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Friends that fuck. But you can also have a conversation with that isn't about sex.

To me a fwb is a person whom you do things outside of the bedroom with such as outings, movies, dinner etc, in short company. the person actually becomes a friend. The benefits are of course sex occasionally.

Both very good answers and exactly what my definition is.

Nice to be on the same page with a woman.

its nice to know I'm not the only person with that definition. I was starting to think I had completely the wrong idea.

Now I just need to find one. 😅😅

well if you didn't live so far away you never know your luck.

Guess I'd better move north, lovely having no ties.

Dry as an old bone here.

now now not everyone at once.

Thought I might have been the first offering to move.

On this thread yes you are.

Winning.

Your kinda cool, hope you find some success, mean that in a nice way.

Thanks, I hope so too and hope you find whatever you may be in search of.

Tempting... Very tempting indeed!
Now how to get through Dorkland and not see any of it 😅😅

Hmmmm sprout wings and fly??

Or tempt you down to the second best part of the country...😉😉

Imho, fwb means that you're so comfortable with that friend that you can get sexually involved without getting the emotions/relationships. I believe it is a beautiful concept which avoids any displeasure of a relationship and expectations. We are friends and friendship is one of the most beautiful relationship 🧑‍🤝‍🧑

Totally agree with you but the biggest issue that I've found is most people actually forget that when you're fwb's you're meant to be friends.

100% agree

Obviously those types are only in it for the sex side of things and must have too many actual just friends. It's the most wonderful feeling in the world to have a close friend whom you can get intimate with yet leave it at being just friends.
Ah, a man can dream.

luckily dreams are free.

Yup - I had an fwb before I met you and knew she had other guys as well as fwb’s and found out one she stole another friends man as he was cheating. She didn’t learn though as after he divorced my friend and married her it wasn’t long for him to do the same. I haven’t talked to them since I found all this out - one of the things I have is if you got a partner and they have no idea you are playing around we shall say, then nope no go.

One day I'll win powerball, I know this, confidence is a wonderful thing.....then I could become a sugardaddy. .

Definite NO NO, cheaters never prosper, they may for awhile but most certainly will get caught out.

Yup exactly!

Yea it's not worth the heartache.

Yeah. Not all are good people. Keep searching 😊

Yep totally agree with you both.

Yep agree with that.

Which part ?

For me the idea is to be friends means hanging out and enjoying mutual interests. The benefits are that you enjoy each other sexually whilst hanging out. Without the hang ups of being exclusive. Imo

OK we all have the same definition.... Or at least those of us commenting do. So if everyone has the same definition why can being fwb be so difficult with certain people??

I guess the tricky part is the same with any relationship mutual interests. If one person want's more or less will always leed to trouble

Best to be polyamorous and share the love.
No commitment, no jealousy, no need to lie and be secretive. 😀

Tou might be on too something there mate

Ok so my question is, is it still fwb when the person wants u to fuck only them?

In my experience this is where it becomes a grey area, and most women, and possibly men too, will want to be an exclusive fwb, as otherwise it's more a fuck buddy situation

Once you start doing the dinner/movies/outings etc, you move more into the exclusive category

FWB can be a minefield, where intimacy can switch from just physical to emotional

It can be I suppose. I've had that kind of fwb and it worked for a while. It's usually a bloke that wants that sort of thing because he doesn't want to admit he wants a relationship but not a full on one. Or hes sacred that some other bloke us a better shagged than him and doesn't want to lose what he has.
I think insecurity could have a lot to do with it.... But then I could be wrong

Thank u that was my thinking as well

but if you tell your fwb that you are polyamorous and have many lovers then you are being honest and they know the relationship can not be exclusive

I'm one of those girls that only fucks one guy at a time but the bloke I've been talking to about being fwb doesn't think there's any difference between that ad a relationship been trying to explain that it's different

one guy at a time unless its a mmf or a gangbang .
Im actually down your way in march doing that sharkcage dive and hiking Rakuira island.
Hope i spelt it right.

It is very similar its just the level of emotional commitment thats different

Interesting! But its FWB! No Comms?! Just Sex!

I just love this concept... You're so comfortable with your friend that you can have sex with him/her!! Isn't that awesome!! 😊

one purpose and thats freaky full on fucking with reciprocation ..not talk i listen to only clapping cheeks or wet squishy noises unless sex orientated advice wants or offers .not intimacy if u wana cuddle buy a teddy bear ,.not sleeping on my bed after il roll u off and make it warmly if i must .not asking for a drink or food grab something on the way over prior to perfoming .just mutual orgasms and out :)

Years ago, had a fab, for social, wedding etc, could not live together, just didn’t work. But a weekend away drinking, laughing and shagging, we fitted together well .