Seeking some hot daytime fun

I am a 49 year old who is very slowly transitioning. I am still very much boy mode with breasts (on hormones), but very much feminine in mind.

I am seeking someone who is discreet, down to earth, non judgemental and just wants to have regular fun sessions together with no pressure or expectations from either one of us.

I am obviously partnered, that's complex but the reason for discretion, mine will be given also.

Sexually, I like everything from vanilla to link sometimes, with the exception of anal (it's a hard trigger for me, so please don't ask).
I do enjoy oral so much though (giving) and consider myself quite good at it, so please look forward to that!