Showing comments 1 through 24 out of 24 comments

Mate, if you find the answer let me know. In the meantime look after your sanity and get your sexual needs fulfilled in a safe consensual environment. Tried escorts in your area? Saved my life. The stress of little sex is real and wears you down over a long period

It?s a tough one... gee, a guys got to do what a guys got to do.
Have you tried discussing it at all - I know that?s also tough. But, once I mustered up the courage, I was surprised at what a positive reaction I got.

Someone else might be fucking her

Nice

More to life at times than sex ... Work pressure , kid drama , money dramas ... The list goes on and on that could cause her to switch , real men stand by their woman

I feel like life is too short to remain in an unfulfilling or incompatible relationship out of 'loyalty'. I definitely wouldn't feel that someone was a 'real man' for sticking with me even though he wasn't happy -quite the opposite actually. But that's my opinion, the 'real man' phrase always comes across as telling men it's their role to tolerate shit.

Read about "deadbedrooms". Gather ideas on how to approach the issue sensitively and of course talk about it. Read success stories from people in similar situations, get inspired. It's not unusual that confronting it goes really well, may learn more about each other and have an increase in understanding and intimacy. gl

Nice advice true if it mot there then fix it or move on

If it wasn't for his ( I might be to kinky ) comment I would have agreed with you .... Your comment about tolerate shit , most times the shit is caused by the bloke

great comments.

There's only one recourse: Talk. To your wife, that is, and not to random unknowns on the interwebs. It may require a third party in the form of a counselor. But if you are really serious about making a change in your relationship, and this is not just a sledgehammeresque subtle hint to ask for some fun times in your area, then conservation with the right person is what you need to do.

well for starters... GET OFF THIS SITE... you need to grab her.. fuck her senseless and then tell her you love her... simple.. grow some balls and do it... after all she is your wife !!!!

Well said
Stop bleating on here and talk to her after you have given her a good root

too easy aye

Yeah, fuck her sensless, that's the answer Do you know if he's in a position to give her a good root? Do you know if she's interested in him fucking her senseless? etc etc. Of course not, so offer something of value, or nothing at all, rather than 'fuck her senseless'

And... if she doesn't want that?

well he clearly shouldnt be on here asking for advice on how to fix his marriage

Why not? There are a lot of people on this site who can give good, honest advice. Admittedly, one has to cut through the dumb shit people post at times, but there are many people who have received honest, down to earth gold at times, including me.

im guessing its dating sites and most prob porn that turned his marriage upside down. i could be wrong.. but makes me wonder.

he is looking for someone in blenheim to chat with ... why ??? maybe this is just bait for his sexual pleasures

Well, none of us really know any of that, do we?

Hes come to this site for some advice, wether it be the right spot or not, its HIS choice. To be fair, he also has to deal with some of the purile remarks made as well, like grabbing her like some mindless caveman and giving her a bloody good root. Life doesnt work that way in the 21st century ... certainly it shouldnt!

talk to her be honest