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What are people's thoughts on tricking the wife into a 3some I know she fantasies about it I think that if a supposedly random situation occurs the flood gates will open.
Discussion - started by Tga23, posted on 9-Jul-21 9:36AM
Good idea bad idea anyone done it before?

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Comment #1 by Paknsavetrolley in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Jul-21 9:45AM
Not a good idea
Fantasy meets forced reality could turn to shit I reckon

Personally once I was ready to explore my fantasies the flood gates opened but I had to be ready and most importantly willing

Comment #2 by Tga23 in response to Paknsavetrolley ( view post )
Posted on 9-Jul-21 10:09AM
Yeah I pretty much no it's not the right way just getting impatient.
I don't want to explore this without her but maybe that's my only option to experience it.
Comment #3 by Tga23 in response to Tga23 ( view post )
Posted on 9-Jul-21 10:10AM
Do you think maybe starting at a glory hole venue might entice her desires to come out?
Comment #4 by Paknsavetrolley in response to Tga23 ( view post )
Posted on 9-Jul-21 10:14AM
Swingers club to watch …. Is a good starting point?
Comment #5 by robbierabbit in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Jul-21 10:24AM
Just don't go there. Have some respect for her wants. It will happen when it happens
Comment #6 by LilyBlack in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Jul-21 1:19PM
Maybe you could watch some threesome porn together if you don't already. See how she reacts to that.
Comment #7 by Tga23 in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Jul-21 7:50PM
All good suggestions I'll give updstes
Comment #8 by NZuncut in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Jul-21 8:18PM
Consent, communication and openness are essential when exploring open relationships, swinging or bringing another person into the bedroom. If you value and respect your partner, talk to her! Tell her how much you want to explore this fantasy.

Giving her the time to think about it and decide for herself will pay dividends in the long run. Forcing her into a sudden, uncomfortable and even scary situation is asking for trouble.

Discuss going to a swinging party or club, you guys can go there and have sex while others watch and maybe even ask to join in.
Comment #9 by Sci-fiCulture in response to the main topic
Posted on 10-Jul-21 1:44AM
Seems like this situation would occur when there is no communication between both parties involved making an Extremely delicate situation potentially more volatile considering important foundations like boundaries have not yet been properly established. Communication is extremely important. This is where it is also the point where during communication fantasies and expectations can be not only defined and established but more importantly make the transition from my or I or mine to we ours and us.
Comment #10 by BornAgainSinner in response to the main topic
Posted on 10-Jul-21 10:50AM
Just do it. Its easier to ask for forgiveness than permission
Posted on 1-Aug-21 2:30PM
I could not agree more.
So well said
Comment #12 by pir8 in response to BornAgainSinner ( view post )
Posted on 14-Sep-21 12:24PM
Nah not asking permission when it comes to sexual stuff if fucked up.
Comment #13 by CumOutAndPlay in response to the main topic
Posted on 14-Sep-21 5:30PM
Tricking her could seriously backfire on ya, worse possibly if it worked then she found out. Have you tried couples apps on your phones. I think either Kindu or ipassion was what we used. And it worked. As you might notice our couples profile here now :). You can learn alot about your partner and also use it to tell your partner what your into. Match your interests and dislikes. Learn about yourself maybe. Then more fun things happen...

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