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Woman always wanting hung
Discussion - started by Troymalloy, posted on 8-Apr-21 6:51AM
I have noticed woman on personals sites always stipulate hung as a requirement. As someone who is average, it puts me off as I don't fit the brief. As only 5% of men are considered bigger than average, surely this is limiting your prospective partners? Why do the ads never seem to want capable or genuine? Is bigger actually better? Men never stipulate "must have tight pussy". Am i wasting my time on these sites as women never seem to reply to well thought out messages and clear photos either. Maybe im better off paying for escorts.......

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Comment #1 by Discreetsissyboy in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Apr-21 8:40AM
Think that's y I Dress
Comment #2 by Whatsthis357 in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Apr-21 9:10AM
Just as you've put " prefer curvy" on your profile. Generally people are in sites like these to search for something that they want or prefer to have.. if they want hung, theres no harm in saying that or just wanting that.....

Now the thing that gets me is different people have a different definition of well hung, so would be a bonus if people stipulated a size they were happy with.
comment #3 was clobbered
Posted on 8-Apr-21 10:00AM
I agree it's all about personal preferences and it's better to be honest but not all women want men that are hung!

Each to their own I guess 🤷🏾‍♀️
Comment #5 by Cheekies in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Apr-21 4:55PM
Must be the women youre messaging eh? We are attracted to what turns us on. Some its a big cock, some its small tits and so forth. An average cock used strategically and deliberate in places can cause quite the stir. Just saying:)
Comment #6 by Ace69 in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-Apr-21 10:55PM
When there's a disproportionate amount of women to men on a site, they can be as picky as they want. Supply and Demand.
Comment #7 by Moistlamington in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Apr-21 9:37AM
Effort = reward

Its a simple equation.

You get horny for whatever reason you have the choice of going in pursuit of what you want from the pub to the church the possibilities are endless.
However if you want what you want then pay for it as that's the reason you pay...to get exactly what you want as for the size thing Ive never seen it as a requirement unless asking for a specific kink/preferance.,
Comment #8 by Anam_Cara1 in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Apr-21 1:36PM
As a woman, I'm not the type who cares about how "hung" a guy is, I'm not even sure how women know exactly how many inches they like to begin with but tbh, bigger does make one feel "filled" down there - it just doesn't necessarily equate to great sex.

Also, we should ALL be free to stipulate our preferences. Guys often put "must be clean shaven" or "must have big tits" (classy I know). I think explaining your likes/dislikes allows you a better chance of matching with someone closer to your preferred demographic = better sex.

All the best x
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Comment #10 by DaddyDom in response to Anam_Cara1 ( view post )
Posted on 19-May-21 12:47PM
Those adds are usually put up by guys who want to get cock pics.....
Comment #11 by G-Man in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 19-May-21 6:56PM
We average guys do try our best
Comment #12 by Mr_Blue_Eyes in response to the main topic
Posted on 19-May-21 8:52PM
It's called preferences..

I really enjoy sex and love a tight wet pussy..

Still need some sexual chemistry..

And any female that hates on that is usually a size queen and anything but tight
Comment #13 by NzSkrael in response to the main topic
Posted on 19-Jun-21 5:36AM
I'm over 8 inches long and near 6 inches circumference. In my experience they mostly know what they are asking for and generally won't thrust hard out if it's obviously they need time to get used to the size.

I see nothing wrong with people asking for what they want, it solves a lot of hassle
Comment #14 by NzSkrael in response to Anam_Cara1 ( view post )
Posted on 19-Jun-21 5:37AM
Exactly, guys who know how to use their larger size will do so discretely.

Also, everyone knows what they like, why not ask eh
Comment #15 by Mr_Blue_Eyes in response to the main topic
Posted on 20-Jul-21 6:09PM
It's what gets people off.. some girls want a 11 monster cock.. some guys want a tight pussy..

And in both cases there will be salty people
Comment #16 by nato3012 in response to the main topic
Posted on 22-Jul-21 1:48PM
Yeah I reckon it’s all individual preference tbh, and it’s probably not even necessarily that it feels good and may be more along the lines of feeling submissive etc or whatever she likes hung cocks for. I wouldn’t worry to much about it man, if it’s something that is out of your control and you aren’t able to change it, if day you would be better off just owning it ay. I mean there is a lot more to like about sex other then one specific thing, that goes for both sides of the coin as well. Yeah you may not be able to tick that one box. But that’s only one box, theres plenty more you can tick mate. You could make your head game on point etc, fore play, become a damn magician with your younger and hands. Don’t dwell on it to much mate.
Comment #17 by NZuncut in response to nato3012 ( view post )
Posted on 22-Jul-21 4:52PM
"if it’s something that is out of your control and you aren’t able to change it, if day you would be better off just owning it ay."

"Yeah you may not be able to tick that one box. But that’s only one box, theres plenty more you can tick mate"

Exactly right! No point moping about someone who simply isn't interested in you, just move on and you'll be that much closer to finding someone who is!
Comment #18 by Dowanger in response to nato3012 ( view post )
Posted on 23-Jul-21 2:09PM
Well said and great cock
Posted on 7-Aug-21 1:05PM
It's how you use it, not the size.
Comment #20 by Jon4000a in response to the main topic
Posted on 12-Aug-21 6:57PM
I find most of the time theres an inch or so not all the way in(unless its in an ass, everyone loves girth.
Comment #21 by Jimbob101 in response to the main topic
Posted on 18-Aug-21 8:47AM
Think my ex wife wanted me hung but not sure she was talking about this size of my cock.
Comment #22 by Shady in response to Ace69 ( view post )
Posted on 22-Aug-21 3:30PM
Yep
Comment #23 by chchswing in response to Jimbob101 ( view post )
Posted on 29-Aug-21 10:22AM
Love it...great comment
Comment #24 by Jimbob101 in response to chchswing ( view post )
Posted on 29-Aug-21 10:33AM
Sad thing I think it is true
Comment #25 by chchswing in response to Jimbob101 ( view post )
Posted on 29-Aug-21 10:41AM
Posted on 29-Aug-21 11:49PM
youre saying that to a woman. I suspect shell have her own opinion on the size and uses, and a womans opinion on a womans pleasure will always carry more weight than a mans.
Posted on 29-Aug-21 11:56PM
If a woman don't orgasm or fakes it.. to bad for her for not communicating to me
Posted on 30-Aug-21 9:32AM
If you cant tell, to bad for you.
Posted on 30-Aug-21 11:54AM
If a woman fakes it she's lying.. if she don't talk about it she's a fool for not communicating.. and in both cases not worth keeping even as a fuck m a poor on at that
Posted on 30-Aug-21 12:14PM
If she fakes it its coz she gives a fuck what you think and doesnt want to hurt your feelings. Youre a fool for looking down on that kind of woman. And it doesnt make them a poor fuck just coz you cant get them off and they dont want to embarrass you about it. Maybe youre just that bad they fake it so they can roll over and sleep. That aint their fault either.

If you cant tell, too bad for you.
Posted on 1-Sep-21 8:41PM
I kind of agree to a point but I wouldn’t just cut off a faker or think less of them

It’s crap why some women learnt they had to fake Mainly to rescue males ego and many other factors too

Plus the pressure! Omg sometimes iI physically can’t, very rarely but like if I’m under stress then some days I pop off like a rocket


Some ladies can get off just like that some can’t, different strokes and all that …,

A lot of ladies some with historical trauma, shitty experiences etc are unable to voice what their specific needs are sexually
Some can openly communicate, some can’t depending on background,

But I do think, as adults we hopefully have a thing or two about reading the physical signs ……

Back to the subject

Bigger the better im a sizist. Purely because I like the feeling
If not we’ll endowed, the tongue will suffice. Personal preference yada yada …,,,,,
Cock is only one part, the whole package is the sexiest of all and that hand down beats a cervix basher anyway

Posted on 1-Sep-21 11:37PM
Stop putting your experience into how I see things..

If a woman hides it I don't care... I still get to nut in the end..

Pun intended
Posted on 2-Sep-21 8:09AM
my experience?

Which one of us is single buddy?
Posted on 2-Sep-21 10:37AM
totally agree,

i met a girl that could not come without toys, she was upfront about it and said i would need to use her dolphin to get her off while we were having sex. I had no problem with that and if that does it for her why not. I only have an average size cock and whilst using my tongue and fingers on her amazingly tight pussy she squirted and she was so fkn excited. She stopped me and asked what i did and i showed her again and she squirted again she was over the moon, I then fked her missionary with a pillow under her bum to tilt her pussy up a bit and fucked her long and deep and she squirted again .

So size has nothing to do with it and she was happy because she said she always faked it with guys so they didnt thinks she was weird.

Fkn terrible that the poor love couldnt have pleasure without worrying about not putting on an orgasim for some douchebag she was having sex with in case he thought she was shit in bed.

As other comments have said maybe it is the idiot behind the cock that has the issue ..

Posted on 2-Sep-21 3:32PM
I'm surprised by the general opinion on this thread that an orgasm is the be all and end all of sex. It isn't even the target as far as we are concerned.
Comment #36 by Willie_in_Chch in response to the main topic
Posted on 3-Sep-21 9:13PM
there are a lot of women that need to be hung !
Comment #37 by Synt in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Sep-21 8:29AM
By definition bigger than the average means more than 50%…
From a straight guys perspective, it seems more to be the energy/aura of a big dick (BDE). In a night you spend what 2 to 3 hours fucking in some sort. The rest of the time you spend in each other’s company is more personable.
Yes there are size queens that are looking for the biggest dick possible, which will be that % of guys, but even being just a few can bigger than the average and knowing how to fuck, what positions to use, and what else you can do beside actual intercourse, can all lead to a sensation of being much bigger than average.
Hope that makes sense.. :/
Comment #38 by liveinhope in response to Jimbob101 ( view post )
Posted on 8-Sep-21 12:37PM
Comment #39 by aucklandfit in response to the main topic
Posted on 19-Sep-21 8:45AM
I m hung and i love it
Comment #40 by Jss003 in response to aucklandfit ( view post )
Posted on 19-Sep-21 8:58AM
Good for you. I'm not and I love with it
Comment #41 by Dowanger in response to aucklandfit ( view post )
Posted on 19-Sep-21 9:16AM
Yes

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