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Theres a lot of dreamers around alright or join up and are never online at all or dont bother responding to messages

Yep I'm about to have a clean out, and for the first time ever I'm going to delete and block a few.

I question the motives behind many users who appear out of nowhere throw in some breadcrumbs into discussion then poof disappear, only to recreate themselves with another username same persona.. another breadcrumb and so it goes on
Equally the many users who message me with outlandish requests then instantly shut their profiles down.

Included are those recreated users whom act like they've never chatted to you before and when they don't get their narrative to play out all of a sudden play remember and confessions of who you are.. bizarre unstable and unhinged behaviour...absolute life wasting..

Yip so rude, if you send someone a message, the least you can do if the're not your type or whatever, just say 'hey, thanks, but I'm not interested' pretty easy really.

We find a hell of a lot on here try organizing a swingers party or a gang bang i spend hours on here trying to promote at least a bit of excitement,and they dont even have the decency to at least reply.Like our weekend swingers group 165 members three actually are going to attend,WTF?SO MANY BLOODY TIME WASTERS,they blame NZP for their failure get a life and take a good look at your selves,wanking with one hand and typing with the other

I think a lot of people on here are are sitting on the toilet jerking off while they are hiding from their wives and partners

I find a lot of people who contact me haven’t read my profile first, if you can’t be bothered reading a profile then why should I be bothered sending a reply? There’s two sides to the story. I want those 5 pages, it helps me determine if you’re safe etc. One chap recently probably did 20 pages and I’m guessing he’s not regretting that now. People have different reasons or ideas on things, I think it’s just an unfortunate fact we have to trawl through a LOT of unsuitable ones to find something good, hang in there.

Not proper swingers you reckon.We are i actually met my wife at a swingers party,but its the wannabes that i dislike and so many on here >:-X

I have just been booting so many from our managed sites sick of them quite frankly

I've always wanted to meet up with a couple but never had the opportunity.personaly I think a lot of couples profiles are single guys pretending to be couples,especially the ones that say they play seperatley

We do also play seperatley,but as a couple also.We meet we play,when we run parties we always treat the ladies with upmost respect,such as before the party her likes and dislikes,and any fantasies she may have to try and make her night something memorable for her?partner if she has one

So if you look at all the contact I've had since the initial post, all agree with what has been said that those that come here either belong to the "tap and gap" scene and are quite demanding or are on here to enjoy life and meet up with others as a genuine experience. The selfish and greedy are in the minority which is great, I know from my own experience there are some great communicators on here, sadly the minority will attempt to lie and bully their way to the front with only one goal,and to get their rocks off. Don't be that person.

Yep you can just see them, dick in one hand phone in the other feverishly typing in the hope someone while respond and shine a tiny ray of sunshine into their sad lives.

Yes its getting the man interested then saying the womans not playing atm.

If they wanted you time the thing called block option is there. Name n shame trick usually works coz eventually they are known. Just be sr8 if you not intrested. Timewasters are usually the cheating shitheads that like to play round over the year of meeting people. Not into games they get blocked. I believe in common decentcy why coz society not the way it was.

some are so up themselves and dont bother to answer you

Nah just wannabees wanting to be noticed and make out they are real players

No m not 😂

Damn; I’m sorry that’s been your experience. It’s not one I share at all. Only been a member a short time & have made some great IRL connections.

To address someone’s comments about always replying to messages…absolutely not…I personally don’t have the time to respond to every inbox I get. I know exactly who I want to talk to & if you’re outside that then I owe you nothing.

In my world ‘no’ is a complete sentence & no response is a clear response. Seems that message hasn’t filtered through to NZP 🤷‍♀️

Are y’all tryna facilitate links ONLY using NZP?

so very true

so very true, shame really

The next group of time wasters are the guys that come on to the site as a couple,with all the interests listed and two good profiles, when contacted the stock answer then becomes "the wife's not playing at the moment" as if she ever was, nothing but click bait.
If the wife isn't playing, that makes you a single, change your profile.

You got that right

It will be interesting to see how many more with our party showing up for Kings birthday weekend

I haven’t turned up twice to something I’ve agreed, both due to things out of my control. I do like to meet people, even if nothing happens, but I will always prioritise anything else that comes up in front of getting fucked by a stranger (First time was because I got sick and didn’t want to spread it, second time was because my friend invited me out which I did give warning about, it just wasn’t seen until after we were meant to meet).

Besides that, I kind of get more picky against people without well defined kinks or no pictures, although I’ll usually straight up say no instead of ghosting them.

Totally correct there plenty of them.

why do you think that, we all want fun maybethey stay home and wank,

I’ve just joined this site; thank you for the heads up on this.