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What had she done that was wrong? Maybe she wasn't attracted to You, which I'm sorry about and maybe she didn't want to hurt your feelings so she blocked you

A simple no thanks would be better after all the chat we had

not really worth worrying is it

No it?s not it?s just I?ll manered

I wouldn't think it warrants a be wary we all share pics at our own risk

She might have recognised you as someone she knew professionally or personally and any further contact might have been socially or personally difficult. We had that happen once with a blind meet and it was very very embarrassing.

I understand that but a simple I know you and no thanks would be better I think

She did the same to me....
Something VERY dodgy about her or Him!!
I suggest if anyone's chatting with Him/her, you don't give your face pic!

Damn rude bitch she is !!

I bet there are more who have been treated the same way by her or him

HIM is most likely

It?s people like this who bugger these sites

Me and my man have a rule of if a person contacts you first they are to provide face pic first, if they can't or won't do that we end the conversation

We had been messaging for a week, seemed good, got conned good and proper, strange how they won?t or don?t defend their action, says a lot I think

Holy smoke! Lighten up! Its a online dating site with blocking options...sorry if that offends youu to use that option. A bit of a chat in here constitute a relationship of any kind. If there is no appeal then wots the point of saying that, simply block, helps to prevent chatting in the future n wasting time cos dont remember silly handles used hrre. Just using features, didnt know there were rules. Dont take it personally jemma or timesforgun or anyone.
Im a woman like profile says too btw.
Thk u to member who let me know sum folk here having a moan about me for no reason really....build a bridge - we r strangers

Na, its rude and you're collecting pics! How would you like it! I dont believe you're a women either by the way you talked.
You're up to something nasty

What? People have pics on here?

Must check out Jemma's and see what they are like.

I don't collect pics but if anybody has any spare photos, especially if they are big breasted women, then please email me!

tui add

Get ova urself
Who made u in charge
Im not up 2 anythg n quite frankly not collecting pics of u or anyone i may nlock as obviously not interested!!

Ha ha ha
Yay someone real with a sense if humor

That's ok if your not interested once seen pic, but manners go a long way. And it seems people these days have lost all respect in treating others with respect

Mmmmm... I think one may need to become friends with Chrissie.

"Big boobs nice legs well presented" - seems like the trifecta to me!!

Thk u

I agree

Plus add in that interest list and you have a winner

To arrogant with no manners....all yours

Yes have had this also, awkward

I wish. But unfortunately Chrissie is too far away and way, way out of my league!!

She would be a dream date, but alas can only be a dream.

HAMSOUTH i wonder if its the same.....

Respect is not the issue here... its an online fk me plse site..wheres the self respect? Its a bs site not to b taken personally - its a joke surely. Dry ur eyes n just dance

All dating sites are. But like I said respect goes a long way even if you are here just to f..k

This thread shouldn't be allowed. So she didn't reply, so what? It's not worth a name and shame I think personally. His message probably got buried in a ton of other messages from guys who think they're entitled just the same. A no thanks might have been polite but not worth naming and shaming. I've sometimes found saying thanks but no thanks has provoked abuse too.

agree

Personally I think all the name and shame threads should be deleted. Far too often they are used for mistruths and airing perceived frustrations.

remember when it was for genuine issues eg safety rip offs etc

Most of them I've read though seem to be warning people of bad/dodgy behaviour though, this one seems to be upset because he didn't get something. The sense of entitlement of some of the men on here is unbelievable, so they joined a website, doesn't guarantee them anything. I've had some turn nasty because I've said no and the block button has been easier. The ideal of exchanging a lot of messages is to get to know that person and it can take a few to decide he's not it and some get upset by that because they feel they've 'put the work in'.

With the new Harmful Digital Communications Act, its a dangerous game to be playing. Say the wrong thing and/or tell lies, and one can be in heaps of shit!!

really

Yip, one is now prohibited from sending or publishing threatening or offensive material, and/or spreading damaging rumours!
You can't harass an individual or make a false allegation in a a digital communication!

that's really good stop cyber bullies

That is the intent. There has been a couple of successful prosecutions because of things said on Facebook.

good

That's actually a really good thing that

I think so. I should imagine the Admins will be aware of it as well.

could they be liable

I shouldn't imagine so. It would have to be shown that they willingly allowed the harmful communication to continue. And as NZP rules expressly state "Abusive or threatening behaviour is not permitted on NZPersonals", then I should imagine that would cover them from being liable.

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