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Not a good idea
Fantasy meets forced reality could turn to shit I reckon

Personally once I was ready to explore my fantasies the flood gates opened but I had to be ready and most importantly willing

Yeah I pretty much no it's not the right way just getting impatient.
I don't want to explore this without her but maybe that's my only option to experience it.

Do you think maybe starting at a glory hole venue might entice her desires to come out?

Swingers club to watch …. Is a good starting point?

Just don't go there. Have some respect for her wants. It will happen when it happens

Maybe you could watch some threesome porn together if you don't already. See how she reacts to that.

All good suggestions I'll give updstes

Consent, communication and openness are essential when exploring open relationships, swinging or bringing another person into the bedroom. If you value and respect your partner, talk to her! Tell her how much you want to explore this fantasy.

Giving her the time to think about it and decide for herself will pay dividends in the long run. Forcing her into a sudden, uncomfortable and even scary situation is asking for trouble.

Discuss going to a swinging party or club, you guys can go there and have sex while others watch and maybe even ask to join in.

Seems like this situation would occur when there is no communication between both parties involved making an Extremely delicate situation potentially more volatile considering important foundations like boundaries have not yet been properly established. Communication is extremely important. This is where it is also the point where during communication fantasies and expectations can be not only defined and established but more importantly make the transition from my or I or mine to we ours and us.

Just do it. Its easier to ask for forgiveness than permission

I could not agree more.
So well said

Nah not asking permission when it comes to sexual stuff if fucked up.

Always great to tagteam

Play wrestling in underwear then tag team her she surely go with the flow haha 😄

Youre the one that will reap the benefits or repercussions. It could go either way. Your impatience and persistence may not work in your favour. Experiences come and go. Good Luck

I think I'll join ya with a cuppa...I think there's only way that would go