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2.1/2 yrs for me..
Small town an plus I have self respect

Well you seem to chat, most can't even say " thanks but no thanks ". I use to write quite a bit, but now it short. " can you write, if so message me."

I have gone without for about a yr now because of prostate cancer radiation treatment killing sex drive and erection functions. Tho now and again have woken up with an erection so proves it's mind over matter really.

I too relied on apps tinder,Grindr and did well, but have aged out now and really enjoy NZP as it has real people who will have a conversation either by mail or web now. The groups are cool and wide ranges of discussions, galleries to view and news updates. This way outshines apps to me.

it has been 10 years since I last had any contact with a female of any age but saying that I have been used for pleasure by several guys

It's been I we a year for me way two long help on me chch

4 years with my partner due to her plumbing issues and surgery. What gets me though is I would have no problem if she used a vibrator with no penetration and manually stimulated me. But not even that happens. So I am grateful for a regular escort I see a few times a year after having no action for 2 years

Yeah similar story for me. None at home anymore.

Same with me nothing at home anymore

True 👍

I'm feeling the same man....I guess they hav already been scared off...by boys with girls names..

"the shortest prison sentence is 3 months "who told ya that??

Yup sure have.....

Yup. Sure have.

Way longer

Last 6 years when with previous partner (except brief period 4 years ago when she wanted to get pregnant, very missionary / clinical / boring / potato sack really)
And about 2 years now since split up

I figure I'm now officially a born again virgin it's been so bloody long

That's why I recently joined NZP, but this seems to be a bit of a fizzer so far.

Not one response from females yet despite the likes and messages I've sent

Don't think I'll die with a smile on me face either

Sex ????? Whats sex??????

I my 20's I went 5 years without meeting anyone, just solo work and I swore that would never happen again so I have been on here over 1 years and have got a good bunch of fukbuds so I get regular sex....sometimes too much (sorry if that sounds stupid) but its so good for health reasons and mentally as well.

my last was 5 months not long ago an then longest was 6 months !

My husband wouldn't fuck me for my entire pregnancies (2) and I would be in years begging for it . Fucks me off now, selfish prick, and then we've had 3-4-5 months without sex. Not my choice, apparently the more I wanted it the less he did but it did a real number on my psyche being so horny and felt like I repulsed him.

3 months is too long, your flatmates now

Yes

Pregnant six is great
Loved fucking my wife as she was horny as
Sounds like he is a bit of a ass
Just checked out your photos and you look really good
He’s a douch bag

Nothing like fucking a horny pregnant lady, they seem more sexually aroused and in need of cock,
Had an ex i knocked up and spent more fucking when she was pregnant

Sounds hot as xxx

It was when i got home from work she was naked in bed wanting cock, and we would just be naked in the house, so easy to fuck her in any room, and any hole

Awesome love to see that

Ouch, with that black and white number on how could he anyone resist

that's a real mindfuck, did he just have a low sex drive, or was the control factor such a 'turn on' for him, crazy!!!

Mismatched sex drive he said. But as I've got older mine has increased so maybe I'm just a nympho, and that would be hard work if you weren't I guess.

I don't know how anyone would not want to have sex, especially with someone that wanted to be having sex and was contributing to it. It's not like you are even slightly bad looking. You actually look very fit to me

Aww thanks x I struggle with that too, girls hear all the time that men want sex sex sex so it's a headfuck when you learn that's not always true.

Well it's true, you look friggin hot. Only wish I lived closer...
My previous partner was a spud sack. Only one position, wouldn't take initiative or even get involved. It was all me, more fun going solo a lot of the time. Def less effort. She wouldn't even touch me or kiss with her lips parted. My mouth wasn't even allowed below her shoulders, was murder after the sex life I had previously and craved to have again, but we were married and I don't muck around. Too loyal for me own good probably.
Not surprising were no longer together really. Chalk and cheese

I think everyone should fuck before marriage! It's cruel when things don't match up. Might as well get a flatmate and at least not have to pretend.

Once bitten twice shy that's for sure. PMd

it's a fallacy, just like men think about sex every 2 minutes. Reality is, men DO start to lose prowess as they age, just at different rates. Some start quite young, some not till quite advanced age. But research of ED is quite revealing as to percentages and ages. Reality is, many women DO get hornier as they age, often post menopause. It then comes down to HIM making sure that if he 'fails' then it's his duty to make sure his partner is satisfied by whatever method works for them/her.

So then he's my scenario. NOW I am seperated due to a lack of appreciation for what he had, but sexually although I knew our drives were different I always did my best to turn him on, not just expect sex because that is no good for either sex to encourage desire . But when I was pregnant, and I've never been hornier in my life, he refused to touch me for 2whole pregnancies. That's a long time to feel undesirable. And my theory is if I was unable to give my man what he wants sexually example... stitches in my puss....then I would still love to be able to give him a blowjob, or help him masturbate, or let him cum on my titties. So that's still participating in sex with your partner. Going WITHOUT sex is not the same, there is a damage that occurs that is very difficult to repair, and the longer it goes on the harder it is to recover from.

There nothing better than sex with a pregnant lady. When i knock up an ex she was was so horny for sex if i wasn’t there to fuck her she had a lesbian friend who would help her sex drive and share sex with her

Once I finished up working I was at home frigging myself off at least 6 times a day. It was mental.

I would have fuck you and fill you with more cum, just love how a pregnant lady looks carrying future life,
And know that once pregnant can’t knock her up again

Wow I would of been bonking u allnight long u are bloody hot 🥵 idiot didn’t know what he was missing

I can't disagree with you. I know some men (older than me) did have some kind of belief/fear?? About sex damaging, causing prem birth. Maybe he was one?
What you were wanting is fantastic, it's the same 'attitude' as I was saying men with ED/problems should have. Make sure your partner is satisfied, and giving should be satisfying the the person doing. I loved making my wife cum, sometimes penetration didn't happen as we'd had so much fun beforehand. I agree what happened to you is damaging.

Years same times wank why better

I was shown porn and given cash and had older men use things I told them to have me perform sex acts and it's been years since I've been gay and Ive tryed to trust sameone again I'm so horny I've trying to trust told them stuff I've done when younger hopeing they be yeh so years and got so horny about it I've got realy bad and made me talk even worse when horny and so been told ewww poor you they did what you did what I'm like wtf wrong porn and I get horny over kinky older gay talk years well over 29 years since I've had gay sex

4 years jail, no sex.

girls are told men just want sex sex sex. sometimes it's true some times not.
personally I think ur fine as. I'd enjoy having sex with you for hours