Looking to explore kink and fetishes

Hi everyone I'm Courtney a cross dresser. This doesn't mean I'm sitting around dressed like my photos waiting for you to message me so we can meet up tonight.

It takes time to transform into Courtney and I don't do it that often so it's more likely that I'm sitting round in jeans and a tee shirt than a dress and sexy lingerie all made up

I also play as a normal male.

When I'm m not dressed as Courtney I'm a pretty normal kiwi guy, like the outdoors and hunt, fish, tramp, mountain bike etc and work keeps me reasonably fit.

I'm a fairly slim build, clean shaven face and pubic area and clip most other body hair.

So what am I looking for?
Genuine people who aren't dreamers or time wasters.
People who are clean and tidy, smell nice, and not seriously overweight,shaven or groomed downstairs. I like being outdoors in the bush but not being indoors in your bush.

I hosted my first party recently and I plan on hosting a few a year which will have slightly different themes so I'm interested in meeting people who might want to attend my kink parties.

I'm looking for females, couples and crossdressers who look good and go to some effort (putting on a bra and panties is not cross dressing guys)  for group sex, gangbangs, water sports, the more kink the better. 
I'm very open minded and not much will shock me. I dont do serious pain or blood sports but will try most things once.

I like BDSM, (rope play, breath play, cbt, fetishes, anal play, spanking the list goes on)
I enjoy dominating people and I'm good at it, but will also switch for the right person.

Not looking to hook up with single guys but you will be considered for kink parties. A group situation is different

I have absolutely no time for people who mess me around, I treat all people fairly but don't offer second chances, if you muck me around or dont turn up to an arranged meeting I will not meet with you
Discretion is assured and expected.