about your day, perhaps advice, fetishes again anything except trying to hook up. It is NOT for hooking up. There are numerous other groups here for that. Discussion means discussing topics! As a manager for this group, Im doing a cull on discussions that have turned into a fuck fest. If youre interested in someone who comments on any discussion, PM them .. dont make it public here. Cheers.

Comment #1 by StHone in response to the main topic

Posted on 23-Apr-24 7:36PM

The manager should show more respect for the users and not pull the rug out from under them.

Comment #2 by StHone in response to the main topic

Posted on 23-Apr-24 7:43PM

If you had a dick you would, imho, be a wanker. You dont have a dick, but still are a wanker.
What does it matter if discussion goes off topic. It hurts no one.
But, whoops, another thread clobbered.
Petty bureaucrats exercising power.

Comment #3 by domseka in response to StHone ( view post )

Posted on 23-Apr-24 9:18PM

yeah,agree

Comment #4 by arakam5 in response to the main topic

Posted on 23-Apr-24 11:01PM

"anything except trying to hook up. It is NOT for hooking up"

can't see that written in the group rules on the home tab?

Comment #5 by RyanofOtaki in response to arakam5 ( view post )

Posted on 24-Apr-24 12:05AM

Indeed, nothing about it. Must be in invisible ink.

Comment #6 by domseka in response to StHone ( view post )

Posted on 24-Apr-24 6:39AM

carry it on here,.....

,....hows peaches n cream going ?

Comment #7 by domseka in response to the main topic

Posted on 25-Apr-24 10:08AM

so,,,, IF you bother looking,HEAPS of these posts are for hookups,...so why just remove the p n c one??

Comment #8 by DeviantQueen in response to the main topic

Posted on 25-Apr-24 4:24PM

Thanks for your support guys. Please keep in mind there are other members also interested in general discussions that stay on topic where they would feel more comfortable to contribute if it does not lead into a public hook up when private messaging is available. I am sorry that you all reacted the way you did.

Comment #10 by DeviantQueen in response to domseka ( view post )

Posted on 25-Apr-24 5:46PM

Im doing the best I can to allow everyone to feel comfortable in this group. Its not actually the first one fyi. You only see what you are contributing to. There are some amazing people on this site and I listen to them as well.

Comment #11 by arakam5 in response to DeviantQueen ( view post )

Posted on 25-Apr-24 7:49PM

You haven't read the rules of the group have you?

Respectfuly.....You need to go to the Home tab and re-write the "ABOUT" description and "RULES OF THIS GROUP" because what is written there is very different to what you're advocating

Comment #12 by Cheekies in response to arakam5 ( view post )

Posted on 26-Apr-24 7:27AM

Said rules:
Keep it friendly!
No bitching or arguing. NO advertising, soliciting or promoting services, and no booty-call posts. No trolling, antagonising, or winding up of other members. NO phone numbers or any other external contact details!
If you experience any abuse from others, then please contact the group managers or report a complaint to admin.

Bootycall posts = Hook ups or did it need to be further explained?

Comment #13 by Davidbutler in response to Cheekies ( view post )

Posted on 26-Apr-24 9:18AM

10/10 for patience, Cheekies. Everyone is so ENTITLED these days - some people just can’t let it go and move on.
This is so indicative of broader worldwide issues - small thinking.

Comment #14 by Hereforyou in response to the main topic

Posted on 26-Apr-24 12:19PM

Oh I do LOVE a good topic for discussion, reading others points of views on a particular subject.
Even though I like a good hook up from time to time, it does annoy me somewhat when every thread turns into a "Wanna hook up" thread.

Comment #15 by Cheekies in response to Davidbutler ( view post )

Posted on 26-Apr-24 3:44PM

It takes alot to make the world go round that's for sure. I enjoy the odd banter. They have become few and far between. May the banter come back with a vengeance

Comment #16 by Biguycrom in response to the main topic

Posted on 26-Apr-24 3:57PM

So is this a discussion about the discussion group or is it discussing the rules within this discussion in which you should only discuss in a discussion group or groups discussing discussions?
I find most of the discussion within discussion group are often just another discussion about a lot of discussion that have been discussed previously.
But hey let’s see if anyone has any new discussions to discuss.
Always open to a good discussion.

Comment #17 by Cheekies in response to Biguycrom ( view post )

Posted on 26-Apr-24 5:38PM

your post was giving off woodchuck could chuck wood vibes

Comment #18 by LonelyBoy in response to the main topic

Posted on 26-Apr-24 8:01PM

To be fair, a .ot of ppl on here are fond of a mass debate (see what I did there)

Comment #19 by Cheekies in response to LonelyBoy ( view post )

Posted on 26-Apr-24 9:04PM

nice play on words hahaha

Comment #20 by LonelyBoy in response to Cheekies ( view post )

Posted on 26-Apr-24 9:38PM

Shame I can't type has

Comment #21 by domseka in response to DeviantQueen ( view post )

Posted on 29-Apr-24 7:46PM

i only see what im contributing to?? thats a bit judgemental of you,...actually i can SEE other posts looking for hookups....

Comment #22 by Cheekies in response to domseka ( view post )

Posted on 29-Apr-24 8:09PM

The removal of hook up posts is in action, slowly but surely. I support the clean up around here.

Hook up post example and instant removal:
Anyone free to meet in Porirua around 10pm tonight?

Non hook up post example:
Has anyone met up in Porirua around 10pm? Where are safe places to meet?

Comment #23 by Jss003 in response to Cheekies ( view post )

Posted on 29-Apr-24 8:19PM

On the basis of that example,all you're saying is hint rather than be explicit.

Comment #24 by domseka in response to Cheekies ( view post )

Posted on 29-Apr-24 8:20PM

haha, yeah,i DO know the dif... services for services...peka peka,... excetera excetera,..wink wink,nudge nudge,...but hey, ta anyhuuw

Comment #25 by Cheekies in response to Jss003 ( view post )

Posted on 29-Apr-24 8:34PM

That was a mere example one was publically saying hey let's meet up at 10pm, phishing for public attention (I get it your horny, it's just that not everyone needs to know or wants to know that you are)

The other was seeking information about experiences etc.

Not hinting, we are all adults here, the fact that this needs to be pointed out and hashed out for longer than necessary is mind blowing.

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