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Discussion - started by Miss_ayla, posted on 5-May-19 1:12PM
Ladies, join in with answers. Men, anything you have wanted to really know?

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Comment #166 by EvenEden in response to Miss_ayla ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 2:45PM
It does look nice, Ayla. Sorry if I've been sounding like a prick to you lately. :/
Comment #167 by Miss_ayla in response to EvenEden ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 5:04PM
I'm very hard to offend and I didn't think that anyway
Comment #168 by merksmith in response to the main topic
Posted on 5-Jun-19 6:19PM
Hey ladies... a question arising from the period conversation please.
I have somehow turned my wife off anal. It is at least 18 years since we last did. I dont know what or why put her her off and she wont entertain a serious discussion on the subject.
Any thoughts on how I get it back on the menu please.
Comment #169 by Miss_ayla in response to merksmith ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 6:22PM
I would suggest a slippery gentle finger, maybe while eating her, but she'd have to be super aroused and maybe a bit tipsy... But I would also say, that after 18 years she's probably forgotten how good it can feel.
Comment #170 by merksmith in response to Miss_ayla ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 6:27PM
We do a lot of eating, both of us enjoy! Occasionally the wet finger and often a tongue goes back, but anything bigger is off limits. Thanks for suggestion!
Comment #171 by Miss_ayla in response to merksmith ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 6:28PM
She's scared? Either of pain or cleanliness?
Comment #172 by merksmith in response to Miss_ayla ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 6:31PM
I dont know Miss Ayla, possibly both. She once fisted me (which was unbelievable for me), but a bit messy. Has not been a starter either way since. Maybe the reason...
Comment #173 by Miss_ayla in response to merksmith ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 6:33PM
Nothing a shower can't fix.
Comment #174 by merksmith in response to Miss_ayla ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 6:35PM
Yep, my position too. Maybe I need to retry open communication. Thanks.
Comment #175 by Miss_ayla in response to merksmith ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 6:36PM
My first husband refused to use my ass, lasted 4 months... I'm not going to be in a lifetime commitment if I'm not getting what I need
Comment #176 by merksmith in response to Miss_ayla ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 6:40PM
You a better person than me. Two kids and dont really want to change. Would just be lovely if she was open to it. She is very small in the backside tbf... made it marvellous for me!
Comment #177 by merksmith in response to Miss_ayla ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 7:18PM
Sorry, should have said... your first husband needed his head read!!!
Comment #178 by Miss_ayla in response to merksmith ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 7:25PM
He still does we've 2 kids together. He now tries to get all matey... Nope. Just nope.
Comment #179 by merksmith in response to Miss_ayla ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 7:36PM

Comment #180 by Nersayus in response to merksmith ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 7:39PM
Talk to her. Suggest maybe talking about toys rather than the whole hog to start maybe?
She may be closed off to it for reasons nothing to do with you too. I've always loved anal but for a very long time I gsve up on it, nothing I did made it comfortable for me. I later found out I had inflammation issues. Sorted that out and lo and behold anal is like I always dreamed it would be! Probably 10 years since giving it up and it's one of my fav activities now. But neither I nor my husband realised what was causing the problem so we couldnt fix it. Had I been a bit more open about it with my gp I might have fixed the issue causing me the problems too. Pity we dont talk more
Comment #181 by merksmith in response to Nersayus ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-19 7:43PM
Like the toys idea. Thanks for your advice! This is a great thread!
Posted on 6-Jun-19 6:33AM
Personally no, no point. May as well be trying to fuck me with a tiny, limp, cold fish *yuck*

Of course, licking is all good and getting everything all wet and slippery but I hate when a guy tries plunging his tongue into my puss. Unless you have a minimum 4" tongue its pointless.

Tease round the outside of the clit, and suck! ;)
Comment #183 by Goodboy6256 in response to the main topic
Posted on 6-Jun-19 4:55PM
What age range is acceptable to ladies? So a woman of a certain age would consider a guy x years younger and y years older?
Or it doesn't matter, its something else - good lover or some characteristic?
Posted on 6-Jun-19 5:00PM
It's personal preference. I have gone as old as 80, older the better for me, it's my thing. I don't like younger than me but I've actively avoided fucking 20 sometimes, I could be missing out?
There's an old thread about age gaps somewhere.
Posted on 6-Jun-19 5:13PM
Y does no one like transgender people on here
Posted on 6-Jun-19 5:16PM
I'm friends with a couple, but not online. I think you just have to keep looking, some people are just trolls.
Posted on 6-Jun-19 5:17PM
Most men are and hard to tell with couples
Posted on 6-Jun-19 5:19PM
Many couples are not actually couples. Even I've been trolled.
Posted on 6-Jun-19 5:44PM
Plenty of people do. But you are a long trolling timewaster which anyone here for more than 5 minutes realises. It's not the transgender but your constant lying and attention seeking that does it!
Posted on 6-Jun-19 6:15PM
Whats the trick to get noticed on here? Is it participating in discussions? Collecting friends? It seems couples are the most active in seeking partners.
Posted on 6-Jun-19 7:21PM
Yes, being active in discussions definitely helps.
Not just making comments for the sake of it though, as a few males on here do.
You're doing great so far, Mr!
Posted on 6-Jun-19 7:32PM
Hey thanks for that - really appreciate it. There have been 2 or 3 ladies who have helped with profile and our earlier discussion about pics have helped.Palm. North on this site seems to be all couples or men seeking men - who knew?
Oh for a lady!
Posted on 6-Jun-19 7:32PM
We women tend to get noticed more. As others have said discussions, invest some real thought into them. Be real and personable :) the rest you play by ear.
Comment #194 by Miss_ayla in response to merksmith ( view post )
Posted on 7-Jun-19 5:01PM
Did you chat to the Mrs?
Comment #195 by Miss_ayla in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Jun-19 9:05PM
Come on guys! Ask something dirty, that's been on your mind. Otherwise this place gets stale
Posted on 8-Jun-19 6:29AM
So never having given or hosted anal. What is the etiquette in having anal? Presumably pre clean is a must but how? Lube? Why do people like it? What sensations or orgasm can one get( if receiving) and is it better than pussy sex?
Comment #197 by merksmith in response to Miss_ayla ( view post )
Posted on 8-Jun-19 2:02PM
Not yet. This has been a very long-standing niggle and we have other issues for us at the moment. Think that i will shut up about it for a while and then approach as you suggest when we have space without kids.
I appreciate the advice thank you!
Comment #198 by merksmith in response to Miss_ayla ( view post )
Posted on 8-Jun-19 6:54AM
That was one incredibly fortunate 80 year old!
Posted on 8-Jun-19 6:58AM
How many guys make a gang bang? Is two enough if they can tag team?
Posted on 8-Jun-19 7:02AM
The thread title is ask a lady... but i have some experience from both ends of this. With empty bowels there is no significant issues- as the ladies said above, if you are worried share a shower after. On the other hand if you clean with an enema it is hard to get perfectly clean and can make things worse. More liquid!
Lots of lube lubes a given!
Comment #201 by EvenEden in response to Miss_ayla ( view post )
Posted on 8-Jun-19 7:46AM
Something dirty. Seen some DAP and triple anal penetration vids and didn't even think these were physically possible. Ever indulged Ayla?
Comment #202 by captcunninglus in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Jun-19 9:49AM
So when a dude is licking your clitty and you orgasm is the pleasure linear or exponential ?
Posted on 8-Jun-19 10:04AM
Good question Id like to think of my orgasms as linear as I cum I am taken up into a heightened state. Although some could argue their orgasm can take on that of an exponential curve. Either way if youre cumming from someone licking your clit then someone is doing a great job hahahahaha
Posted on 8-Jun-19 1:00PM
Thanks.
Posted on 8-Jun-19 9:38PM
hahaha yeah who cares in the end. but i have had ladies say that their orgasms can vary greatly.
never had that as a man though. maybe because we are insensitive bastards. .
Comment #206 by Mclovinit in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Jun-19 9:43PM
Do you enjoy you asshole being licked?
Posted on 8-Jun-19 10:09PM
Definitely clean and do NOT under any circumstances go from anal to pussy unless a fresh condom used!! Can have some very nasty side effects for the lady (bacterial infections) and I am constantly surprised how many men either dont know this or just dont give a shit (pun intended )
Posted on 8-Jun-19 10:37PM
Thanks for that and makes perfect sense. So one response has been bowel empty but not clean. You say clean - how do you practically do that? Enemas? Laxatives?
Posted on 8-Jun-19 10:43PM
Just normal hygiene. wouldn't go down the laxatives road as that may make for a messy time. I reckon as long as there has been a bowel movement that day you should be right for that night. This is for straight anal though.. no gaping or stretching.
Posted on 8-Jun-19 10:58PM
Such a sheltered life I've led, its why I'm a good boy
Time I became a naughty boy perhaps
Comment #211 by Goodboy6256 in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Jun-19 3:10PM
Q1 Do ladies prefer to remove their own clothes or have them removed prior to a Une liaison pornographique?
Q2 Do ladies prefer to take his clothes off - or is he big enough to do it himself, thank you?
Posted on 9-Jun-19 3:55PM
Completely depends on the moment and the person you're with! Just go with the flow. Read each other's bodies.
Posted on 9-Jun-19 4:00PM
Yeah Im not hung up about it. Just asking
comment #214 was clobbered
Posted on 9-Jun-19 5:50PM
I just love it in a group sex setting. It means everyone can fuck everyone, which is double the fun!

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