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What's with all the profile dick pics
Discussion - started by Nzguy74, posted on 3-May-24 6:44PM
Do they work for you. Ladies thoughts ?

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Comment #1 by Tasty1 in response to the main topic
Posted on 4-May-24 7:10AM
No. Not to say they aren't good at some point but as a profile pic "less is more" doesn't work for me.
Comment #2 by bdf2 in response to the main topic
Posted on 4-May-24 12:25PM
Not in the slightest.
Comment #3 by Jss003 in response to the main topic
Posted on 4-May-24 1:02PM
Could the mostly be aimed at or for guys?
Comment #4 by Vanessa-Playgurl in response to the main topic
Posted on 4-May-24 4:10PM
I like them
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Comment #6 by Jss003 in response to Rumpus_fun ( view post )
Posted on 4-May-24 4:38PM
People would run a mile if they saw my tiny presence in advance. But you know what they say about small packages
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Comment #8 by Jss003 in response to Rumpus_fun ( view post )
Posted on 4-May-24 4:48PM
Fair point. And I was going to add a pic but can't find the button. Am I missing something or just too old to find what's obvious?
Comment #9 by Kandi in response to the main topic
Posted on 4-May-24 4:51PM
No, i find them off putting
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Comment #12 by Cheekies in response to the main topic
Posted on 5-May-24 9:10AM
Nope, seeing a profile pic of a cock doesn't do anything for me, it's distracting and doesn't have the impact on me that these guys assume it should have... I want to know about the person behind the cock, as that's the one I'm talking to, not their cock... time and place for everything.
Posted on 5-May-24 9:41AM
Just because you think it's a sexual hook up site, doesn't mean it is, this site is alot more than that. Shared thoughts and ideas around sexual topics, kinks are not about hooking up.
Comment #14 by Tasty1 in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 5-May-24 9:49AM
Totally!
Comment #15 by bdf2 in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 5-May-24 10:15AM
👍
Posted on 5-May-24 11:45AM
Totally agree
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Posted on 5-May-24 12:53PM
That's based purely on your own opinion not every meet is a hook up one. I have met up with loads of people and developed some great friendships from this site from all over New Zealand, whom I'd gladly acknowledge in a public setting. There's a thing called Meet and Greets.

It is also possible to talk to like minded individuals about kinks, fetishes and it not leading to a hook up. It's a safe space to share openly with like minded people who don't judge or lecture you on them as many get in their realities.

Note: many items have the picture of the item and description on the package, tearing the packages open is a you thing.
Comment #19 by Kandi in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 5-May-24 4:47PM
Have i missed all the fun ? seems like each time Rumpus fun puts a comment it's deleted (naughty boy) although he does have a dick pic as his main profile pic, maybe his ego took a hit !
Comment #20 by Cheekies in response to Kandi ( view post )
Posted on 5-May-24 5:07PM
I'm not sure, I am not responsible for removing his posts. I just responded to them when they were up.
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Comment #22 by Biguycrom in response to the main topic
Posted on 8-May-24 5:06PM
Love a good dick pic.
Comment #23 by Natey in response to the main topic
Posted on 21-May-24 10:55PM
I think it's crude. Before I might have turned my nose away from anyone with one, but I've built up an immunity to it... now I just kinda go
"Oh, that's a [size] cock... anyways"
I don't think I'd ever make my profile picture a cock. Post pictures of mine, sure, but ever make it the first thing you see...? Idk, doing so just feels wrong.

Also, just being gender-neutral, same goes for pussy shots. Vaginas look just as weird and crude as a penis.
Comment #24 by gaffer69 in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 22-May-24 1:01AM
I agree,I have a face pic as the first one you should see.Disrection dictates they are for friends only..I just want to explore my kinky side.
Comment #25 by Gwauck in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 22-May-24 6:50PM
I get the impression that dick pics appeal to men more than women - which might be why they are so common here. I wonder if men want acknowledgement/to be seen as men, the most undeniable symbol of which is the cock? So by posting a dick pic they are asking to be seen as a man. Other men respond to this (women tend not to - I have had no feedback from women on my photos, for example) through some kind of empathy arising from their personal need - “I see you mate, do you see me?” For women, the physical symbol of their womanliness is probably their tits rather than their pussy, so we see lots of cleavage on women’s profiles rather than clefts 😄. Just some thoughts.
Comment #26 by Cheekies in response to Gwauck ( view post )
Posted on 22-May-24 9:29PM
Thanks for adding value to the discussion with your perspective, had me thinking ahh I didn't see it that way :)
Comment #27 by Gwauck in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 22-May-24 10:18PM
>o<
Comment #28 by CuriousAndGentle in response to the main topic
Posted on 23-May-24 1:52AM
Hehehe, this was a good thread to come across. Coincidentally I changed my profile-dick-pic a little while before I saw this though
Comment #29 by Alexi7040 in response to the main topic
Posted on 10-Jun-24 12:54PM
As a bisexual CD. I don't like cockpics on the profile. Like one of the other ladies said, it's the person who is behind the cock that interest us. There are some real out there peeps saying they are straight on their profile, but message me constantly with dic pics, and to be honest... don't listen/read very well and they tend to dodge questions...
Comment #30 by Davidbutler in response to Gwauck ( view post )
Posted on 10-Jun-24 9:34AM
Good post, some food for thought. It’s been something I’ve been considering.
Men are wired differently to women. Theirs in an alpha-male quality mimicked from nature. From an early age, men compare themselves to other men, trying to prove their prowess, ease and ability to reproduce and most importantly, be desired by a female - preferably alpha in nature as well. Strong genetics for furthering the species.
Women, on the other had - and please note that I speak GENERALLY here - are driven by oxytocin - the ‘glue’ in a relationship - she will look for good quality personality and dependability traits and the ability to protect the off-spring.

I’m afraid, a few lines on a dating site doesn’t cover the complexities. But in short, I don’t believe a cock-pic - pleasing as they are impresses a woman all that easily.
Posted on 10-Jun-24 2:09PM
You've answered thats aptly (CLAP#2)
Comment #32 by bdf2 in response to Cheekies ( view post )
Posted on 10-Jun-24 2:49PM
Agree
Posted on 10-Jun-24 5:12PM
Peeps with no pics don't stand a chance🤣
Posted on 10-Jun-24 8:59PM
You got me and I concede. A cock pic is better than no pic. At least it has some personality…
Comment #35 by Hungaluga in response to the main topic
Posted on 11-Jun-24 7:43AM
Cock pics = creepy more substance that seeing your meat as your profile.
Comment #36 by Tommiegreen in response to the main topic
Posted on 11-Jun-24 10:21AM
For me as a man it's critical because I all i am interested in is the cock. Cuts all the time wasting out ...good cock nice I wana suck it 😅
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Comment #38 by Gwauck in response to Tommiegreen ( view post )
Posted on 11-Jun-24 1:27PM
Same here. Although I enjoying playing as bi, I am not into men sexually as much as women - except for cocks! Generally, I have always liked women more than men in all respects - except for cocks lol! There is just something about a nice hard cock that appeals.
Comment #39 by Tommiegreen in response to Gwauck ( view post )
Posted on 11-Jun-24 2:49PM
Yep same here I'm not interested in a relationship.....I don't think any one on this site should be this is basically a digital glory hole 😅
Comment #40 by FrequentFun in response to the main topic
Posted on 11-Jun-24 10:18PM
Hi all. Been following this discussion with amused interest. Now time for me to weigh in with my seemingly minority opinion...amongst the female sorority at least.
Upon initially joining sites, although no prude, the incoming over saturation of dick pics was akin to a slap in the face with a wet fish
Some time after the first onslaught I moved into the unphased stage...yep, there's dick pic number 113 🤷‍♀️
Since then they do sort of work for me. Yes, I, too, wish to chat and discover if a connection to move forward forms with the person attached to said appendage. Should that go well dick pics serve their own purpose in already having provided me with information I don't have to enquire after re my preferences in that department 😊 A bit like window shopping or online shopping you could say.
On the flip side can't help but wonder if men viewing women's profiles have the same/or any issues with prolific pussy pics...hmmm 🤔
Before you look no, I choose not to regale all and sundry with mine...rather retain some mystery and leave something to the imagination should I wish to share 😉
Comment #41 by Gwauck in response to FrequentFun ( view post )
Posted on 12-Jun-24 8:30AM
Thank you for your perspective Scorpio (are you a Supergroove fan, by any chance?). The OP was aimed at your kind but it seems that mostly it is my kind who have weighed in. The commentary counterpart to dic pics perhaps? Women wishing to remain a bit mysterious and lure the prey in to their lair vs men casting out the tackle in the hope that something will bite? Hunter vs gatherer?
Posted on 15-Jun-24 2:49PM
Aside from the dick pics.. I must admit.. Some look delicious and some need a hedge trimmer...the some of the member profile names get me🤣
Comment #43 by NZuncut in response to the main topic
Posted on 16-Jun-24 3:06PM
To each their own I guess, some look amazing and others make me think "wow, that's really how you want to try to sell it? OK I guess..."
Comment #44 by Ivan in response to the main topic
Posted on 19-Jun-24 6:00PM
I know my wife likes them a lot
Comment #45 by Biguycrom in response to the main topic
Posted on 22-Jun-24 9:04AM
I have seen some bloody awful vagina profile pics. People need to be careful with the quality of their pictures.

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