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I have done this, with a couple and a separate female. It was fantastic, we rarely had disagreements as time together was to be enjoyed. We all had enough love to share and enjoy with each other.

That's awesome. So are you no longer in that poly relationship?

No, the couple moved to Oz, things change over time.
I am still that way minded, but have yet to meet anyone else I have been attracted to enough and is like minded.

Interestingly, after a while it wasn't just about the sex (although this was important and fantastic), it was that we all genuinely enjoyed the company and personalities of each other.

I can see that it would be a great combination of support, fun, sex etc. It's definitely something I would be interested in if ever given the opportunity.
What a shame your relationships came to an end!

Yeah, it was sad it had to end, but flip side, I have a great place to go in stay in Oz! Absence makes the heart grow fond!
So many times we hear the negative sides of relationships - the bitchy wife/gf, the lazy hubby/bf, etc. I try to make my relationships fun and enjoyable, so we all have a great time. Yes, they do end sometimes when things may change or evolve, but that's ok. As a door closes, another can open.

I totally agree. To many people moan about things that don't really matter!
Theres always change and doors closing, opening. One has to change or become stagnant perhaps. Feeling stagnant atm

Yes I try to live a poly lifestyle. Not into the live in type well no longer than a week. . Mind you one would be nice atm during this lockdown . . Monogamy is an outdated religious way of controlling the peasants. I find jealousy is the hardest thing to deal with. Especially over long periods of knowing each other, like years. Everybody should have 3 or 4 lovers of whatever sex(es) you desire. Variety is the spice of life

Each to their own yip. Depends what kind of ship ya on

No, I don't agree, Capt'n - monogamy works for most people, and is best for most, I reckon. I notice alot on here, a 'lets flirt/banter/have sex' site, have 'loyal as fuck when i'm taken' on their profiles. In my experience, many find it difficult to open up themselves enough to really enjoy sex with one person, let alone 3 or 4.
True poly is like an extension of monogamy, where you care for each partner as if they were the only one. Its not just a fuck-around-anywhere lifestyle.

Not saying you didn't know that, just kinda thinking aloud.
Not saying that's

I see where you're coming from. It's a relationship involving x amount of people. As opposed to just having many fwb.

I was supposed to put marriage is an outdated concept. Because who says you cant love and care for many lovers. I dont like to have a primary. I prefer to treat them all as equals. But then again I'm still learning