I need some one in my life that can love me ....I am not a sad old lady ..I am vibrant loving ...I still have feelings and when people play you along it hurts .....how is someone meant to know if someone is just playing games till the wife comes home or if they are just bored and you just happen to answer them and think they seem nice enough I will chat and then they say how about we meet ..it gets cancelled once ..and you get oh sorry something came up make another time the same thing happens .If they don't want to meet you why can't they say instead of making plans with you over a few weeks. then no show ...am angry