Taupo - bi male, looking and ready

Married and in the closet, so need to be discrete.
Married, Bi, quite sub, like to try bottom, (but not experienced) but am willing to be versatile.
Really love sucking and swallowing.
Dirty mind and willing to do anything and everything with the right person or group. Unfortunately I can't host easily, but willing to travel. I have just moved to Taupo, so not easy to just pop out without getting wife suspicious, as she knows all my friends!!

Willing to join a "club" so I have an excuse to disappear for a bit of fun, any ideas? I like cycling but just getting back to it, so fitness levels a bit low