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Married and secretly bisexual
Discussion - started by BiCockLuvr, posted on 19-Aug-24 1:11PM
Hi. If you are married and secretly bisexual (like I am ) I'm just wondering how you deal with it mentally? I sometimes struggle with the vitally important secrecy. What about you?

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Comment #725 by gingertom900 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 7:36PM
Yes unfortunately it would be fantastic if a hit actually was a hit rather than a random time-waster most times
Comment #726 by Subbum in response to gingertom900 ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 7:39PM
I think they want to and fantasize about it but can't bring themselves to find out just how good it is. So kind of use this site like porn. Look. Read. Wank. Leave. Just my opinion
Comment #727 by Dikme2 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 7:44PM
Thank you I am genuine, sometimes life gets in the way. I don't have transport so have to rely on friends or neighbors. I'm not trying to make excuses, I am looking for fun and being retired try to fit around others.
Comment #728 by gingertom900 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 7:44PM
Probably very valid, a shame they can't accept the joys of being with men, the best discovery of my later life
Comment #729 by Dikme2 in response to gingertom900 ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 7:45PM
If I recall you didn't want to meet up with me. I'm not a tyre kicker,
Comment #730 by smoothone246 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 7:47PM
I'd 100% agree with you. There are a lot of keyboard fantasy warriors out there that say they're Bi and just can't make the move to actually find out how satisfying it is to be in this lifestyle. Many are nervous at a first meet but once you realize the person you're meeting wants the same thing, things generally fall into place. Just go with the flow and let the cum flow. Enjoy yourself. I've never regretted any of the fun I've had.
Comment #731 by Dikme2 in response to WRC ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 7:48PM
You're out of line and perhaps you should check yourself out
Comment #732 by Subbum in response to gingertom900 ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 7:52PM
Yep I get it but why get peoples hope's up then ghost. If you want to play with cock play with cock
Comment #733 by Dikme2 in response to WRC ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 7:53PM
Who ever you are. If you had made plans with me. You'd be aware I don't have transport and I host so I think I would have heard you knocking on the door. Don't escalate. You'll open a can of worms
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Comment #735 by Dikme2 in response to Dustnz ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 7:57PM
I host and don't have transport. Unlikely I would back out unless something unexpected arises then I always tell the person. I'm not swamped by men so I'm always wanting company even if the chemistry isn't there.
Comment #736 by gingertom900 in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 8:03PM
Sorry, my memory goes something like we did a few times make arrangements and they never worked out due to my wife being very ill, I very much doubt I would say "I don't want to meet with someone" unless there was a very good reason, I am always upfont and honest about meeting. I am certainly not a tyre-kicker either, in fact I rather like your profile so would have eagerly accepted PM me at some stage please
Comment #737 by gingertom900 in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 10-Mar-26 8:03PM
The same
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Comment #740 by WRC in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 11-Mar-26 6:44AM
That sounds like a threat to me. That’s a very interesting response to being called out Guilty feelings huh.
Comment #741 by WRC in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 11-Mar-26 6:50AM
You gave me a street and told me to contact you so you could come to the end of the drive to show me your house. Can knock on every door till I find you.
You gave me a phone number that you stopped answering, I even left messages that you didn’t answer
A total waste of my time
Comment #742 by Dikme2 in response to WRC ( view post )
Posted on 11-Mar-26 9:11AM

Really? Is that what you got from what I said? I'm not responding to any more of your comments. Please have a good day.
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Comment #747 by youngcock28 in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 12-Mar-26 12:17PM
Yea same thats all i want is some man action
Comment #748 by Tims in response to the main topic
Posted on 12-Mar-26 1:06PM
I've just read the original post in this discussion.

"Hi. If you are married and secretly bisexual (like I am ) I'm just wondering how you deal with it mentally? I sometimes struggle with the vitally important secrecy. What about you?"

I know what that guy meant. I told my straight male friend earlier this week that I was bi. And I've told a few girlfriends over the years, but otherwise an important part of my life is spent in a hazy, obscured netherworld. Does that feel familiar?
Comment #749 by sledge in response to Tims ( view post )
Posted on 12-Mar-26 3:30PM
Very familiar and with men it's just sex easy
Comment #750 by Dikme2 in response to youngcock28 ( view post )
Posted on 12-Mar-26 7:08PM
Me too
Comment #751 by PhilGee in response to youngcock28 ( view post )
Posted on 13-Mar-26 10:39AM
Yes just some hot down to earth male action.
Posted on 13-Mar-26 11:01AM
All we want<3
Comment #753 by youngcock28 in response to PhilGee ( view post )
Posted on 13-Mar-26 11:32AM
Yes i agree
Comment #754 by youngcock28 in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 13-Mar-26 11:32AM
Yess pm if u like
Comment #755 by Kingke in response to the main topic
Posted on 13-Mar-26 12:13PM
Love my bro jobs for years now I have had a few of them are way better than the misus I just like the feeling and how much more than my GF lick it up and let me cum inside the bro dlow and slow
Comment #756 by Kingke in response to the main topic
Posted on 13-Mar-26 12:14PM
Just remember when you get yelled at you can go see the bro clean the head out
Comment #757 by Kingke in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 13-Mar-26 12:18PM
Yes 🥰 bro dlow and juicy lips on each other's cock you can look at my GF I have a video of her fill my mouth and watch My GF lick my balls on the phone
Comment #758 by Kingke in response to youngcock28 ( view post )
Posted on 13-Mar-26 12:19PM
What area
Comment #759 by Kingke in response to WRC ( view post )
Posted on 13-Mar-26 12:19PM
How old are you looking for I'm 37
Comment #760 by youngcock28 in response to Kingke ( view post )
Posted on 13-Mar-26 1:50PM
Manawatu
Posted on 14-Mar-26 2:44AM
Totally agree there.meeting up with a gay guy as compared to some bi guys ive met has been far more satisfying sexually than say a bicurious guy that just wants to know what it feels like to have another guy either suck or wank him off until he cums and then they want to get quickly dressed and leave like it never happened.im bisexual but find myself attracted to gay guys be it gays,sissies,feminine types,submissive or xdressers they all seem to have some attractive quality or another that makes them appealing.also have a soft spot for tall,skinny guys and twinks.
Posted on 14-Mar-26 9:34AM
I now identify as being gay. Best thing ever as being honest allows me to enjoy gay guys and sissies crossdressers. Love wearing panties feel hot in them
Comment #763 by Dikme2 in response to PhilGee ( view post )
Posted on 14-Mar-26 10:43AM
I was married for a long time and I never felt satisfied. Once I realized I was gay my life like you changed for the better. Good luck write to me on my profile. I have to upgrade my status to gold.
Comment #764 by gingertom900 in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 14-Mar-26 11:50AM
There is no profile that I caan find for you
Posted on 15-Mar-26 6:40PM
I’m a bi guy and when I meet up with a guy once we have cum I’m not someone to get dressed fast as and leave. Hell no im staying for more and let’s do it again.
Comment #766 by N121 in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 16-Mar-26 8:28AM
I know what you mean
Comment #767 by bob1965 in response to N121 ( view post )
Posted on 17-Mar-26 6:26PM
Luv to have a guy cum inside me been a while
Comment #768 by sledge in response to bob1965 ( view post )
Posted on 18-Mar-26 7:40AM
Yes
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Posted on 19-Mar-26 7:45AM
Wish we where closer
Posted on 19-Mar-26 8:34AM
You need to visit DVX in New Lynn, get yourself dressed up and make your sissy holes available. Let people on this site know when you're doing it, and you'll get filled up.
Posted on 19-Mar-26 7:55PM
PM me
Posted on 21-Mar-26 3:46PM
Tauranga have a dvx as well.
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