We are the people our parents warned us about...

What part of being a married lesbian do men not understand? This means .. yes, I am married to another female and the last thing I want is your genitals in my face or to fuck your wife/partner/girlfriend while you watch and jerk off so don't even go there! I have exactly what and who I want lying next to me every night. I'm a walking condradiction. I can be extroverted and introverted. I can be shy and yet forward. I can be traditional and at the same time seriously weird. Ideally I would like to hook up with other gay women, not for sex as I am extremely happy with that part of my life with my wifey .. but for friendship and support if we mesh. I am happy to make friends with anyone really as long as you respect my boundaries. Oh and FYI I am not a gumboot, flannel shirt wearing leso (like the last gentleman who messaged me accused me of being). I wear heels and lipstick, although do also rock around in jeans and a hoodie