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How do I convince my gf to have mmf
Discussion - started by up4fun, posted on 7-Dec-19 8:04PM
Trying to convince gf to having mmf.. I just love the fact of her being pleasured while I watch.. best way to convince her?? Based in Hamilton btw

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Comment #1 by Alex99 in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Dec-19 8:36PM
Watch some mmf porn and see if it turns her on. If it does ask if she has ever thought about trying it.
Comment #2 by up4fun in response to Alex99 ( view post )
Posted on 7-Dec-19 8:37PM
Yea that's a good idea.. thanks
Comment #3 by robbierabbit in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Dec-19 9:54PM
Show her my pics. That should do it
Comment #4 by Clayton in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Dec-19 11:19PM
In my experience when the guy is keener than his lady to have a mmf and she ends up agreeing for his sake... it doesn't end well. My suggestion is be honest with her and explain why a mmf turns you on... you need to build loads of trust with her first... good luck.
Comment #5 by Nzsurfer101 in response to Clayton ( view post )
Posted on 8-Dec-19 3:09AM
Very well put Clayton. Both parties absolutely have to be on the same page before entering into a threesome environment no matter the sex.
Comment #6 by Majichanz in response to Clayton ( view post )
Posted on 8-Dec-19 5:42AM
So true....
Comment #7 by MrSttamina69er in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Dec-19 5:44AM
I'm interested
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Comment #9 by MrSttamina69er in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Dec-19 7:50AM
Invite me around I'll bring some wine lube let's watch some soft and slow porn you give her fourplay then I'll slowly kiss lick and passh her pussy
Comment #10 by up4fun in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Dec-19 10:18AM
Thanks for the help.. will see what I can do
Comment #11 by boots in response to up4fun ( view post )
Posted on 8-Dec-19 12:17PM
Common question isn't it mate take it slow and let her call the shoot's if she feels she is in control it'll help. Definitely make sure the first guy shows respect and isn't pushy. Meet for a drink and let her decide if it's a go or not so definitely no pressure.
Funny thing a fearfew Auckland couples come to Hamilton to try it.
If it's fun it's great not then stop.
Comment #12 by robbierabbit in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Dec-19 1:21PM
Smiles at all the single guys offering advice
Comment #13 by Laseredfeild in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Dec-19 6:52AM
Have ya ever thought about going along to a swingers party ??
Meet ppl that enjoy having fun with others, & great way to meet ppl with open minds ( swingers seem to be alot more relaxed about sex)
Go along to a party, watch and see what happens,
My wife & I have hosted many parties over the years so seen mmf mff FFF , & all has taken place in very relaxed scenarios ....
I personally have joined a cpl for fun & was only after had asked if they minded ( never presume it's ok)
Swingers parties all have a no means no policy if some ones not interested or something is happening then they have right to say no .... & Shld always be respected.
Comment #14 by Bigjman in response to Laseredfeild ( view post )
Posted on 11-Dec-19 12:46PM
You could just ask her if she'd like to see you playing with another guy and if shes keen she can join in
Comment #15 by Cum_Connoisseur in response to the main topic
Posted on 11-Dec-19 3:08PM
Ask her why she doesn't want to try a mfm and use her answer/s to solve the problem she has with it.
Comment #16 by DeviantQueen in response to the main topic
Posted on 13-Dec-19 2:03PM
You can't force or convince people to do what isnt within them. And tbh .. shouldn't try. By all means talk with her and discuss, yet just maybe you're enough for her. If she's not into it or is .. it is her choice and this needs to be respected :)
Posted on 13-Dec-19 2:18PM
Totally agree with you...
Comment #18 by Robbie63 in response to the main topic
Posted on 15-Dec-19 3:58PM
At end of day it's her choice to do it or not.
If she tells you NO well that's it.
Time to find a new girlfriend who is into mmf. There are many out there who want mmf and can't find the right guys who would treat her right.
You can't make any woman do any thing she don't want to do.
A real man would respect that.""""
Comment #19 by Majichanz in response to the main topic
Posted on 15-Dec-19 4:07PM
Communicate with her

Some men assume their partners like this and that...

Talk to her and go from there... There might be something she likes n wants
Comment #20 by Hamilton_Dude in response to the main topic
Posted on 15-Dec-19 4:16PM
Did you try asking her what she likes? Maybe that will help her see common ground for your fantasy and make her understand
Posted on 15-Dec-19 8:56PM
When I met my partner we talked about the different things wed experienced. We'd both had threesomes but she had never experienced mmf was always ffm so I asked her if she would like to try it straight away she said eww no so I said how do you know its eww if you have never tried it. We then had a few drinks one night and a friend of mine was there so I asked her if she would be interested and she said oh go on then you only live once. She totally took control and now prefers it over ffm. My advice is make it all about her and let her have full control.
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Comment #23 by Up4mmf in response to the main topic
Posted on 31-Dec-19 2:52PM
My wife said I should of told her we could of had so much fun after we split
Comment #24 by Robbie63 in response to Up4mmf ( view post )
Posted on 31-Dec-19 3:16PM
Yep they usually say these things after the divorce.
It's just to make you feel guilty.
Move on as there be a woman out there who thinks like you.
Just be up front you will be surprised at what happens.
Posted on 31-Dec-19 3:44PM
It can be that simple. My partner and I started by her saying in a pub "I could fuck him" I said go for it. She did. Their 2nd meeting was at our place.
We then went to a Sydney sex club just to watch. She went crazy.
After the initial rush we calmed down a bit to meeting other couples and guys about once a month. Usually regulars
Posted on 31-Dec-19 4:06PM
Nice
Comment #27 by MarriedM2M in response to the main topic
Posted on 12-Feb-20 9:53PM
I have the same situation my Mrs won't join in a threesome either
Comment #28 by FenderTele in response to the main topic
Posted on 13-Feb-20 6:07PM
Jus saying... There is a difference between MMF and MFM.
MMF usually involves activity between the 2 guys, so bi-play.
MFM is both guys focusing on the women.
I've done both, I didn't use to like anything bi but now I like it to be part of a 3-some with a couple, so prefer MMF.
Good luck dude - if it hasn't happened already! :)
Comment #29 by up4fun in response to FenderTele ( view post )
Posted on 13-Feb-20 7:23PM
Na nothing yet.. having been trying to convince her atm just seeing and hoping she will be keen one day

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