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It's not a new thing. I've done events, but it was years ago under my old name. I've found a few reasons
1. People are time wasters with no intention of carry through/catfish.
2. They chicken out, usually a self confidence thing.
3. Something genuinely got in the way but they are too shit to let people know.

I organised a couple of events and cancelled them with a week or so to go...reasons were:
1. I was concerned for safety after receiving direct messages that I thought were inappropriate
2. I got abused for having criteria on the gathering
3. I had someone demand to stay in the hotel room if they came to the event.

I just decided both times it was too risky for me.

I was considering hosting at my house, but I will not do that in a million years given the way I was spoken to.

Friend you took the right decision, look after yourself and the safety of others

Totally agree
I host odd bi gay cd trans party, obviously I've been lucky with any mail I've had regarding the event ( yes host in our home ) & had no issues, if had issues those ppl would be blocked ....

Yep agree.