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🤷🏻‍♂️ can you tell me the right answer before I comment 😂😂😂

Only you can tell us hon! But variety is the spice of life!

maybe your two 'standards' give you the answer?
your FWB are average build, extrovert.. easy to get NSA fun from.
possibly you see the 'BIG' lad, introvert, as the one who isn't likely to go off 'NSA' behind your back?(husband material).

Do you think it has something to do with what your own perceptions and expectations are of each role, FWB and/or Relationship, as the two are mutually exclusive?

When I’ve taken the time to explore my own innermost desires and fantasies, within my own heart and mind, I’ve imagined a “type” fir one role and another “type” for a different scenario, and the two personas I’ve encountered each experience with in my imagination, are vastly different.

For me, there’s no right or wrong about this.

It is what it is, but if you REALLY want one and the same person facilitating both roles with and for you, I’d start playing out each scenario in your heart and mind with the same person, because the imagination showcases the coming events of our lives.

It’s that powerful, so have fun with that 😉

Well said :)

Having had many fwbs all shapes and sizes I was able to meet many of my fantasies. Go for whichever works for you.

Thank you, and agreed.

Given that we’re all so unique and different, I find it interesting that many of us like to compare our experiences and experience of life to others, and berate ourselves when shit doesn’t show up how or like we want it.

News Flash: It can’t and it won’t, because of our individual uniqueness.

We’ve all been sold a “one size fits all” agenda, as a means for control.

I say break with tradition and start honouring who you are. Who each of us is, for our own selves, and watch the magic unfold … 😉