51 yrs old Straight Attached Female

Seeking a discreet man to fulfill what my oldboy cannot, age, work pressures etc, i am seekig a man for some fun times and i am not looking for love ( i have that). It is now Time to live and have some clean honest fun. No committments no worries no ties, looking for some mature fun, sensual, companionship, just happy times. Life is to dam short to ponder what another man would feel like for me, (been with mine since college).I am new to this game so I expect you to be a gentleman, know your worth, own yourself, willing to be a man,and know wine good music and a relaxed intimate affair is what i need what i desire.. I do not do crude so please do not message me with this, if you want my attention then be a man about it, be respectful and remember i am a lady, not a piece of trash. Do not send me nude pics I'm not interested in your package unless we go further, again I am a lady, and because I am a lady i expect to be treated like one. I promise to treat you as the man you are with full respect and trust, confidentiality if you require. I will reply to you if you demonstrate a level of wanting to converse and if we hit it off we can see where that takes us. I have curves so if your looking for a slim, straight up and down, no curve at all build that's not me my body is all natural curve.I pride myself in dressing nicely and I love all music and a good wine goes down well however depends on mood and company a good gin and tonic or a bourbon, even a merlot is a bonus. I'm not wanting a commitment just a good time great sex on a regular basis. I have a partner who is fine with me doing this (he would be open to watch if wanted not a biggie) Confidentiality is promised we have lives too so if this sounds like you message me and let's see if we can make it work. I want a man who wants someone on a flip side, and a man who respects himself and knows his boundaries.a man who knows , life is shorter by the day let's make some good times with No one getting hurt.