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agree.. don't mind the one offs but love to establish a relationship that can be carried on as long as possible.

One offs if possible. Otherwise I get friend zoned and no activity

I agree with you

Very good question! For me personally not as easy as it sounds to answer. Who knew that there were so many unforseen variables involved when it comes to sourcing fun 🤷‍♀️ Sexual compatibility, if you click and get along well together, differing sex drives, time wasters/keyboard warriors, availability, expectations to name but a few. What I THOUGHT I wanted upon joining this site was to find one semi-regular playmate. Lucky me I now have two 😊 Much prefer and agree that if you find the right person/people the sex gets better and better. Sometimes additional one offs are good too...supposed one offs can evolve into more offs and sexual variety is the spice of life. Sooo I like to have both 😁

One offs, that turn into follow up visits are nice.some have lasted a couple of months, one two years, but peoples life style and preferences change, and sometimes the bit on the side does not fit in. So people be nice when your moving on , please don’t just ghost your bit on the side.
And to the bit left out in the cold, put a smile on your face and just remember the good times and move on.
Once asked the lady who had finished with me if she had a friend that mite be interested, about six months later, looking across a coffee table at her friend….

The mature response. I wish were all as mature in all our dealings on here.