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I'm sure someone in our lovely NZP family will be in touch with you 😉

How condescending can anyone be

Yea man cheers

My post comes from a position of knowledge and sympathy. I have for many years worked within the disability access sector. I can confidently tell you that sex is one of the bigger ignored issues that many disabled people struggle with - and which society ignores. You are not addressing inclusion for disabled people by just building a wheelchair ramp. Thank you for responding, my post was intended to create a conversation - hopefully it will also raise awareness.

Don't bring inclusion into your so called conversation. It is totally irrelevant.

I wonder what facts you are basing your statements on?

Geeeez just let the guy have a shag, you guys are making a mountain of a mole hill

That was my point. But ok, moving on 🙂

I too work within the sector.
‘inclusion’ totally irrelevant? I don’t believe it is, based on the initial post. A conversation is usually accommodated with someone who can string more than two words together and use a little lateral thinking - both of which I doubt you have any concept of.
In the disabled world, sex is not addressed as it is a ‘hot topic’ no one wants to handle. (Read slowly so that you understand). Sex is primal and very much an ignored need.
Look up the word ‘primal’.

Well folks no one understands disability
Until it happens to them.
Yes some disabled people want to enjoy
The closeness of another human in an
Intimate setting. For them a hug and a nice kiss is all they need others require
More intimate touching and stroking etc.
Of course there are the ones with arms and legs missing and can live a normal life and need someone to love.

And this post leads nicely onto X-rays original - and KIND - post - consider others and not only yourself.
People with disabilities have the same needs as we have, whether it be basic food, water security and love. They have primal need, which are more often not met - and will not know the pure joy of a physical night with another person, whether it just be offloading, or love.
Why not?

Why does it need to be a season to extend offer of love and sexual fulfilment, should be anytime of the year.
Understanding what you are promoting but possibly wrong choice of words.
Just make sure sexual fulfilment offer is for the right reason and not a perverted bucket list to all you people reading these threads.

What a great idea, nice post.
I don't know any such ppl in my life otherwise I would. How would I meet such a person online, is there a community?

I don’t think there is such a ‘community’ as such and Biguycrom does have a point there…. God only knows what can crawl out of the woodwork.
But the initial post comes from a place of kindness and above all - even if it’s only a few people - gets to an audience that is fairly sexually active.

So, it’s good to stop for a moment and consider others.

I wish

Cheers

excellent post .sadly the intent behind it seems to have been hijacked by some u savoury comments from people with a disability kink or haters.Thats the downside

of forums like this.xray has a valid point sex is a basic need like shelter food water and physical connection.good luck hope you fulfill your needs

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