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Is this site worth it anymore
Discussion - started by Drewx21, posted on 27-Jan-20 2:40PM
I'm having a chat with someone and then they get angry and insult and block me.
People waste time non stop.
Far easier to meet someone using apps or just meeting people in real life, rather than the deranged people on here.
There are great people on here but sadly most on here seem to have some serious problems

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Comment #50 by Nersayus in response to the main topic
Posted on 27-Jan-20 2:45PM
For me yes, I don't do apps and my situation isnt well suited to them. For the kind of encounter I'm looking for meeting people in real life isnt going to happen.

Prob a bit different for a young single person though
Comment #51 by Drewx21 in response to Nersayus ( view post )
Posted on 27-Jan-20 2:52PM
Yeah I guess I'm able to go out to clubs and meet people but I'm also interested in meet ups that you can't really just ask someone casually haha its annoying when someone messages you first and then they react to something simple in a crazy way, say abuse and block you instead of just talking like a reasonable person
Comment #52 by Facilitation01 in response to the main topic
Posted on 27-Jan-20 3:08PM
A lot of people on here seem to have a default 'knee jerk reaction' to anything that doesn't seem to fit with their brain. I've experienced it a couple of times in messages, and it's there to see every day in discussions. All communication takes a little bit of effort, and some either can't be bothered, or possibly don't understand the context
Posted on 27-Jan-20 3:17PM
I think one of the problems with messaging people is that they can't read your body language. They don't know if you're joking or being sarcastic and often take comments as insulting.
Posted on 27-Jan-20 4:42PM
Yep, they don't understand the context of your comment, and take the path of least resistance. Easier to abuse than continue with the convo
Comment #55 by Hbcoast in response to the main topic
Posted on 27-Jan-20 5:24PM
We find some people get off on the chase , when it comes down to meeting they shy away , and then get agro .
Guess to swing or have sexual relations we are a wierd bunch in some way or form so have to expect a bit of criticism !
Comment #56 by porsche in response to Nersayus ( view post )
Posted on 27-Jan-20 6:26PM
You are young
Comment #57 by Davidbutler in response to the main topic
Posted on 27-Jan-20 6:37PM
I think it’s a great site. But it did take me some time to learn how to navigate some of the personalities and on what level to take some of the contact you get. I don’t think I’ve ever been blocked, if I have, then who cares.

Move on, there are a lot of interesting and really great people to chat with. I’ve met some fantastic people through the site as well...
Posted on 27-Jan-20 6:53PM
Yes, i think a lot of peoples take being blocked too seriously. Some also use blocking almost like a weapon.
Meh!!! Block away while I move on.
Posted on 27-Jan-20 6:59PM
Its almost like a personal affront. I genuinely couldn't care less. If you choose to be that thin skinned (in the technological society we live in, we all ought to have toughened up at some stage) or sensitive, then it’s actually doing me a favour.
Comment #60 by Hbcoast in response to Davidbutler ( view post )
Posted on 27-Jan-20 7:18PM
Very true , society now is very open about sexuality, to the point where its ok to be gay or sadistic, what ever turns people on , groups for everyone to meet , so why block , answer is is wasn't meant to happen , no shame in that at all !
Comment #61 by Cheekies in response to Drewx21 ( view post )
Posted on 27-Jan-20 7:55PM
Every now and then we get a "is this site worth it" post. Reasonable to you may not be the same reasonable to me. Its very ambiguous The site is an awesome adult playground. Not all players though make the grade and some act like babies and throw their toys out of the cot. You do get what you put in and if you don't then turn your attention else where
Comment #62 by Ben10 in response to the main topic
Posted on 29-Jan-20 6:50PM
Yes
Comment #63 by RustyKnight in response to the main topic
Posted on 1-Feb-20 1:08AM
Nope
Comment #64 by CheekyKate in response to the main topic
Posted on 1-Feb-20 3:34AM
Those people that get angry and block you, let them. If they are so easily offended and unable to be open minded about clarifying something in a chat then they are not worth your time.

:)
Posted on 1-Feb-20 3:35AM
well said :)
Posted on 2-Feb-20 1:55PM
making the grade huh...is that a very fine grade, say like 1200 or a very coarse one like . hehe
Posted on 2-Feb-20 1:58PM
You talking sand paper Sarge?
Posted on 2-Feb-20 2:03PM
It's whatever you want to think it is hun.
Comment #69 by MasterSargeant in response to the main topic
Posted on 2-Feb-20 2:10PM
Like everything in life...you only reap the rewards if you put the effort in, be nice an respectful to people in general and for their opinions unless they are complete fuckwits, then it is your choice to ignore them or not.
Treat all with respect and if the stars align...good things will happen.
Posted on 2-Feb-20 2:17PM
As the old saying goes

Treat others how you wish to be treated
Posted on 2-Feb-20 2:29PM
Comment #72 by Hungermore in response to the main topic
Posted on 20-Mar-20 11:21AM
What other good sites are out there
Comment #73 by Letsdoit in response to Hungermore ( view post )
Posted on 20-Mar-20 11:31AM
I've heard there are but in a land far far away and you can only gain entry by proving how many times you foolishly upgraded your membership!!
Posted on 20-Mar-20 11:38AM
I agree that messaging has changed so much and is so easy to misinterpret what is being said. My main problem has been the ones that seem to understand and make what you think is a sure thing.... then nothing nada zilch. Even when asked for a simple reason no reply. So it seems that I attract the type of person that replys using the wrong head in their body!
Comment #75 by Hungermore in response to Letsdoit ( view post )
Posted on 20-Mar-20 11:42AM
What other good ones are on this far away land
Comment #76 by Davidbutler in response to the main topic
Posted on 20-Mar-20 6:18PM
Not this tired old thread raising its head and making a comeback AGAIN.
Surely there must be something more interesting out there??!
Posted on 20-Mar-20 7:46PM
Yes....it's like blaming the room for the lack of conversation of the people in it and their inability to communicate properly ....

Personally we have found it good.....you just have to discard anyone who fails to read you profile properly and misses the instructions at the bottom...

If you want a quick hookup - this site is not for you . ...if you want people of like minds which leads to great sexual experiences beyond the norm - here it is...
Comment #78 by Letsdoit in response to Funlovers ( view post )
Posted on 20-Mar-20 11:36PM
Of course some of you generally strike it right and there are good people around the corner, my biggest complaint is the ones who don't respond. I don't expect a lengthy reason as to why just a simple yes or no will suffice. Then to try to see if maybe I had somehow offended, again nothing and it isn't a once only it has occurred several times. Maybe the game I want to play brings these time wasters out I don't know but as Tammy Wynette sang "Sometimes it's hard to be a "woman"...."
Comment #79 by Cheekies in response to Letsdoit ( view post )
Posted on 21-Mar-20 7:57AM
Stand by your man! Give him two arms to cling to hahahaha
Comment #80 by Letsdoit in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 21-Mar-20 12:33PM
Yes but in my case the creatures I had a moan about cling would change to "Give him two arms to wring him" Gotta laugh or become an on line Troll. Laughing is better any day.
Comment #81 by jax12 in response to the main topic
Posted on 21-Mar-20 7:23PM
Drew My Darling it is What You Put in Hun Makes this Site!
Comment #82 by Cheekies in response to Letsdoit ( view post )
Posted on 21-Mar-20 10:36PM
I concur laughter is great medicine :)
Comment #83 by Letsdoit in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 22-Mar-20 1:05PM
Wow 3rd to last comment! A prize methinks? Say 3 free blocks on annoying people (not me) with no comeback and smug comments that can't be used against (me) the prize winner. I'll share if it helps hahahaha. How are things with you sweetheart?
Comment #84 by Cheekies in response to Letsdoit ( view post )
Posted on 22-Mar-20 5:01PM
Things are good here with me, yourself??
Comment #85 by Letsdoit in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 22-Mar-20 6:43PM
After that message I gave myself a good talking to and moved on from trying to better the world whilst in provocative clothing watching porn, and began removing old and smelly carpet which my sisters demented chihauhau considered his private ablution block. It was only the hallway and it is done and time to reflect on a secret plot to kill her pet and avoid the blame.
Comment #86 by Davidbutler in response to Letsdoit ( view post )
Posted on 22-Mar-20 7:58PM
(Your posts always make me smile... Have you considered 1080? It’s used widely in parts of the country...)
Posted on 22-Mar-20 8:44PM
The best use of 1080 in this case is to have the plasma TV accidentally fall off the wall onto it....
Comment #88 by Cheekies in response to Letsdoit ( view post )
Posted on 22-Mar-20 10:54PM
Ohh now this could get super creative hahahaha
Comment #89 by Letsdoit in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 23-Mar-20 4:38AM
This has the makings of the next Tarantino movie, "Pulped Pooch" Samuel L Jackson is the voice over of a psychotic, slightly incontinent chihuahua. Chapter 1 " Is this Site worth it?" In a darkened hallway, soft high pitched sniggering is followed by " Si my N###a" Making his way to his doggie bed, his sense of smell picks up the aroma of CAT SHIT laced with 108 When BOOM! The pooh plotter is crushed and killed by a plasma television falling on top of him! "Meoow" Urm Thurman (Here Kitty") whispers " Is this Shite worth it?"
Comment #90 by Cheekies in response to Letsdoit ( view post )
Posted on 23-Mar-20 6:30AM
Im sick of those mutha fooking snakes on the mutha flucking plane hahahaha
Posted on 23-Mar-20 9:19AM
Ba-hahaha!
Hopefully not the latest model!
Comment #92 by Letsdoit in response to Davidbutler ( view post )
Posted on 23-Mar-20 8:19PM
Bit of a laugh eh? On the serious side I want to thank Funlovers and Davidbutler for their ideas, even tho we only had budget 108 not 1 sorry David. That was the reason I put forward a edited script to Mr. Tarintino himself through my agent in LA. At this stage all I've been told is "Fuck off" which in Lala Land can mean lots of things, so fingers crossed we could go Big Time. I don't want to go back to Adult Infomercial vids again, " Easy Steps To Shaving Your and Your Friends Genitals" or "A Beginners Guide To Bleaching Buttholes' Good money but the medical Plan sucks.
Comment #93 by Davidbutler in response to Letsdoit ( view post )
Posted on 24-Mar-20 8:24PM
It's always the medical plans that suck. Especially in the Beginners adult market. Worse than a lame Bobby calf.

Perhaps you could try out for a Book of Mormon look-alike?
Comment #94 by Drewx21 in response to the main topic
Posted on 28-Mar-20 6:03AM
what the f are you people on about
Comment #95 by Funlovers in response to Drewx21 ( view post )
Posted on 28-Mar-20 2:36PM
Sorry - you need the life experience for this one...
Comment #96 by Letsdoit in response to Funlovers ( view post )
Posted on 28-Mar-20 2:50PM
And sensible footwear
Comment #97 by Davidbutler in response to Letsdoit ( view post )
Posted on 28-Mar-20 3:34PM
Not to mention a good set of teeth.
Posted on 28-Mar-20 3:55PM
Pants that are done up at the waist
Comment #99 by Letsdoit in response to Funlovers ( view post )
Posted on 3-Apr-20 12:23AM
Concealing suspenders and sheer stockings...... sorry I was feeling left out. Please keep safe so we can keep smiling together and enjoy having a laugh. Self isolation is easy with porn or another human at least.

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