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Retired bi
Discussion - started by sledge, posted on 26-Feb-26 8:04AM
Retirement makes it harder to meet other bi mature males.And the smaller the town the more difficult..any solutions

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Comment #1 by Biguycrom in response to the main topic
Posted on 26-Feb-26 8:34AM
Go to another town, get a motel, then you can host others who cannot host.
Unfortunately small towns have nosy neighbours, so difficult to have a place. Outdoors opportunities are often slim and restricted.
Comment #2 by Biguycrom in response to the main topic
Posted on 26-Feb-26 8:41AM
Someone needs to put together a fuck bus, go to town to town and offer hourly rentals for people to meet. Parked discreetly so not obvious who is coming and going.
Comment #3 by sledge in response to Biguycrom ( view post )
Posted on 26-Feb-26 8:46AM
Be cool idea but even excuse to get away is difficult traveling business men be perfect
Comment #4 by wishbone22 in response to the main topic
Posted on 26-Feb-26 9:30AM
Even the cities are difficult if you can't host. Sometimes imagination and a strong hand has to be the solution.
Comment #5 by Happycocks in response to wishbone22 ( view post )
Posted on 26-Feb-26 9:35AM
Haha classic yea Mrs Palmer is always ready to meet and she never complains
Comment #6 by wishbone22 in response to Happycocks ( view post )
Posted on 26-Feb-26 9:44AM
Just demands more
Comment #7 by Nudefun in response to Biguycrom ( view post )
Posted on 26-Feb-26 2:17PM
Bloody great idea 👍
Comment #8 by Biguycrom in response to Nudefun ( view post )
Posted on 26-Feb-26 6:01PM
It could cruise the streets playing a catchy melody to draw people out, Mr Quickie,
Comment #9 by Whynotu in response to the main topic
Posted on 26-Feb-26 10:21PM
I think being able to host is a major factor. So many are disadvantaged if no place to play...I know of a small town near me that has at least 5 guys who are looking...but not in their home town, as it's a small community and everyone knows everyone..( I don't think they are aware of the others preferences)
Comment #10 by wishbone22 in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 27-Feb-26 7:18AM
Very true. And even in the cities.
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Comment #12 by dac1414 in response to the main topic
Posted on 27-Feb-26 8:21AM
Im really wanting to meet other bi or gay guys also but difficult in a small town like kaikohe
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Comment #15 by sledge in response to dac1414 ( view post )
Posted on 27-Feb-26 11:33AM
Yep know the feeling
Posted on 27-Feb-26 10:40PM
Totally agree with you about small town thing.it holds me back alot from meeting local simply for the reason that if i was recognised by the wrong person or being seen with someone i normally wouldnt mingle with could be downright awkward.its a shame but better safe than sorry i say.....thanks judgemental society,grrrr!!!
Posted on 27-Feb-26 10:45PM
Maybe spend a weekend at your nearest big city..?
Posted on 28-Feb-26 8:25AM
Yep wish more like us in the same town could meet as life would be so much more spicey
Posted on 28-Feb-26 8:29PM
Yup i totally agree with you on that one.there could still be discretion,respectfulness and privacy in respect of things not being observed or judged by those that think your choices should be public knowledge or gossip.
Posted on 1-Mar-26 7:48AM
Excaltley and life would be so more rewarding

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