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Discussion - started by boxer64, posted on 20-Jul-20 8:25PM
I am a gay person of 72 and wonder why gay guys do not reply to my e mails yet some on their profile say they like older men. At our age we still have the urge and can cum. It is a bit sad that some in this age group don't have friends and it is a lonely existence. Any ideas thanks

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Comment #1 by Mclovinit in response to the main topic
Posted on 20-Jul-20 8:53PM
Well I can’t even message you , that can’t help you
Posted on 20-Jul-20 8:57PM
Nor can I
Comment #3 by josie2 in response to the main topic
Posted on 20-Jul-20 9:00PM
you need to change your setting, i cant message as well
Comment #4 by domseka in response to josie2 ( view post )
Posted on 20-Jul-20 9:06PM
seems NO ONE can,..it would sure help,..haha
Comment #5 by Robbie63 in response to the main topic
Posted on 20-Jul-20 9:26PM
Hi boxer, well no wonder people cant contact you.,
You have a auto blocker on your profile it blocks anyone who tries.
Remove this in settings make for everyone then people can contact you.
Cheers.
Comment #6 by voyeurone in response to the main topic
Posted on 21-Jul-20 7:28AM
Agreed I can't mail either and I am in your age group!
Comment #7 by Laseredfeild in response to the main topic
Posted on 21-Jul-20 8:40AM
Obviously changed settings, have just sent message ..
Comment #8 by Qwik_cumma in response to the main topic
Posted on 22-Jul-20 7:04AM
I love older the better but must b clean and not greasy
Comment #9 by Laseredfeild in response to the main topic
Posted on 22-Jul-20 9:01AM
1st thing , says your in Whanganui ?? You messaged saying your in Dunedin ....big difference between north & sth island ???
& You also said you hope to be in Otaki early next year ..
Maybe you need to sort ya profile & actually state where you are to start with, ya can't even get that right, what else is bullshit ??
Comment #10 by boxer64 in response to Laseredfeild ( view post )
Posted on 22-Jul-20 9:19PM
There shouldn't be any difference where one lives. Gay people are the same everywhere. I'd eager that there are people on here who don't live where they say they do and there could also be a reason why locality is like that
Comment #11 by Kandi in response to boxer64 ( view post )
Posted on 22-Jul-20 9:36PM
How are you meant to meat up if you're in different place's ?
Comment #12 by Dikme2 in response to the main topic
Posted on 23-Jul-20 9:38AM
Yes I feel for you. I would be only too happy to meet an older man even if there isn't a huge gap in our ages. If you like my profile, please get in touch
Comment #13 by voyeurone in response to boxer64 ( view post )
Posted on 23-Jul-20 4:47PM
So, where exactly (and honestly) do you live?
Comment #14 by Tom4512 in response to the main topic
Posted on 24-Jul-20 8:20AM
I would reply
Comment #15 by boxer64 in response to voyeurone ( view post )
Posted on 24-Jul-20 10:02AM
I have no idea why it matters where I live but at the moment I am in Dunedin.
I just want to thank you all for your replies.
Comment #16 by Tom4512 in response to boxer64 ( view post )
Posted on 24-Jul-20 10:03AM
Do you ever come to Nelson at all
Comment #17 by boxer64 in response to Tom4512 ( view post )
Posted on 24-Jul-20 10:05AM
Not very often but sometimes when I'm travelling north.
Comment #18 by voyeurone in response to boxer64 ( view post )
Posted on 24-Jul-20 3:17PM
Of course it matters. You ask people to contact for - I assume - a mutual meet up. A bit crazy trying to arrange a meet if you live in Dunedin yet you say that you are in Wanganui on your profile!
Comment #19 by Apisa in response to the main topic
Posted on 24-Jul-20 4:44PM
Had some lovely older m2m experiences.
Comment #20 by Kandi in response to voyeurone ( view post )
Posted on 24-Jul-20 5:40PM
Agree 100% unless you're seeking an online encounter only
Comment #21 by Randomguy996 in response to the main topic
Posted on 24-Jul-20 8:38PM
For me older cut cock is where it’s at my first male experience was with two guys older than me at a party when I was younger ....was outside taking a piss drunk as when a euro guy 30 years older than me comes out and starts taking a piss next to me I look over and see his cock big cut cock he looks at mine I feel a tingle in mine he we weren’t far apart he push’s me to my knees and guides his cock in my mouth it tasted so good I’m sucking it for a while and hear footsteps behind me I kept going next thing I feel my shorts getting pulled down I think he just spat on my ase and pushed his cock in there I felt him unload in there then the guys cock I was sucking fucked me till he cum then gave me his number the three of us fucked many times over a 5 year period then lost touch ....... from that moment on I have loved cock on guys 2 years older than me ... am in Auckland if you wana try me
Comment #22 by ronswanson in response to the main topic
Posted on 27-Jul-20 12:03PM
It's not just you, or gay guys, or older guys. The reality is it's tough online and not getting replies to messages is pretty standard unfortunately. Sorry your feeling lonely, not sure a site like this is going to help for that.
Comment #23 by james_dn in response to the main topic
Posted on 27-Jul-20 5:11PM
you also don't accept applications to the groups you operate. Can you make them public or put someone else in that position..
Comment #24 by Randomguy996 in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Sep-20 5:00PM
Any older guys near Auckland want a playmate
Comment #25 by Cheekies in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Sep-20 8:16PM
Glad the messaging issue has been resolved :)
Comment #26 by Booyaa in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Sep-20 9:58PM
I guess it’s partly the definition of “older” too. For an 18yo buck, for example, a 35yo is maybe what he has in mind.

I was going to say here “it’s all relative” but, hey daddy, that’s possibly incest 😝
Comment #27 by Hannable in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Sep-20 10:06AM
I am I think older than you and still enjoy being a submissive bottom for use.
But if you want guys to join you knock off the Contact Protection and then maybe you will get some fun which ever position you want to play
Comment #28 by Robbie63 in response to Booyaa ( view post )
Posted on 8-Sep-20 2:35PM
Hi, well it's all quite simple just put it in your profile the age group you are looking for.
If you are young and don't like old guys or woman say so in profile.
Don't moan other wise!!!
Comment #29 by Robbie63 in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Sep-20 2:45PM
Yes it's quite sad out there in 2018 I worked on a building site as casual labourer. At smoko time I went to the staff room for a cup of tea and sit down to enjoy my biscuit.
The young guys promptly got up went out side as they did not like an old guy near them. They complained to the manager I was asked to leave.
All that was wrong was my age .
The young guys made it clear they hate old people.
Since then I applied for jobs all was interview by young people as soon as they ask my age they say sorry you are not the right fit or my skill sets are out of date.
I have also seen young guys in a local outdoor meeting place for gay,bi etc also tell you as an old guy to fuck off.
The young of today have been brought up to hate their elders and no respect for them selves.
Comment #30 by Robbie63 in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Sep-20 2:47PM
Boxer64 you have a block on who can contact you.
This is why people cant contact you.
Comment #31 by Jessica-mitchell in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Sep-20 10:43PM
I love older people they just don't want to message back
Comment #32 by cant in response to Robbie63 ( view post )
Posted on 9-Sep-20 7:23PM
Legally they cant ask your age as part of job application process
Comment #33 by Robbie63 in response to cant ( view post )
Posted on 9-Sep-20 7:38PM
Every job application I have filled out you have to show your age,sex,ethnic group and new zealanders yes or no.
My driver's licence shows my birth date.
Pretty much stuffed getting that far.
Any way not too worried about it!
Comment #34 by Gliese581 in response to the main topic
Posted on 11-Sep-20 10:51AM
I think that it is very hard once you hit 60 to find any action regardless of your preferences.

Comment #35 by delmar7 in response to Gliese581 ( view post )
Posted on 11-Sep-20 10:54AM
Totally agree with you
Comment #36 by Hannable in response to delmar7 ( view post )
Posted on 11-Sep-20 11:01AM
Age does not worry me but it does seen my age worries anyone I approach but you know plenty of good tunes are played on an old fiddle
Comment #37 by delmar7 in response to Hannable ( view post )
Posted on 11-Sep-20 11:06AM
Yes they are. Experience should count for a lot.
Comment #38 by Hannable in response to delmar7 ( view post )
Posted on 11-Sep-20 12:35PM
I have been a member of NZP on and off for quite awhile and enjoyed a lot of good company but as I get older although parts of me still are 1 100% working age lets me down maybe if I cover my grey hair just be naked all will improve
Comment #39 by Boy56 in response to Gliese581 ( view post )
Posted on 14-Sep-20 10:03PM
Amen to that
Comment #40 by Bibottom in response to the main topic
Posted on 15-Sep-20 11:02PM
50yr old bottom guy available now
Comment #41 by Robbie63 in response to Bibottom ( view post )
Posted on 15-Sep-20 11:31PM
Nice picture there bi bottom.
Just a pitty you don't live here in Hamilton.

Posted on 18-Sep-20 12:19PM
Free this weekend?
Comment #43 by curiousguy-5 in response to the main topic
Posted on 18-Sep-20 1:37PM
I quite like older guys . I've had some good fun with guys 65 +
Posted on 19-Sep-20 6:39AM
I'm same 60+ guys can be awesome fun
Posted on 19-Sep-20 1:35PM
heya im a young slim xdresser who loves to dress act and b treated exactly as if im a real girl so no cock just warm mouth tits and wett pussy looking for ph sex with anyone (but luv older guys) mail me in the nex 10minz if ur interested xx
Comment #46 by Bibottom in response to the main topic
Posted on 29-Sep-20 11:56AM
Any older guys available to play today
Posted on 29-Sep-20 11:36PM
heya im a young slim xdresser who loves to dress act and b treated exactly as if im a real girl so no cock just warm mouth tits and wett pussy looking for ph sex with anyone (but luv older guys) and need to be used mail me in the next 10minz if ur interested xx

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