Showing comments 4 through 53 out of 53 comments

Yep hard out. Almost like this is a male gay/bi site and a few women signed up by mistake 😂

👍 though have made a few online friends

I bet you have, you're a woman, as the op says...it's a sausage festival here

It does seem most men here are either bi, on here trying to cheat or older men chasing significantly younger women....

A shame really...

I'm probably missing something, but you don't like bi men (your privilege) but you're advertising for women and sex and you describe yourself as a bi woman. That used to be called double standards.

I am a bi woman, and yes my personal preference and search is for single bi women and straight men.

Not every straight dude is into bi women and I don't expect them to be, that's just life...

I put it on my profile to ensure they didn't waste my time or their own...


I don't see where you're coming from exactly...

OK. No doubt I misunderstood your earlier post where most of the attributes of men you found on here you seemed to think were 'bad'. Now I see, not 'bad' just not to your preference. Sorry.
For myself, I like being approached by all sorts. some interesting chats.

👍

There's also the unfortunate and grim reality that most women who DO find their way here are immediately frightened off by the sheer volume of men piling into their inboxes for attention and sex. Welcome to the internet, I guess.

Agreed 👍 well said

Yeah, a few...
Some of them aren't so good at keeping in touch though! Nice to see you're still on here, keeping your hand in.... as it were...
Will chat soon! xx

Just extremely busy as acting boss as well 😆

Accurate, especially the cheating thing.

Attention is fine, but a lot of men seem to have a real sense of entitlement to your attention and time. Its really off putting.

I agree with this statement.

I've been here less than 3 days and had to be a c@nt to 4 men already that couldn't understand I'm not into cheaters or bi men.

The full on ignoring what I want to force what they want from me instead.

But I'm the bitch for standing up for myself....

Right! I also think it's also very telling how some men respond when they're told 'no' (even just online). A very big sign that they're not safe to meet, let alone play.

When they turn feral you mean??

It hasn't happened to me here yet but it's happened on nzd.

From the hottest thing they've ever seen to an ugly fat slut in 2 messages flat.

Wow 😲

Actual!
I get countless messages like "I wanna suck on your big boobies" or "Hi wna meet" or for some reason when I get "wanna try an older man" really irks me because of the assumption that I never have?? and that age is a thing I'm after? When really its them that just wants a younger woman haha or like today this guy sent me multiple messages in a row asking to see my feet so he could spurt a big load on camera to me. Like, its just the audacity. Just because I'm on here looking for sex, does not mean I accept being spoken to like I'm a piece of trash hahaha this site is notorious for that. However, I'm a big girl and just block people when they annoy me

Same. Both on here and NZD.

Unfortunately that sort of behaviour is becoming the norm from all sexes and not just on dating sites but in everyday life. Why the fuck cant people just be a bit more reasonable and respectful to one another. Hell, we all have different likes, dislikes and opinions

Online only I find.

Social media has made too many people comfortable with disrespecting others and not getting punched in the mouth for it...

doesn't help that we hide behind nicknames online. Civility would rise if we used our verified name. Membership would plummet. The price of access...

😂😂😂

So true!

Yes fully agree with you there. Things were a lot easier and simpler before social media that's for sure

And yet we’re all on it.

Ironic as fuck isnt it. This site is exactly the sort of thing most of us are bemoaning. I can say for myself I avoid all other social media. Or should it be called antisocial.

Absolutely ironic.
I think it’s like everything in life - it all needs to be MANAGED. Overindulgence of pretty well everything isn’t good for a person, it leads to all sorts of problems, most of us experience that.

Yeah it's a bit like that. I've met some cool people but now everyone that I talk to wants to wear my knickers....

So true! And think that just because you're a woman here you must fuck everyone that messages you.

Seems to be the go to kink these days. Not my thing and each to their own but I cant help wondering if its just blind trend following.

Hell, I dont expect it but I will freely admit thats why me and every other guy is here

👍

Haha. Yep found that. It's almost unique to this site.
They either want to wear woman's clothes or be some sniveling little sub.
Absolutely turns us off. Where are the real men

“Where are the real men” as he enthusiastically raises his hand while he reads this….

There's one here. I may like the occasional cock but I still fart,belch,drink beer and tell filthy jokes.Haha.And I don't follow the masses blindly.

I might be torn to shreds here and actually this doesn't apply to me as my wife Died years ago, but mostly the reason older married men are on here to find sex is because their wives have shut the shop.
Leave the shop open then they don't have any reason to cheat. Wives own fault really.

If the shop is still open, then, yes, in my opinion, cheating is really bad.

Dont be fooled alot of the cheating men on here think thete wives dont know whats up , they are not stupid most of them do and that is why they may have shut the shop . Ever think that she maybe out getting thrashed letting you think that she is someplace else ,

👍

I agree - just because we get old doesnt mean we all no longer crave sensual touch. Touching isnt the same as love so i dont see why its a bad thing to seek this elsewhere when our partners dont want to.

Maybe it's the deceit.
You don't see it as a bad thing but are probably doing it behind your partners back and lying to him or her

Very true Jss003. I myself am also a verified member of an American hosted website / chat site very similar to this one (on an much much bigger scale) and I kid you not although you can still use / hide behind a nickname you require a verifiable photo ID / an online photo of YOU holding your code etc to even join that site. everything you say and do WILL be recorded ! But on the flip side the people I’ve met with have been more genuine less pushy and most importantly respectful. It has its bad eggs to but the Mods usually keep them in check. Of cause this means there are also a lot of women on that site :) all having a good time and doing their own thing.
One thing everyone likes universally is been shown some Respect :) be kinder and good things happen

Wow! That is transparency

Social media benefits the searchers. Expands horizons exponentially compared to the old days...back then you were limited to people you met. Now you get to filter through thousands and meet a selection. And most of them are going to be dumped and you barrow down to a select few. Searchers have to write a decent accurate attractive profile then be ruthless in deleting, ignoring, blocking. But still be open to conversations with possibles, meetings with probables, and whatever turns you on after that..

Is there such a thing as too much choice in this area? (Not that I suffer from that problem, unfortunately.)

Why pick on just this area? We have way too much choice right across our whole lives and yet we are more dissatisfied than ever. I have just come to realise in the past few days that I have great life and although financially I am not well off, I am still a lucky bloke and I need to be happy with that. So thats me,Ive had enough of all this bullshit. when my sub expires I am gone.

Well sure, but I don't think you quite got my point. I don't actually have much choice - as I said. If you truly were leaving on a matter of principle, you'd leave immediately.

Would you mind sending us the website your talking about we be interested in checking it out

Wow, interesting discussion?

Am I wrong though???
You're here, older, not a single man and keen to fuck around.