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hi yeah im into the polyamory scene and share my time with 6 others. got 2 living with me and we all share.
I love the freedom and theres no jealousy and nsa.

I think Pollyamory is disgusting. Having sex with a parrot is just wrong, wrong, wrong.

Well i don't think it has any thing to do with a parott.

That's Polycrackerory

Yep awesome must try it.

yeah am the 3rd wheek in two poly r/s both couples from out of town, be nice to have a local and start one here

some poly relationships have a primary but I do not try to show any favouritism to any.
But deep down there is always going to favourite
I suppose its like being a mormon with 3 wives except we arnt married to any and they can cum and go so to speak.

Makes for a busy life. Great you have thr freedom with no jealousy as I understand that doesnt just happen straight away. Its something that you work up too.

I think by identifying who are primary and secondarys, lovers or fwbs makes it clear who brings what to the circle. I dont think its about having favourites.

Check out 'more than one' website. Has some really great info.

sometimes it depends on the poly as in one partner plays with two or all in ie partner bi etc

Don't do it.

Trust me on this.

Didn't you have issues with one of your poly partners a while back though?
Or am I mis-remembering things?

Or none of the partners play together at all.
Every circle is completely different as long as every agrees and plays by the rules then it can work amazing

I know of lots of people this arrangement works well for. Some are just not cut out of polyamory just like some people aren't wired to live monogamy.
If all adults are consenting and play for the rules set it works really well.

Mmm sounds like a good arrangement.
I would like to meet some polymory
People in person.
If any one in Hamilton i would like to hear from you.

thanks I will check that website out

Yeah we've had a few hiccups along the way. Sometimes other relationships have rocked the boat and members of our group have needed more love and attention at times.
But I must say the sisterhood is very strong and patient and forgiving. They have such a close bond it is inspiring to see.

Great it works. Just like any relationship/s there are always challenges, comes down to how you deal with any issues.
There are many polyamorous relationships where partners dont all know each other (and theres no expectation to either) so interesting that all of yours do.

well we say we are all open about everything but in reality it just comes down to trust and respect and being openminded and non judgemental. None of us are perfect and we dont expect it.
They crucified the last guy who was perfect. .

Hi. I?m in a relationship like this. My boyfriend has a girlfriend and I think she also is with another couple.

So how do you feel about sharing your
Boy friend with others?
Do you find it a good turn on?
To me it's very interesting.

Good on you. There is no normal relationship that fits everyone. You need to find a dynamic thats suits you and your partner(s) best. They think that originally we were similar to other animals in that we all had multiple partners to breed. its only natural and instinctive behaviour. There is no shame. We only differ from other animals in that we have sex for enjoyment too. Theres nothing wrong in sharing the love. You go girl.

I find it a huge turn on

That's awesome miss -k.
Yes i get a huge turn on when me and my partner have the ocasional bimmf.
Later her and i have sex and it's a awesome feeling to have shared the love.
We hope at some time we can extend it to a small circle.

Seems you have it made there. There must be a fragile line to be careful about to make sure the group stays intact. Judgemental people would probably regard you as greedy.

yes very fragile at times but everyone sees someone else as well and they all have their primarys. And some come and go and some come back and some dont NSA

In a poly relationship, it is vital?perhaps even more vital than in a monogamous relationship for everyone involved to know and understand the rules of the relationship, and abide by them. A successful poly relationship absolutely requires honesty, trust and security from everyone involved. If you cannot abide by the relationship?s rules, you cannot expect to make a polyamorous relationship work.

In societies where polygyny is practiced, women are usually seen as little more than property. Since people have this mistaken notion of polyamory, it?s easy to understand why they think ?polyamory? means ?disrespect of women.?

Polyamory is not polygyny....that's where the judgy part comes in!

Polyamory applies equally to everybody. In an ethical polyamorous relationship, the same opportunities are afforded to everyone, regardless of their sex. Polyamory is not about collecting a bunch of women for your harem.

I agree totally.
Total honesty is always the best route. Being open and honest is so important because as soon as mistrust or doubt comes into it, it's a slippery slope to failure.
Personally I have a couple of FWBs as well as 2 gorgeous ladies that I am in a relationship with.
At times I struggle with jealousy (it is hard to keep it down sometimes) but talking about the feelings and emotions is so important to keep things grounded and happy. Verification of the feelings for each other pushes those thoughts back where they belong and things continue happy and steamy as hell. Love it.

Damn, you guys are convincing me to go poly.

Check out 'more than two' website and read the FAQs first as this will give a great overall insight.

100% agree with everything you say. Poly rships are just as much hard work if not harder then mono relationships due to the complexities that WE humans bring to the table!

Exactly - everybody needs to be on the same page and know to be totally honest. Being honest with each other is probably one of the hardest things I've found - but if you can do that - nobody is in any doubt and the trust is 100%. If you don't like something, tell them - don't beat around the bush. Hiding these things leads to frustration and mistrust.
It's so hard, but if you get it right it has amazing rewards.

Exactly if everyone is aware of everyone else then there is trust and hopefully no discord. And an open door policy gives everyone the sense of freedom .
Yes I must admit also that I have had moments of jealousy too and its been hard to see some ladies go. But in the end their happiness is more important But we too are bound by the rules of the collective