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Preperation for anal sex....
Discussion - started by KinkyMinx, posted on 26-Sep-19 8:09PM
Id be keen to hear what people do to prepare their anal passage for anal sex in order to avoid the obvious.
Ive read all kinds of preparations and methods however still havnt found one that is non-invasive and mild.
Would love to hear what people have tried?

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Comment #1 by Nersayus in response to the main topic
Posted on 1-Oct-19 6:44PM
I find that simply moving your bowels a bit in advance is usually sufficient. I personally often find all the douching many people do makes matters worse! Most of the time with a decent diet little other than a bowel motion and some time for the body to adjust following it is needed.

I also think if you want to play in those areas you can't be completely freaked out by the occasional encounter. I'm def not into scat, but as a lover of anal play I'm accepting of the human body and the natural use of it when accidents happen.

If I am going to use anything I prefer the hot water bottle style douching kits. You do need a lot of time in advance to do a good job though. Multiple run throughs and then a reasonable time for the body to absorb the water.
Comment #2 by KinkyMinx in response to Nersayus ( view post )
Posted on 1-Oct-19 11:35PM
Thanks for sharing. I agree sometimes it's as simple as a normal bowel motion beforehand.
I'm also not one to freak out by the occasional encounter

Can you explain the hot water bottle douching kit please....
Comment #3 by Nersayus in response to KinkyMinx ( view post )
Posted on 1-Oct-19 11:38PM
It's just a style of kit you can buy. They generally come in one of three methods of delivery for water/fluid

- bulb type you squeeze usually about half a liter max
- water bottle types usually a couple litres and gravity fed
- the connect to the tap style. Unlimited in volume but expert level required to use.

I prefer the middle ground ones. Effective but low risk. Easily transportable and cleanable.
Comment #4 by EvenEden in response to Nersayus ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-19 2:16AM
Yes. I researched that porn stars usually have enemas before anal scenes.
Comment #5 by KinkyMinx in response to Nersayus ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-19 6:28AM
Would you do this the day before as I can imagine the fluid would continue to flush out for a few hours afterwards?
Comment #6 by KinkyMinx in response to EvenEden ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-19 6:30AM
Yes enemas are another level again but probably on par with the middle ground option that 'Nersayus' mentions above.
Comment #7 by Nersayus in response to KinkyMinx ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-19 7:33AM
The day before would be too far ahead. I've struggled to find the optimum time but I think its somewhere around 3 hours or so ahead of time?
Comment #8 by Pressplay in response to the main topic
Posted on 5-Oct-19 12:40PM
Have ensured a good bowel movement sometime beforehand. Guess others right with anal play maybe encounter occassionally so if dont like prob should not go there
Comment #9 by GoodTimesRoll in response to the main topic
Posted on 10-Oct-19 9:47PM
I think diet in the day or so before plays a huge part. Avoid too much meat and have a good balance of fibre. Some people just have different constitutions too, so it pays to know your body.
Comment #10 by Mabwithu in response to Nersayus ( view post )
Posted on 17-Oct-19 10:22AM
I have found douching up to 4 or 5 hrs before gives clean results
Comment #11 by Mabwithu in response to the main topic
Posted on 17-Oct-19 10:26AM
There is a small douching apparatus on Wish that I find works very well and is small enough to carry in your purse or pocket, just takes several times to make a good clean
Comment #12 by discostick in response to the main topic
Posted on 17-Oct-19 10:58AM
I find douching about 2 hours before the time using luke warm water does the trick. Using the bulb type applicator. About half a litre and taking your time getting rid of it.
Afterward when all is clear a hot shower and some playtime with yourself using one?s favourite toy, just to make sure all the fluids is cleared.
Comment #13 by KinkyMinx in response to Mabwithu ( view post )
Posted on 22-Oct-19 1:23PM
Thanks for that. Can you screenshot a pic of the item on wish or post thr details please?
Comment #14 by KinkyMinx in response to discostick ( view post )
Posted on 22-Oct-19 1:25PM
So all you buy is a bulb applicator and the rest is just warm water?
Great tip, thanks.
Comment #15 by Samcappz in response to the main topic
Posted on 22-Oct-19 7:34PM
I think one of the things to remember is that if you're doing anal play then you are having a party at shits house and while that is awesome and fun, you can't be freaked out by a small accidental arrival of something undesired. I think when you take some of the pressure off about that it helps everyone relax and contributes to a lot more fun
Posted on 23-Oct-19 1:42PM
its really quite normal to experience the occasional encounter. Just gotta be patient with it, instead of being excessively fussy, that would kill the fun and the feelings
Comment #17 by EvenEden in response to the main topic
Posted on 23-Oct-19 11:45PM
I could tell you about my first physical experience with this sexual act.
It was accidental.
Comment #18 by discostick in response to the main topic
Posted on 27-Oct-19 7:10AM
What did you find the best prelude is for anal sex?
For me, it?s start slow with something small. Like your finger or fingers then gradually work it up to larger. Don?t want to rush it straight onto something big. Water based lubes is good, but choose a good brand.
Comment #19 by KinkyMinx in response to EvenEden ( view post )
Posted on 27-Oct-19 9:49PM
Do tell...?
Comment #20 by EvenEden in response to KinkyMinx ( view post )
Posted on 28-Oct-19 12:03AM
PM'd...
Comment #21 by EvenEden in response to KinkyMinx ( view post )
Posted on 29-Oct-19 11:39AM
We both liked it..
Comment #22 by KinkyMinx in response to EvenEden ( view post )
Posted on 1-Nov-19 6:59AM
Thanks
Comment #23 by EvenEden in response to the main topic
Posted on 3-Nov-19 4:15PM
Welcome.
Looking for an ATM Machine are you.."giggles"

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