Kiwi euro lad just looking to make friends

I’m a bi male — probably 80% straight, 20% gay or bi. For a long time, I was too nervous to meet up with couples, even though I really wanted to. I’d back out, then regret it later, thinking, “Damn, I should’ve just gone.”

A big part of the hesitation was not knowing what the man wanted. If he’d just said, “I want to top you” or “I just want to suck you off,” it would’ve made things clearer and less intimidating.

I’ve had great encounters with gay men — they seem to love the idea of turning a straight guy, even just a little. And honestly, I’ve enjoyed those moments.

Now that I’m older, I don’t care anymore. I’m comfortable in my skin. I wouldn’t be scared of the husband’s energy or presence — I’d be direct and say, “You can do whatever feels right.”