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Actual!
I get countless messages like "I wanna suck on your big boobies" or "Hi wna meet" or for some reason when I get "wanna try an older man" really irks me because of the assumption that I never have?? and that age is a thing I'm after? When really its them that just wants a younger woman haha or like today this guy sent me multiple messages in a row asking to see my feet so he could spurt a big load on camera to me. Like, its just the audacity. Just because I'm on here looking for sex, does not mean I accept being spoken to like I'm a piece of trash hahaha this site is notorious for that. However, I'm a big girl and just block people when they annoy me

Same. Both on here and NZD.

Unfortunately that sort of behaviour is becoming the norm from all sexes and not just on dating sites but in everyday life. Why the fuck cant people just be a bit more reasonable and respectful to one another. Hell, we all have different likes, dislikes and opinions

Online only I find.

Social media has made too many people comfortable with disrespecting others and not getting punched in the mouth for it...

doesn't help that we hide behind nicknames online. Civility would rise if we used our verified name. Membership would plummet. The price of access...

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So true!

Yes fully agree with you there. Things were a lot easier and simpler before social media that's for sure

And yet we’re all on it.

Ironic as fuck isnt it. This site is exactly the sort of thing most of us are bemoaning. I can say for myself I avoid all other social media. Or should it be called antisocial.

Absolutely ironic.
I think it’s like everything in life - it all needs to be MANAGED. Overindulgence of pretty well everything isn’t good for a person, it leads to all sorts of problems, most of us experience that.

Yeah it's a bit like that. I've met some cool people but now everyone that I talk to wants to wear my knickers....

So true! And think that just because you're a woman here you must fuck everyone that messages you.

Seems to be the go to kink these days. Not my thing and each to their own but I cant help wondering if its just blind trend following.

Hell, I dont expect it but I will freely admit thats why me and every other guy is here

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Haha. Yep found that. It's almost unique to this site.
They either want to wear woman's clothes or be some sniveling little sub.
Absolutely turns us off. Where are the real men

“Where are the real men” as he enthusiastically raises his hand while he reads this….

There's one here. I may like the occasional cock but I still fart,belch,drink beer and tell filthy jokes.Haha.And I don't follow the masses blindly.

I might be torn to shreds here and actually this doesn't apply to me as my wife Died years ago, but mostly the reason older married men are on here to find sex is because their wives have shut the shop.
Leave the shop open then they don't have any reason to cheat. Wives own fault really.

If the shop is still open, then, yes, in my opinion, cheating is really bad.

Dont be fooled alot of the cheating men on here think thete wives dont know whats up , they are not stupid most of them do and that is why they may have shut the shop . Ever think that she maybe out getting thrashed letting you think that she is someplace else ,

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I agree - just because we get old doesnt mean we all no longer crave sensual touch. Touching isnt the same as love so i dont see why its a bad thing to seek this elsewhere when our partners dont want to.

Maybe it's the deceit.
You don't see it as a bad thing but are probably doing it behind your partners back and lying to him or her

Very true Jss003. I myself am also a verified member of an American hosted website / chat site very similar to this one (on an much much bigger scale) and I kid you not although you can still use / hide behind a nickname you require a verifiable photo ID / an online photo of YOU holding your code etc to even join that site. everything you say and do WILL be recorded ! But on the flip side the people I’ve met with have been more genuine less pushy and most importantly respectful. It has its bad eggs to but the Mods usually keep them in check. Of cause this means there are also a lot of women on that site :) all having a good time and doing their own thing.
One thing everyone likes universally is been shown some Respect :) be kinder and good things happen

Wow! That is transparency

Social media benefits the searchers. Expands horizons exponentially compared to the old days...back then you were limited to people you met. Now you get to filter through thousands and meet a selection. And most of them are going to be dumped and you barrow down to a select few. Searchers have to write a decent accurate attractive profile then be ruthless in deleting, ignoring, blocking. But still be open to conversations with possibles, meetings with probables, and whatever turns you on after that..

Is there such a thing as too much choice in this area? (Not that I suffer from that problem, unfortunately.)

Why pick on just this area? We have way too much choice right across our whole lives and yet we are more dissatisfied than ever. I have just come to realise in the past few days that I have great life and although financially I am not well off, I am still a lucky bloke and I need to be happy with that. So thats me,Ive had enough of all this bullshit. when my sub expires I am gone.

Well sure, but I don't think you quite got my point. I don't actually have much choice - as I said. If you truly were leaving on a matter of principle, you'd leave immediately.

Would you mind sending us the website your talking about we be interested in checking it out

Wow, interesting discussion?

Am I wrong though???
You're here, older, not a single man and keen to fuck around.

You are not "wrong"?

However; some people see this as being wrong.
Whereas, I see it as keeping happy, therefore it keeps us together as a couple?

I feel that my situation is "personal", to me and my situation.
It is one that I do discuss with my friends that I have met and "TRUST".
Everyone in the world has different reasons for their actions, some genuine others, not so?

As I said earlier,
"A very interesting discussion"?

Sure you do.

It's just seems quite the coincidence men over 60 all think the same way you do.


What I'd like to know is would your wife be fine with your explanation on why it's fine to cheat on her.

If you feel that justifies your actions then all good.
You could just call it cheating and be done with it.

I think that I would sooner do it this way than to; take a lady home and do it in our bed while she was present?

What sort of reaction do you think would eventuate?
I respect and love my wife eternally. However like most teenage men/boys, I have working hormones that need to be addressed, and I feel that this is a logical way to achieve that.

Your excuses that make you feel better about fucking around is just that.

Your math ain't mathing and is illogical to my way of thinking...

If you truly respected or loved your wife, you'd let her know you're on here so she can make an informed decision if she's happy to continue your farce of a marriage or to start divorce proceedings.

The lies people tell themselves, pathetic....

Who said that "I feel good about it"?

You are making a lot of "asumptions" about how others choose to live?

Sorry Prescious, you are coming across as a "one person, FUCK PATROL"???

SORRY, "Proactively-seeking, If that is truely the way you feel, it is my opinion that you have registered on the WRONG dating site for your requirements and ideas?
This site as far as I am aware is for those, "SEEKING SEX", not dispising those who are doing it?

No assumptions, i just used the info you yourself provided on this thread.
This site is for more than just sex.

If it didn't feel good, you wouldn't be doing it.

Feel free to stop talking shit and trying to make excuses.

Sorry, I do NOT have to make excuses to appease you? As I have already iterated, This site is set up for ADULTS to make choices, and meet and make friends.

If it is NOT what you like? Why are you on here? Dictating to others, on how you see their relationships, even though they really do NOT involve you in any way? As I said before are you the "INFIDELITY POLICE", JUDGE and jury that you can tell other adults how to behave?
Or are you just a BIGGOT?

(Mis-spelled), BIGOT?

Not at all.

Just disgusted in your attempt to make it sound less atrocious then what it is.

Looking for a wet hole for your usage before running back home to your wife.

No wonder she has no interest in sleeping with you.

Cheating...

That's what you get online,and everyone has a right to voice their opinions.


And you are pathetic.

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