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It does look nice, Ayla. Sorry if I've been sounding like a prick to you lately. :/

I'm very hard to offend and I didn't think that anyway

Hey ladies... a question arising from the period conversation please.
I have somehow turned my wife off anal. It is at least 18 years since we last did. I dont know what or why put her her off and she wont entertain a serious discussion on the subject.
Any thoughts on how I get it back on the menu please.

I would suggest a slippery gentle finger, maybe while eating her, but she'd have to be super aroused and maybe a bit tipsy... But I would also say, that after 18 years she's probably forgotten how good it can feel.

We do a lot of eating, both of us enjoy! Occasionally the wet finger and often a tongue goes back, but anything bigger is off limits. Thanks for suggestion!

She's scared? Either of pain or cleanliness?

I dont know Miss Ayla, possibly both. She once fisted me (which was unbelievable for me), but a bit messy. Has not been a starter either way since. Maybe the reason...

Nothing a shower can't fix.

Yep, my position too. Maybe I need to retry open communication. Thanks.

My first husband refused to use my ass, lasted 4 months... I'm not going to be in a lifetime commitment if I'm not getting what I need

You a better person than me. Two kids and dont really want to change. Would just be lovely if she was open to it. She is very small in the backside tbf... made it marvellous for me!

Sorry, should have said... your first husband needed his head read!!!

He still does we've 2 kids together. He now tries to get all matey... Nope. Just nope.

Talk to her. Suggest maybe talking about toys rather than the whole hog to start maybe?
She may be closed off to it for reasons nothing to do with you too. I've always loved anal but for a very long time I gsve up on it, nothing I did made it comfortable for me. I later found out I had inflammation issues. Sorted that out and lo and behold anal is like I always dreamed it would be! Probably 10 years since giving it up and it's one of my fav activities now. But neither I nor my husband realised what was causing the problem so we couldnt fix it. Had I been a bit more open about it with my gp I might have fixed the issue causing me the problems too. Pity we dont talk more

Like the toys idea. Thanks for your advice! This is a great thread!

Personally no, no point. May as well be trying to fuck me with a tiny, limp, cold fish *yuck*

Of course, licking is all good and getting everything all wet and slippery but I hate when a guy tries plunging his tongue into my puss. Unless you have a minimum 4" tongue its pointless.

Tease round the outside of the clit, and suck! ;)

What age range is acceptable to ladies? So a woman of a certain age would consider a guy x years younger and y years older?
Or it doesn't matter, its something else - good lover or some characteristic?

It's personal preference. I have gone as old as 80, older the better for me, it's my thing. I don't like younger than me but I've actively avoided fucking 20 sometimes, I could be missing out?
There's an old thread about age gaps somewhere.

Y does no one like transgender people on here

I'm friends with a couple, but not online. I think you just have to keep looking, some people are just trolls.

Most men are and hard to tell with couples

Many couples are not actually couples. Even I've been trolled.

Plenty of people do. But you are a long trolling timewaster which anyone here for more than 5 minutes realises. It's not the transgender but your constant lying and attention seeking that does it!

Whats the trick to get noticed on here? Is it participating in discussions? Collecting friends? It seems couples are the most active in seeking partners.

Yes, being active in discussions definitely helps.
Not just making comments for the sake of it though, as a few males on here do.
You're doing great so far, Mr!

Hey thanks for that - really appreciate it. There have been 2 or 3 ladies who have helped with profile and our earlier discussion about pics have helped.Palm. North on this site seems to be all couples or men seeking men - who knew?
Oh for a lady!

We women tend to get noticed more. As others have said discussions, invest some real thought into them. Be real and personable :) the rest you play by ear.

Did you chat to the Mrs?

Come on guys! Ask something dirty, that's been on your mind. Otherwise this place gets stale

So never having given or hosted anal. What is the etiquette in having anal? Presumably pre clean is a must but how? Lube? Why do people like it? What sensations or orgasm can one get( if receiving) and is it better than pussy sex?

Not yet. This has been a very long-standing niggle and we have other issues for us at the moment. Think that i will shut up about it for a while and then approach as you suggest when we have space without kids.
I appreciate the advice thank you!

That was one incredibly fortunate 80 year old!

How many guys make a gang bang? Is two enough if they can tag team?

The thread title is ask a lady... but i have some experience from both ends of this. With empty bowels there is no significant issues- as the ladies said above, if you are worried share a shower after. On the other hand if you clean with an enema it is hard to get perfectly clean and can make things worse. More liquid!
Lots of lube lubes a given!

Something dirty. Seen some DAP and triple anal penetration vids and didn't even think these were physically possible. Ever indulged Ayla?

So when a dude is licking your clitty and you orgasm is the pleasure linear or exponential ?

Good question Id like to think of my orgasms as linear as I cum I am taken up into a heightened state. Although some could argue their orgasm can take on that of an exponential curve. Either way if youre cumming from someone licking your clit then someone is doing a great job hahahahaha

Thanks.

hahaha yeah who cares in the end. but i have had ladies say that their orgasms can vary greatly.
never had that as a man though. maybe because we are insensitive bastards. .

Do you enjoy you asshole being licked?

Definitely clean and do NOT under any circumstances go from anal to pussy unless a fresh condom used!! Can have some very nasty side effects for the lady (bacterial infections) and I am constantly surprised how many men either dont know this or just dont give a shit (pun intended )

Thanks for that and makes perfect sense. So one response has been bowel empty but not clean. You say clean - how do you practically do that? Enemas? Laxatives?

Just normal hygiene. wouldn't go down the laxatives road as that may make for a messy time. I reckon as long as there has been a bowel movement that day you should be right for that night. This is for straight anal though.. no gaping or stretching.

Such a sheltered life I've led, its why I'm a good boy
Time I became a naughty boy perhaps

Q1 Do ladies prefer to remove their own clothes or have them removed prior to a Une liaison pornographique?
Q2 Do ladies prefer to take his clothes off - or is he big enough to do it himself, thank you?

Completely depends on the moment and the person you're with! Just go with the flow. Read each other's bodies.

Yeah Im not hung up about it. Just asking

I just love it in a group sex setting. It means everyone can fuck everyone, which is double the fun!