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I have same issue. I am putting it down to stress at work but it is probably watching too much porn.

Sorry not much help. Pretty much same issues here. Think it’s just getting to that age. Viagara works for me but I rarely cum through intercourse.

I also haven’t been the same since having COVID in March

How often do you masturbate?

And does it happen with male or female or both

If your prostate is enlarged this can also affect the ability to cum at any time. If you have a good GP go and see him/her. It's a lot more common than you think and I never have any issues discussing such topics with my GP. Also if you are over 45 get the yearly blood test for prostate cancer. It could save your life. I've been having the test done since I was 40 as it has a history in my extended family. I've saved mates from prostate cancer because I made them go and get the test. Both had very early stages and have since become cancer free.

Brilliant mate

Over the years I have found it harder to cum.
Thought it was an age thing. Main thing is not to overly worry about it during sex and just enjoy the moment. The more relaxed you are the more likely things will happen.
Definitely see a doc and try the blue pill.

Hey just a question if u know or anyone else knows does urinating alot more than usual have anything to do with the prostate

Hey mate yup got the same problem to can come by myself i do watch alot of porn but with a partner or partners sometimes yes sometimes no

That’s what I’ve focussed on. Don’t dwell on it too much. Cummings just the last 10 seconds of a good time. Always nice too though 😉

I’m about 4 weeks into trying herbal ignite. They also do one for prostate health. I’m seeing benefits from that already. Not pissing as much and can go through the night without having to get up to piss. Helped with sleep

True might give that a go

Yeah not cheap but I recommend. And they say Allow 6 to 9 weeks to see full benefit. I got the mens health pack

Thanks mate yup will definitely look into that for sure

It can be related to the prostate but as we get older it's not unusual to urinate more especially at night. Go and see your GP. They will do a urine ph test to see if there is something in the urine causing it. Can also be stress related or nerves. If you haven't had a warrant of fitness check on yourself in a while see your GP. I have a full check up every year which includes full blood tests to catch anything early if it shows up. Men typically don't go to the doctor but I've forced mates to go only for something to be found which is easily treatable. Remember the family and friends around you who make life what it is.

Yes im one of those men that dont go for a regular check up yeah seems every time i get up from a sleep straight to the toilet no matter what time during the night

If everything is fine getting an erection and cumming when you're on your own it must be something psychological not physical if the problems are only happening when your being intimate with someone

I only agree with that if you couldnt get yourself off in the presence of others. I’m yet to find a pussy or ass that can grip my cock like my hand. Some people just cum a lot easier than others

I had same thing but have improved a lot . I stopped masterbating with a hard grip , made sure when going to have sex that not tired or have had any alcohol. Go for being sensual. Cut the porn back to looking at beautiful body’s not acts and drink a little water melon juice . Slow down in the act and move in away that makes you feel the best.

Can I just say thankyou to each and everyone of you for your helpful friendly advice it has been much appreciated.

No problem. You are not alone. Sure there are plenty like us.

Hi, my erection problems started toward the end of 23 year marriage.during the marriage was lots of good sex but was also lots of psychological put downs. When marriage ended in 19 I was very horny for a few months then the decline in erections began all good masterbateing but with some on as going to penetrate I lost the erection still cum with a long period of hand work.i stopped drinking alcohol went to counciling for depression. Found a new partner of yrs but penis failed me. My current wife I married recently after yrs is happy with how it is as I give her manual orgasms. Been checked out by doctor he says it's deep rooted psychological problem.
He found also drinking too much fizzy soft drink can cause brewers droop.
In older years for some guys decreased seman quantity and lower level testosterone can cause erection problems. Blue pill don't help much but gives a good headache and blue streaky vision.
Do still giving good finger jobs and love masterbateing a nice cock and love a sweet clit and nipples.
The right person can sometimes with the right cock can massage my prostate. A nice set of soft feminine fingers work wonders too.
As to pissing more often get your kidneys checked reduce beer,coffee,tea and soft drink all helps.
Cheers.

This thread has turned out to be great advice for anyone experiencing erection or urination problems. Unfortunately men in particular have that stubborn streak in them and the attitude "she'll be right". At least here, someone can express their health concerns and the community can provide suitable suggestions and answers to help them. Cheers to everyone for helping someone in need.

It's a tough world out there now since this covid thing hit the world.
Too many judgmental folk out there it don't help guys much in way of confidence.
I know a lot of men been rejected by their wives and lovers when it become known you have cock problems.
In modern times to much emphasis has been put on a man's ability to perform in bed.

Sound like it’s psychological than physical. Brain is the biggest sex organ, look into Performance anxiety maybe?

Yeh I got hit with a double whammy. Prostate has enlarged a fair bit, benign, but have also been diagnosed with BP and Atrial arrhythmia when heart rate is elevated (found that out with having a chemical 'stress test' for heart function).
So now on Beta blockers along with the effects of prostate enlargement.So Viagra is out, Just have to accept it's a ???? possibility of performance, so having to improve tongue technique and look yo accept toys may be a major player now.

It's a mind thing, especially if you masturbate alot alone, your mind is getting used to this being the regular way. Its possibly a case of fantasy vs reality

No blood flow or gravity if you lye on your back ..need to pump air in your **** with **** pump .....
maybe drink cucumba celery or beet root juice anything healthy anf get the blood circulating ...cleanse the blood maybe try that ...

I have found for me that if I am with a new partner, it is nerves thing. It is almost like my mind develops a mental block. I now am open to new partners and tell them that i am nervous. If it does not happen for me, i concentrate on their experience and make sure they enjoy themselves. I usually find after a couple of times with the partner, the nerves disappear and matters improve. I also find stress ans tiredness to be a massive factor in this regard.

Stop self pleasing you've ruined the sensitivity of your cock it will come back after a few weeks maybe 4 weeks

Also stop watching porn. If you think the sperm or lack of testosterone might be a problem try menevit