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Be honest show a face photo of yourself if asked ,
Its way to dangerous for us women meeting with men who aunt honest about there profile
Whether yor a ex convict
Gang member
Nationality

Us women only want to feel safe when we meet people

I know i pissed people off in the past
That why immature people have complained about me (that's why I have black marks against my name)

But maybe us women should be asking for a medical cert on guys Dick ....penis....cock
Whether they have .....
VD
HERPES
CLAPP
STD's

HIV
AIDS

All those diseases are just as Deadly as COVID 19!

Very true... But girls can carry germs, too.. it would be uncumfy and take ages to check a Girls Book of Health.. and then the moment is gone..

The semi safest way is always wear condoms

Yes, very true... But.. you are right tho, because you just don't know where someone has been before.. as for face hiding, lots of people are hiding from something.. wifey,friends,family.. I have one but only for the special people who are on here.. who are almost all full of Shit, and just waste my time.. However, one does try..

I dont mind sharing photos with people im chatting with

But im not asking for penis photos

I get that.. people should be mindful of not doing that, unless asked.. Bloody men, huh..?? I like dic pics personally.. I'm only interested in the waist down..

Yes Why can't to they fill in the line on nationality is easy to do

But why can't people fill out weight, height, hair, eye colour and what they eat too..?? or every optional question they are asked when they join up..?? Save alot of time wasting for those who are looking..

I had a 21 year old boy try to have me on tonight no nationality on his profile or photo
After a lot of time wasting but still no photo he told me he was Tongan

Then he said to me he understood why I had a BLACK MARK beside my name
What a immature dickhead he turned out to be!

Annoying huh..?? Still, anyone could be anyone here, put anything on their profile..

The whole concept of being in the lifestyle and on this site kind of revolves around honestly, why couldn't that Young guy be honest instead of dicking you around

Exactly

Also iv been a member of NZP for well over a year,
And then i get a blackmark
Thats a bloody joke!

Considering i have many friends on here.

We've been on here many many years too maybe you should give him a black mark, he's the one messing around

Those idiots block methen do it to me
It only takes 1 selfish person

OK. Following the whole discussion, fair points. I can see I need to add a bit to my profile. But there are reasons why the whole person might not be revealed at once. That's part of the point of having a chat before meeting, and meeting first on neutral ground perhaps. Yep, it takes more time, but that might be inevitable

But what im mainly bring up is the cagey person that wants to meet and they wont even tell there nationality, the next thing is they slip a drug in yor drink when they meet you ,
THEN DRUG RAPE YOU

All im asking for when im chatting with a person is a true photo and nationality please

Surely a first meet should be on safe neutral ground so that you can be sure of checking out the person you are meeting.
As far as I am concerned, nationality doesn't come into the equation. People are people, no matter their size shape, colour or sexual preference.

If you are worried about being alone with them in a safe public place, then maybe you need to bring a friend along to look out for you.

That not needed
Iv always taken people on face value

Shit iv got European on my profile

Why can't people atleast be honest and fill in that part

Not all people go for all types of races

Don't get me wrong im not Racist

Very true, it's a personal choice as to race... I really like pretty sexy Asian chicks, but I like sexy Black chicks too, African/American or African/British.. or Maori.. Annie Crummer man..!! Beautiful woman.. Still, each to their own..

Hi Penny, hope all is well, and you are cool and groovy..

Gee it's the 21st century and we are a multi race nation do what is the problem of stating your nationality. Be proad of you heritage and be honest

I agree totally
But there are to many shady and dishonest men and people of many races in our beautiful land

Have to agree. I struggle to understand the ones come on sites like this lead you on they coming and never shown, if you putting it out on these sites be yourself be honest and enjoy all the fun. But so many window shoppers keyboard wankers

Too true

How i got a black mark
This woman was enjoying chatting to me then her boyfriend interveened on our conversation and was a immature wanker next thing i knew i got a black mark
...

I've been banned from sites because of a guy scammer kept saying hey handsom

That must have been so annoying.. I would have been put off by his spelling from the first message..

Il make it easy NO FACIAL PHOTO NO CHAT

PEOPLE CAN HAVE FACIAL PHOTO ON PROFILE WITH OUT IT BEING PUBLIC VEIW

If someone has a limited completed profile, they are someone not worth talking to. Doesn't take much effort; and if they can't be bothered doing that, they're probably not serious enough about this to consider talking with.

Cool comment xx

Racists never think they're racists, don't get me wrong!
Ethnicity and nationality are not necessarily identical. Your 21yo Tongan is probably a kiwi.

Yes
But no facial photo
Iv been assaulted a couple times when i was way younger

They don't have to click there facial photo on public veiw

But if someone is chatting with eachother its polite to be showing your facial photo

You can see my pretty face

Would you like my lips wrapped around your penis giving you a blow job

Its not only this site that people don't state their ethnicity it seems to be all of them.


While I don't consider myself racist I'm only really interested in meeting up with euro