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Discussion - started by Laid-back, posted on 14-Feb-24 2:55AM
So I'm a bi young man single ATM I'm talking to girls on a different dating app but I say I'm straight and so many girls are bi I was wondering if young girls my age would like bi guys and if I should tell them I would love to share my gf with other guys and swing

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Comment #1 by Hereforyou in response to the main topic
Posted on 14-Feb-24 11:23AM
Only my observation but most women even if they are bi themselves shy away from bi guys.
That’s my experience but haven’t had any actually tell me why.
Comment #2 by Saweetie in response to the main topic
Posted on 14-Feb-24 11:43AM
1.Why are you lying about your sexual orientation?
It makes it seem you're not comfortable in your own skin so choose to lie to women.
Even here on your profile you lie saying you're bi curious, but are very sure on this thread you're bi.

I can't speak for everyone, but the reason I'm not into bi guys is because it's a mindfuck wondering while you're fucking me, are you imagining you're fucking another guy in the ass?
Comment #3 by NZuncut in response to the main topic
Posted on 14-Feb-24 3:32PM
"wondering if girls my age would like bi guys"

Its difficult to give blanket answers because what is right for one person isn't for another. You're really looking for two things here: a girl who would date a bi guy AND is open to MFM/MMF swinging.

The best policy is to be open and honest about who you are and the type of person you're looking for. This will give you the best chance of actually finding someone who matches what you're into.

Do be aware that there are a TON of homophobic women out there who have incredibly shitty opinions, preconceptions and paranoias about guys like us, so it pays to be prepared in case you get a negative reaction.
Comment #4 by FrequentFun in response to the main topic
Posted on 16-Feb-24 1:30AM
As a much older (than you) and straight female I don't feel qualified to give you advice on your query. However I will say when you are comfortable in owning your sexual preferences the world will become your oyster. Just be's very freeing.
In response to Hereforyou I wouldn't usually divulge why I initially upon joining sites swerved bi guys (definitely not because I have EVER been homophophic Uncut 😊) but I will reveal MY "why" now. For me it was an uneducated uneasiness/concern re hygiene, cleanliness and disease. Ashamed to admit that now but that's my truth 🤷‍♀️
I did go there and had a sexually fantastic bi fuck buddy for about 4 years! My only regret is that I let that stigma influence me and that it took so long to appreciate what an amazingly skilled, adventurous and pleasure giving lover a bi guy can be. Would also go so far as to some cases even better than straight guys 😉
Comment #5 by Dumbbell in response to the main topic
Posted on 17-Feb-24 12:45PM
If you don't tell them, you're never having group sex with them.
Comment #6 by Curiouslyadventurous69 in response to the main topic
Posted on 17-Feb-24 9:58PM
Perhaps you should be seeking a couple that has a bisexual guy that you could try exploring with before you go seeking a girlfriend at least that way you can get an idea about what your turn ons are in a bi situation and help answer your dilemma.
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Comment #8 by RudeRupert in response to Saweetie ( view post )
Posted on 11-Mar-24 8:05PM
Awe Saweetie, that's a bit sad! I can't speak for everyone but if I'm into you, I'm into you!!

Bi guys love woman! They love the way they smell, they love the way they taste!

I've never been in situation while fucking a woman imagining or wishing that I'm fucking some dude in the ass!
I have wanted to slowly and extremely gently introduce my girl (one without a penis) to anal because I know how fantastic it can be when done nicely!

Its more of a kink for me I guess (and guys are easy, always wanting sex especially if they're deprived of pussy), when your a straight guy, pulling on your hard dick day in and day out, there's nothing dirtier than fantasising what jerking another guy off would feel like or next step putting a cock in your mouth! I've now sucked too many cocks to say I'm bi curious anymore! I would say 5 is the number, if you're sucking cock No 6 on your own free will, well.... Yes Saweetie I agree, lets be honest.... are you really curious??

If your being kissed, touched and worshiped like you should, the bi guy your fucking isn't thinking about some dudes ass in my opinion.
Of course there is the one exception... when its the dude or your partner in your little three way that your lucky enough to be in, is in the room... because your man is Bi you lucky girl!

Comment #9 by Biclpsouth in response to the main topic
Posted on 11-Mar-24 9:24PM
I think just tell them you are bi it could save a lot of pain later on if you find someone and then they find out you are bi
Comment #10 by Saweetie in response to RudeRupert ( view post )
Posted on 12-Mar-24 1:29PM
No, I'm not curious.

I'm very aware I'm not interested in men that are into other men. Whether they are the pitchers or catchers...
Comment #11 by Dumbbell in response to RudeRupert ( view post )
Posted on 12-Mar-24 9:13PM
I love the way you explained it mate!!
Comment #12 by RudeRupert in response to Saweetie ( view post )
Posted on 13-Mar-24 8:14AM
Sorry Saweetie, I'm aware you're not curious or that it's not your thing....I was referring to a "curious bi guy" who is now sucking his 6th cock.... I agree with you, he should be honest with himself, he is past the stage of curiosity!
Posted on 13-Mar-24 8:14AM
Agree 100%
Comment #14 by Gamechanger in response to the main topic
Posted on 16-Mar-24 6:12AM
Make Suttle hints maybe. Watch cuckold porn with her and observe her react
Posted on 17-Mar-24 3:54AM
Everybody, so many different opinions.if you happen to meet a lady that you can share your thoughts, feelings and most of all trust with then it's like winning lotto because there's no point ever buying a ticket to win lotto because you have answered all your questions and misconceptions therefore feel comfortable enough to trust and share that with them. Life's a journey and you can't change how you feel when it comes to that so don't let yourself feel judged by others opinions. It's your road and your journey so don't shy away from it if that's where your heads at.good luck and please share your thoughts whilst learning to understand how you feel. 😊

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