Friends and fun

Newish to NZ, just prior to covid.
Keen to make friends, and to put it bluntly bit sick of wanking my brains out.
Want to know what makes you tick. Your turn ons and turn offs. There’s no dress size that defines sexy and no one thing in particular but a combination of attributes.
Keen to become friends as don’t believe you can really enjoy yourself sexually unless you have the other persons interests at heart, not ruling out trying to find a relationship but not what my driver is for joining here!
Recently helped a married couple enjoy their first mfm encounter and really enjoyed that but unfortunately they are down ivercargill way so quite a distance involved with current couple.