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I have had "dealings" with this lady. She is genuine. I have never had a problem with her, but then I make a point of being polite, courteous and understand that its not all about me.

I have

I was absolutely "polite, courteous and understand that its not all about me" which is why we arranged a meet and I drove on a 4 hour return trip to invercargill, to be stood up.

Well, funny how 2 other guys on here have only good things to say about here, and then theres you. So I'd suggest the problem lies with you.

Thank you for your input, and maybe it is, but how does one know when everything is arranged then absolute silence, common coutesy would prevail, as I have and continue to extend

So you didn't get a root n now you pack a sook? Grow up dude, if that desperate go pay n fuck rather than driving for hours.

how am I packing a sook , and who said anything about being desperate, you rather seem to have missed the point of this site, and indeed the "be wary" page.

As stated, its a bit impolite, and I didnt know what to make of it.

But you have your opinion, thats cool

You can't just name a shame someone just cos they didn't meet up, in life one has turns that they cannot get back to say they won't be able to make it n maybe it was one of those cases with her, so no need to put a name to her and say that she's a time waster, who knows what happened with her and why she couldn't make it, maybe something important or family business or a mishap, who knows, and as far as I've seen most men on here when they don't get what they want it's all they say n try and name and shame someone others, why just cos they didn't get what they wanted.

I'll put you in the same category as others.
Put yourself in ones shoes and you'll probably know, not because all is well in your life means it's well in others too. You forget the point that she did show interest in meeting you. So something would have come up. Can't just go naming and shaming people.

Oh and as for the point of this site, it's a website and nothing is promised here, which I think YOU are missing out on the point dude.

I think youve missed the point of this page mate , Im not quite sure why youre a member if you dont believe in name and shame?? Seems a bit hypocritical?

Absolutely agree anything could have happened, and I extended (and continue) the benefit of the doubt, didnt get agrro, but shes been on this site and multiple times, and has just ignored me.

I find that impolite given the expense and time I went to.

But youre more than entitled to you opinion.

im going ask her to message you this thread doesn't need to become a typical disaster like they are on here

That would be good, I messaged her a couple of times, no reply so hence the thread.

Just let it go buddy. Shes a nice lady and doesnt need crap from jilted john.

Well if she has been on this site more than many times then you obviously don't get the point that maybe she isn't interested anymore, a hint is enough. Name and shame I believe in it, once proven!!!otherwise don't name and shame.

And as for a disaster, I'm just stating my thoughts and views on this thread, no disrespect to you but all is entitled to their view.

facepalm, I do get it, you dont seem to.

I would have been quite happy with "Im not interested" ...before traveling, or anytime actually, not just radio silence.

Im a person of politeness, you dont seem to be, so not quite sure why youre judging me by your low standards?

Low standards?YEAH right!!!!! Like how hardontop says, just let it go buddy,

Oh dear, you are starting to show your true colours now, and probably the reason she walked away from you (but not from me or others it seems). Problem is all yours buddy, walk away now while you still have a little dignity left.

how is politely responding showing true colours.

I like the whole "leave it" & "walk away" Iindeed happy too, and we wont hear from you again?

No,I'll stick around and support a good member as long as needed, especially when she is being attacked by someone who comes across as needy and demanding

oh so youre hypocritical as well.

so youve ridden in on your white horse to defend the ladys honour.

Only problem is no where have I attacked her or been rude, I was simply left wondering why.

from your opening statement youve been rude, you cant help yourself

take your own advice fella and dont embarass yourself.

Oh dear. You are the gift that keeps giving. No wonder she chose to ignore you. And now all can see that you are one that we need to be wary of

She let this man drive a 4hr return trip with no message of saying have to cancel, or after the fact why she didn't meet. Yes thing happen that are out of our control. But to totally ignore him if he has done nothing wrong is rude. And if he has upset her then why hasn't she blocked him?

like said when I next talk to to her I will ask

thank you, the point seems to be lost on the white knights.

The lady has messaged me an apologised, and I'll leave it at that.

, what a cockwomble

dont be so hard on yourself

Good to hear

See shouldn't have had to escalate it that much by naming and shaming one. Shit happens and not everyone gets their piece of cake. Food for thought matey

I not only want the cake, I want to lick the icing as well!!

True. Class. You either have it or you don't.

you obviously havent potty mouth

cant fix your creepy behavior now can we

Now I remember why you are on so many users blocked list.

How do you know This?

This isn't name and shame.
Keep your hair on.

Fuck half u guys commenting on this post seem to have very little understanding of your own English language. This guy never named and shamed, you's have made it about this by labelling it as such. To reiterate the bro was asking if anyone has had experiences of time wasting with the person who is attached to this profile for the sheer FACT that he travelled 2 hours just to meet her and shes been Ghosting him (proly a more appropriate description than name and shame). Any one of u guys that have met her would feel the same way as this guy had u seen the same demise just most likely wouldnt have posted it cos ud have been too bummed out to admit it publicly n are now hero'ing up to defend the pussy like ur all good kients!!!! What a pack of greasers!!! If u guys and her are so fucking tight why dont you get answers for the man from the source who has clearly been online and still Ghosting him rather than just throw in ur own answers like u know the situation. Truth is most of u haters would proly spit the dummy more than this guy has.. Ppl don't say they're polite and shit they just do this cos thats what they do..this post couldnt have been any more polite given the circumstances..fellas talking shit like ur nice, polite guys yet uz are sounding like right kients. Dont just be polite for the pussy, be good and judge all fairly by the given facts and choose helpful acts, dont just talk kak like u n her are all tight like that yet you have no real answers to substantiate ur claims so everything u say just sounds like ass kissing crap!!!!!

Well to be honest with, you not knowing what happened I don't think you should be making such comments to be honest, sorry to be brutally honest, but I've just spoken to her and know exactly what happened and cos he didn't get what he wanted he goes out to put a bad name to one, as men on here if they don't get what they want they get shitty on the other person, secondly, why would you want to travel x amount of hours if you don't even have any personal contact details?I find that just stupid. So there you go, and if one does ask about another on here it's no different then naming and shaming by the end of the whole thread. And I'll say this, SAME FUCKING DIFFERENCE!!!!!!.

My post should sort you out. If you're smart enough.

The post is not name Horsham but it's how the post seems to be going anyways, my hairs on, don't give me shit for it just because.I defended someone without knowing then and just by being honest and upfront that sometimes life can play games and no nzp is not life, there's other things that are.more important in life than nzp,want an example?like kids family, mother brother sister, hubby, work. Cos I don't think any of the fucked a on here is will to put a plate of food on ones table if one looses their job. Get me!!!

Youve just spoken to her. So u make dumb arse comments before even speaking to her? Ur arguments are contradictory but Nope clearly im not as clever as u Mr..smart enuf u ask? Meh, smart arse enuf but meh, nah u go icu Einstein

Made ur comment how long ago and uv just spoken to her. U should think more before u speak mr genius..

Omg! That rant makes no sense at all! If you want to continue to carry on in such a fashion I will boot you from this group.

agreed caldus the thread is dead and buried

Good to hear that the lady finally made contact and apologised. Hopefully the apology also included the reason for your wasted 4hr round trip and her following silence

Kudos for holding your shit together while some of those around you were tossing their toys. Everyone has an opinion, just like everyone has an ass

@ white knights

I'd be annoyed after driving four hours.
A simple text, message cancelling meet etc would of been the ideal outcome
Its good simple manners to cancel.