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Has it gone a little quiet here?
Discussion - started by 0penb00k, posted on 20-Jul-20 11:54AM
I’m only recently back from some time away but it seems a little quiet here these days.
Is this to do with the lingering effects of COVID-19? Or are people just not meeting anymore? Or are there other options?

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Comment #11 by MrDaddy in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 10:26AM
I think there are 2. You and me 🤣
Comment #12 by MrDaddy in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 10:28AM
What is the main page that shows that. I can't see that?
Comment #13 by LilyBlack in response to MrDaddy ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 12:34PM
When you Login you will see near the Top Left it say's Online Members! Click on that and you'll see how many Members are supposedly Online! Currently it is showing 2331! Where are They! Two's a Party! Lily x
Comment #14 by 0penb00k in response to MrDaddy ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 1:23PM
Yeah I agree!
Comment #15 by 0penb00k in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 1:23PM
I wonder how many active profiles are left on here?
Comment #16 by 0penb00k in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 1:24PM
Two is a party but three is much more fun!
Comment #17 by LilyBlack in response to 0penb00k ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 1:34PM
You are Right! When you go to Groups, see their Members, Click on certain Members! And Nothing! Gone! I think a High Percentage of Profiles are Inactive! But Online Members are Online Members! That Suggests they are Active and Online! But Not Likely! Lily x
Comment #18 by LilyBlack in response to 0penb00k ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 1:36PM
Three Works for Me! Lily x
Comment #19 by 0penb00k in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 1:50PM
If you are bored let me know... would love to run into you sometime somewhere
Comment #20 by LilyBlack in response to 0penb00k ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 2:01PM
I'm a Girl's Girl Dave! I'm Biased! But! Great to see a guy fully Shaved! As it Should Be! Lily x
Comment #21 by Ivana in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 3:26PM
Methinks this site has been shaved. On past occasions I have made mention to problems here and at least one of the "Managers" has commented on matters strangely none appear to have noticed. HELLO ANYONE HOME???
Comment #22 by LilyBlack in response to Ivana ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 4:08PM
Shaved and Castrated! No One Home! All Gone! Who Knows! Lily x
Comment #23 by Latexlover in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 4:17PM
I have tried to post 2 messages on the mainboard to meet and they have been removed today. Wtf? Anyone keen to play chch :) tonight my place.
Comment #24 by LilyBlack in response to Latexlover ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 4:21PM
No Idea Latex! Sorry! Lily x
Comment #25 by MrDaddy in response to Latexlover ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 4:25PM
Not only people leaving but posts are also!!!! 😎😎
Comment #26 by Ivana in response to MrDaddy ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 5:01PM
Well darlings it looks as if this discussion is now the new dating area. Just for the conspiracy addicts Kim Il Jong , Vladamir Putin and Donald "Duck" Trumnp have been posting for naughty people to make adult movies! True story....
Comment #27 by Justlookin in response to Ivana ( view post )
Posted on 6-Aug-20 6:57PM
I'm relatively new but doesn't seem to be anything happening down south anyways.
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Comment #30 by 0penb00k in response to Robbie63 ( view post )
Posted on 7-Aug-20 7:35PM
Ahh I see
Comment #31 by 0penb00k in response to MrDaddy ( view post )
Posted on 7-Aug-20 7:35PM
I hope we get an uplift.
Comment #32 by Rainmaker in response to 0penb00k ( view post )
Posted on 7-Aug-20 10:35PM
My second time back here and it really does seem dead quiet. It’s a shame really
Comment #33 by DarkNight in response to Rainmaker ( view post )
Posted on 8-Aug-20 3:47PM
All the women have either found new partners or turned lesbian.... or both.
Comment #34 by Calypso122 in response to Rainmaker ( view post )
Posted on 8-Aug-20 6:59PM
They probably got sick of time wasters or guys who think they're calling the shots
Comment #35 by MrDaddy in response to Calypso122 ( view post )
Posted on 9-Aug-20 1:13PM
Shots fired. Maybe you two are as frustrated as the rest of us (if any are here) on how quiet this site has gone. Be nice 😁
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Comment #38 by 0penb00k in response to AschKandor ( view post )
Posted on 10-Aug-20 11:19AM
That’s a shame I wish more people were keen to get some face to face time!
Comment #39 by MrDaddy in response to Calypso122 ( view post )
Posted on 10-Aug-20 11:28AM
Unfortunately even the chats are less frequent here also. Maybe everyone is busy.
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Posted on 10-Aug-20 1:04PM
Well Ive started a fun experiment on General that may spice things up. Calypso, you will love it!
Comment #42 by DeviantQueen in response to the main topic
Posted on 10-Aug-20 6:37PM
The rules of general discussions and events ie this group is for conversations, not just putting up that youre horny and want to get laid nor do the rules allow other websites to be mentioned that are along the lines of NZP. I know this as I can read .
Comment #43 by MrDaddy in response to DeviantQueen ( view post )
Posted on 11-Aug-20 7:37AM
Any problem with discussing how quiet is on this site?
Posted on 11-Aug-20 8:46AM
How do you feel the rules have helped foster discussion and engagement to this point?
Posted on 11-Aug-20 1:32PM
Haha I was hungover and forgot but it's funny because I heard about NZP on that other site
Posted on 11-Aug-20 3:19PM
Hi Sylvia. I have a genuine Question! NZP advertise "Online Members"! This ranges from Two Thousand Two Hundred to Two Thousand Four Hundred the majority of Time! My Question! Where are these Members? There would be lucky to be Ten Percent of that Number actually Online at any one Time! Australia has had Six Members Online in the past Month! Other Countries listed are at Zero Members! Can I assume NZP has a Different Definition to Online Members than we Do! Many Members are Questioning how Quiet it is Here! That would Not be the case if there were the Number of Online Members as Advertised! Can you Please shed Some Light! Thanks! Lily x
Posted on 11-Aug-20 9:07PM
If you want answers to business questions, please ask us directly via the "contact us" page.
Posted on 11-Aug-20 9:56PM
I copied and pasted to NZP directly as requested. Lily
Comment #49 by Robbie63 in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 11-Aug-20 10:06PM
Sorry to hear that Auckland go's into level three lockdown tomorrow at 12midday.4 people with virus1 .
Rest of n.z go's to level at midday.
Comment #50 by LilyBlack in response to Robbie63 ( view post )
Posted on 11-Aug-20 10:10PM
Yes and rest of the country at Level 2. They say for three days but in all likelihood it will be longer. Bugger! Lily x
Posted on 12-Aug-20 6:37PM
they are all worried that they will say something that will be perceived as offensive Lilly, so they say nothing. A discussion is not just saying the same thing to each other that is orthodoxy. However it appears that having a different, taste view or opinion could be taken by the pealclutchers as a matter for vilification and outrage. It also kills humour and banter and they say nothing because it’s not safe to do so. The victim classes rule with fear and silence decent into submission with complaint, cancellation and cries of inhumanity. The rules cement the view of the pearlclutchers into law so that in silence no one may be offended or have their sensibilities hurt in any way. Wouldn’t you agree Lilly?
Posted on 12-Aug-20 9:01PM
Yes, this is the society we live in. Sites like this and many others are not what they were due to laws and human nature and then there is Mother Nature kicking our asses. Ive been on this site since it began pretty much ie going live .. back in the day thats what it was called Its changed so much as it has had no choice but to do so. However look at this .. here we have, hopefully all adults, having a conversation with out ramming ones' opinion down anothers throat .. we are as members and a communtity .. having a discussion :)
Posted on 12-Aug-20 10:05PM
unfortunately this is not the discussion we want to have. we want to have an unsafe discussion in a safe place. DQ you have been here a long time and that is exactly what used to happen. because as outliers and hedonists we don’t really like walking “in line” and we don’t like being told what to do or what to think. we are your lawyers, your doctors, your chefs, your hr, your adminstrators, tradesmen, small business owners. we are the people you would meet every day. most importantly we paid for membership because we could and we loved a safe space where we could be as crude and cheeky and provocative as we want because we can’t do that in our every day lives. Those conversations were addictive. everyone trying to outdo each other with banter or deep thought. the only safe conversation or thread now is “who wants a fuck” and “if your a man do you like wearing panties” because the rules are in to stop a couple of people being offended. Why do you think word association is the most popular thread? the active fragile people will never pay enough for an ongoing business such as NZP and the others who were capable and willing to pay just couldn’t be bothered with the resulting banal clamouring.
Comment #54 by MrDaddy in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 15-Aug-20 12:45PM
Would love to know any response you get .
Comment #55 by LilyBlack in response to MrDaddy ( view post )
Posted on 15-Aug-20 1:48PM
Hi Mr! They admit that it is quieter than normal, also allowing for Winter. But more interesting, was the point that a lot of Members are not looking for Trans and therefore do not show up in my Search. For example right now there are Two thousand one hundred and sixty seven online. My search for Trans, women and couples, I do not search for men, only results in 958 Online. Given you are straight so to speak and search all genders, it would be interesting what your search returns right now? Lily x
Comment #56 by LilyBlack in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 15-Aug-20 1:59PM
In saying that, my search shows nowhere near 958 "Online". I can only assume the bulk of them are men. Also putting genders aside, it should not impact on site activity the way it is. We all see the same Discussions, regardless of Gender. Lily x
Comment #57 by Robbie63 in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 15-Aug-20 3:29PM
People have changed in general now due to this covid19 virus thing.
It has undermined our trust for one and other. We can't see it ,feel it.
It's so much different to the aids epidemic we could feel reasonably safe know if use a condom stay away from blood and transfusions we felt reasonably safe but this virus thing you don't know it's there until you got so you think before you chat with anyone or touch them this coupled with the political politicising of this virus any one would be scared
And think twice.
The scare mongering groups out there are have a ball controlling people and manipulating mentally to meet their own warped needs.
We all got to enjoy our lives as each day you live is another that you will never see again.
Let's try every beautiful way to enjoy sexual grattatude.
Comment #58 by LilyBlack in response to Robbie63 ( view post )
Posted on 15-Aug-20 5:40PM
Our lives are changed for what could be five or ten years, who knows. Personally, I don't see Covid as a reason not to be intimate, as long as all parties are well, no ill signs, go for It! Ignore the scare mongers and conspiracy theorists, just sad People! Live Life! Lily x
Comment #59 by Robbie63 in response to LilyBlack ( view post )
Posted on 15-Aug-20 5:52PM
For sure there Lily"
Nice picture there Lily"
Comment #60 by LilyBlack in response to Robbie63 ( view post )
Posted on 15-Aug-20 6:06PM
Thanks Robbie! Just Lily x

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