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Agree!!

I don't know man, If they don't reply, they're not interested. Pretty simple, no ?

No. Politeness is important to me. How hard is it to say no thanks if someone has taken time to ask something that isnt offensive? I

Agree

They probably get hundreds of messages. It's probably tedious as fuck replying to all of them.

There's really not much you can do about it either. You're better off just trying the next person.

I reply to all.
I say thanks when they say they like my pics
I agree it just takes manners
All you have to say is thanks for your time wish you luck sorry your not my type

I agree.
I always reply too, even if it?s just a quick no thanks.

Manners are a thing of the past that belong to our generation.

Well, we all know that isn't true

O don't agree. Manner have gone out the door the last few years

That's true. Some of the young ones r bad for lack of manners

Some are, and that is more often the younger ones (but not always). On the other hand I have met many lovely, polite and respectful people on here too. So it?s not all bad

What about guys that just put Hi,and has obviously not read your profile as they are totally different to what and who you want to meet and live in the opposite island, I do try to reply but as already been said it can be a little annoying.

I see it if they don't put effort in to chat to you then they won't put effort in in the bedroom

Ohhhhhhhh absolutely that's why I hand brake

sad to hear u have had this experience hun not all are the same we are all painted different colours hun not all the same hope u have a better time on here im a pm away if u would like to chat x

also agreed a hi for a txt or pm isn't a cool way to start a chat a bit more into the convo would b nice. also guys reading the profile first would b good b better than turning u down for things my profile says i dont do already. hope u all have a great weekend. xx

thats life for ya aye!

It is not always rudeness. For example, you send a message. We get messaged every day and there can be dozens of them to read if we haven't logged in for a while. Honestly, after the first year here of responding I got bored with it. Will respond if the bait is worth taking a bite.

Depends. If we respond to all the approaches we get Id need to be on here all day. If we don?t respond it is a polite no. We get loads of ?hey there? and wanna fuck? messages from guys with no photo and zero info, if you dont tell us about you why would we bother?

Yes agreed. You can tell who has read your profile and who is just responding to pics.

I get that as well

They message without reading my profile properly n I'm like

Hi, where you from? Well if you had read our profile it is stated at the top,
I think you could be right, most are responding to picture and they don't have one of their own. But I do try to say Hi, No thanks,

I hear ya. A simple no thanks would suffice. Woman my own age who say they are bi/bi curious dont answer me either. It's so annoying. I've even said "a reply would be nice". They read and still don't reply

Yea iv said that too. I mean how long wud it take to reply no thanx

I think that if you take the time to be on here then you should expect to get messaged. It's only polite to say sorry no thanks. I have messaged so many woman and couples an NEVER get an answer. Unless of course it's a guy posing as a couple. It makes me tire of the game and want to just give up. I have met one lady on here that I have played with, of all the people/couples I have contacted only one. The odds are pretty bad.

Your profile sounds yummy. Pitty your on another island

Thanx hun. Iv pmd u

It comes down to good manners really.

Exactly! And thanks to those who have commented on this. Its good to know I am not alone.

I think guys out number the ladies on here 20 - 1. My problem is i never know what to say in the first message with out sounding like a knob gobblin.. even after reading the profile

You can say.... hi, I like your profile. Take a look at mine and if you like let me know and we can chat. Or something along those lines. And I believe its 9 men to one woman. However the odds suck for you guys.

Yeah 9-1 would be accurate but if you took out the ?working girls? then bendover is about right. People take the time to write b.s about meeting up or going somewhere but can?t reply to a message.?? ?Fake? would be my take on it.

It's a hard game. And there are lots of fuckers out there.....

I'm a good fucker . U can that both ways

I hear what your saying but we choose to explain that because of volume of emails we may not respond and not to take it personally, because its not personal. In a perfect world we would respond to all but I really don?t have time. I have 90 unread mails from this week alone. Anyway, all the best.

Either not responding or not turning up. Just been stood up again. 2nd time in 2 weeks. They could at least give a dumb reason or something

Damn timewasters!! Name and shame both please. Message me. I'll tell you how to weave out Most of them...

No wonder you live in Auckland. I am from but a wee town in comparison.

Is there a reason u blocked me? Just asking

You're not my type!!!

OK fair enuf