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I'm not sure, I am not responsible for removing his posts. I just responded to them when they were up.

Love a good dick pic.

I think it's crude. Before I might have turned my nose away from anyone with one, but I've built up an immunity to it... now I just kinda go
"Oh, that's a [size] cock... anyways"
I don't think I'd ever make my profile picture a cock. Post pictures of mine, sure, but ever make it the first thing you see...? Idk, doing so just feels wrong.

Also, just being gender-neutral, same goes for pussy shots. Vaginas look just as weird and crude as a penis.

I agree,I have a face pic as the first one you should see.Disrection dictates they are for friends only..I just want to explore my kinky side.

I get the impression that dick pics appeal to men more than women - which might be why they are so common here. I wonder if men want acknowledgement/to be seen as men, the most undeniable symbol of which is the cock? So by posting a dick pic they are asking to be seen as a man. Other men respond to this (women tend not to - I have had no feedback from women on my photos, for example) through some kind of empathy arising from their personal need - “I see you mate, do you see me?” For women, the physical symbol of their womanliness is probably their tits rather than their pussy, so we see lots of cleavage on women’s profiles rather than clefts 😄. Just some thoughts.

Thanks for adding value to the discussion with your perspective, had me thinking ahh I didn't see it that way :)

>o<

Hehehe, this was a good thread to come across. Coincidentally I changed my profile-dick-pic a little while before I saw this though

As a bisexual CD. I don't like cockpics on the profile. Like one of the other ladies said, it's the person who is behind the cock that interest us. There are some real out there peeps saying they are straight on their profile, but message me constantly with dic pics, and to be honest... don't listen/read very well and they tend to dodge questions...

Good post, some food for thought. It’s been something I’ve been considering.
Men are wired differently to women. Theirs in an alpha-male quality mimicked from nature. From an early age, men compare themselves to other men, trying to prove their prowess, ease and ability to reproduce and most importantly, be desired by a female - preferably alpha in nature as well. Strong genetics for furthering the species.
Women, on the other had - and please note that I speak GENERALLY here - are driven by oxytocin - the ‘glue’ in a relationship - she will look for good quality personality and dependability traits and the ability to protect the off-spring.

I’m afraid, a few lines on a dating site doesn’t cover the complexities. But in short, I don’t believe a cock-pic - pleasing as they are impresses a woman all that easily.

You've answered thats aptly (CLAP#2)

Agree

Peeps with no pics don't stand a chance🤣

You got me and I concede. A cock pic is better than no pic. At least it has some personality…

Cock pics = creepy more substance that seeing your meat as your profile.

For me as a man it's critical because I all i am interested in is the cock. Cuts all the time wasting out ...good cock nice I wana suck it 😅

Same here. Although I enjoying playing as bi, I am not into men sexually as much as women - except for cocks! Generally, I have always liked women more than men in all respects - except for cocks lol! There is just something about a nice hard cock that appeals.

Yep same here I'm not interested in a relationship.....I don't think any one on this site should be this is basically a digital glory hole 😅

Hi all. Been following this discussion with amused interest. Now time for me to weigh in with my seemingly minority opinion...amongst the female sorority at least.
Upon initially joining sites, although no prude, the incoming over saturation of dick pics was akin to a slap in the face with a wet fish
Some time after the first onslaught I moved into the unphased stage...yep, there's dick pic number 113 🤷‍♀️
Since then they do sort of work for me. Yes, I, too, wish to chat and discover if a connection to move forward forms with the person attached to said appendage. Should that go well dick pics serve their own purpose in already having provided me with information I don't have to enquire after re my preferences in that department 😊 A bit like window shopping or online shopping you could say.
On the flip side can't help but wonder if men viewing women's profiles have the same/or any issues with prolific pussy pics...hmmm 🤔
Before you look no, I choose not to regale all and sundry with mine...rather retain some mystery and leave something to the imagination should I wish to share 😉

Thank you for your perspective Scorpio (are you a Supergroove fan, by any chance?). The OP was aimed at your kind but it seems that mostly it is my kind who have weighed in. The commentary counterpart to dic pics perhaps? Women wishing to remain a bit mysterious and lure the prey in to their lair vs men casting out the tackle in the hope that something will bite? Hunter vs gatherer?

Aside from the dick pics.. I must admit.. Some look delicious and some need a hedge trimmer...the some of the member profile names get me🤣

To each their own I guess, some look amazing and others make me think "wow, that's really how you want to try to sell it? OK I guess..."

I know my wife likes them a lot

I have seen some bloody awful vagina profile pics. People need to be careful with the quality of their pictures.

I am an older mature male I’m intelligent and have done some amazing things in my life and I would be happy just to have a woman to txt and sometimes about sexy stuff That makes you all excited But I can hardly get a reply from any females and I continually read statements like ‘if your married bugger off! Don’t think it would matter if I showed a face or a dick pic I thought people on here would be more open minded but maybe there are just too many men and not enough women with open minds

Open minded about being married and your spouse knows nothing about your activites? And you don't see what the problem is?

Don’t judge, your profile spells out your boundaries but don’t imply other should follow them as well, everyone has their circumstances and the gentleman is just reaching out for some dialogue and potentially some fun. If everyone including these websites had strict morals to live by then none of these sites would exist. Let others decide.

same, mine is to

Hear hear

hi sweeties,x

Hi josie

I didn't imply others should follow suit. Only thing I will imply is the problem he has having digesting women may have morals and boundaries.

I fully understand that women have morals and boundaries and I have the greatest regard for woman I helped raise two lovely daughters that often worked in a man’s world fencing and shearing and have seen men that treat women like shit and have intervened to shut this down What pisses me off is when people abuse me because my morals don’t align with there’s Escorts for example deserve all the respect in the world for the service they provide and the shit they have to put up with from some ignorant men If someone’s morals don’t align you don’t need to be abusive ( which included ghosting) Just say sorry we are on different planets and leave it at that 🙃

Hear hear,

Flirty chat, finding words to titillate, teasing out desires, subtle suggestions, feeling heat in replys, arousal ... replies tailored .. direct or inferred ...its beautiful slow foreplay.. assimilation ..a combo of dating and foreplay..
Not everyones gig... thats cool..

Yes, obviously Bobbett, at least some or all of the above are desirable themes of conversation once chat has been initiated and a possible yearning to follow up on connections made is mutually present.
However, the main topic question re profile dick pics was directed at ladies pre chat 🙃

Absolutely it was..and I apologize for not staying on track. . However another area you touched on, was whether men would be slapped in the face by a wet fish after seeing a pussy photo on every ladies profile?
I for one would wouldnt... for the very same reasons you mentioned... despite the idea of being fish slapped being somewhat interesting !!!
The more pussy the merrier, variety is ... A cracking pussy isnt the be all or end all... but its great bait!😋

Apology accepted 🙏 Not literally the question I posed re pussy pics but 🤣 and touchè!

I personally would love it if every woman’s profile had a pussy pic As for the wet fish …… where would the average person find a wet fish to slap someone with 🤔

Im not sure metaphorical fish are available in the fish market..

I’ve heard they are quite endangered ( metaphorically speaking) but pussies are still relatively common although quite hard to catch 😊

One could easily subscribe to the endangered theory you alluded to, based on the scarcity of the aforementioned "Pussy" on this medium!
With complete anonymity assured, the old "body image" chestnut is the probable root cause of the scarcity!
Blokes on the other hand are not immune, but possibly to a lesser degree, readily sharing electronic recordings of their phallases...being bent, coloured, circumcised, fat or short
Hairy or disheveled!
Im amused that those that come with labia's seem comfy to share, boob's or facials, but overly reluctant to have a well lit closeup of the bit us guys are salivating after for our perusal !
Not necessarily as the main bio pic, but proudly displayed in the photo tab!

Although I had to read your last comment twice to gain a full understanding of your meaning I heartily agree with it . We men grow from shy we lads to blatant exhibitionists at about the age of thirteen. As you stated though while many women will expose the occasional boob it is quite rare for them to display the gorgeous jewels that lurk lower down As a consequence they are often not overly impressed when men display photographic evidence of their pride and joy It’s a dilemma that is not solely prevalent on this website Im afraid😐

Beautifully written sir!
And gorgeous receptacles they are! No two are the same! Beautiful in every respect.
Glistening in moist anticipation..
Detailed... perfection !
A jewel as you so eloquent put it! Certainly its more attractive if its owner is free spirited and adventurous... oh... and proud!
💕💕