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Discreet bi

Discussion - started by sledge, posted on 8-May-25 6:44AM

Married but bi how do you find likewise

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Comment #1 by sledge in response to the main topic

Posted on 14-May-25 3:32PM

What's the secret to meeting others

Comment #2 by Jamessingle01 in response to sledge ( view post )

Posted on 14-May-25 3:48PM

Where u based

Comment #3 by Mademedoit in response to Jamessingle01 ( view post )

Posted on 14-May-25 4:11PM

I would love to meet another shy guy who like me is inexperienced
Meet to experiment bi sexual activities open and non threatening . Most importantly, not behind a bush or in a public toilet

Comment #4 by Maizcay in response to sledge ( view post )

Posted on 14-May-25 4:34PM

Patience I think . Hosting is usually the most difficult obstacle given that a lot if us are exploring this side with discretion a priority. I have missed out many times as I can’t host and I also avoid public meets as the risk is too high (in my mind anyway)

Comment #5 by Mademedoit in response to Maizcay ( view post )

Posted on 14-May-25 4:42PM

Totally agree

Comment #6 by sledge in response to Jamessingle01 ( view post )

Posted on 14-May-25 6:33PM

GISBORNE

Comment #7 by sledge in response to Maizcay ( view post )

Posted on 14-May-25 6:34PM

Agreed two dangerous

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Comment #9 by Whynotu in response to Maizcay ( view post )

Posted on 14-May-25 9:50PM

Hosting can be difficult at times. I live alone, Im retired and can host at virtually any time. It's resulted in meeting more guys than I ever imagined. They all say the same...hosting us often difficult..
Some have asked if they can "bring a friend " to enjoy at my place..

Comment #10 by Jamessingle01 in response to sledge ( view post )

Posted on 14-May-25 11:19PM

I like the edge of the danger. It can be scary but the ecvitment i like

Comment #11 by sledge in response to Whynotu ( view post )

Posted on 15-May-25 3:10AM

You are so lucky

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Comment #13 by sledge in response to Mademedoit ( view post )

Posted on 16-May-25 5:19AM

Be perfect wouldn't it

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Comment #15 by Hamish in response to Whynotu ( view post )

Posted on 21-May-25 11:11AM

Yep I agree, I can host too,but still could do with a few more visitors, x

Comment #16 by Whynotu in response to Hamish ( view post )

Posted on 21-May-25 11:54PM

Some nice pics there Hamish, impressive

Comment #17 by Mademedoit in response to Whynotu ( view post )

Posted on 22-May-25 10:51AM

Indeed

Comment #18 by sledge in response to Hamish ( view post )

Posted on 22-May-25 11:29AM

Very nice wish I could visit

Comment #19 by Hamish in response to Whynotu ( view post )

Posted on 22-May-25 4:14PM

I guess at least I've got some for everyone to perv at lol

Comment #20 by sledge in response to Mademedoit ( view post )

Posted on 23-May-25 8:33AM

Agreed

Comment #21 by sledge in response to Maizcay ( view post )

Posted on 23-May-25 8:35AM

Yes being discreet is easy meeting likewise is hard

Comment #22 by sledge in response to sledge ( view post )

Posted on 26-May-25 7:55AM

Someone who works from home or retired would be perfect

Comment #23 by wishbone22 in response to sledge ( view post )

Posted on 26-May-25 1:49PM

without a wife who doesn't know

Comment #24 by sledge in response to wishbone22 ( view post )

Posted on 26-May-25 2:26PM

Yet that 2

Comment #25 by Whynotu in response to sledge ( view post )

Posted on 28-May-25 3:46PM

I'm a retired widower, whivmch has its benefits...now..

Comment #26 by sledge in response to Whynotu ( view post )

Posted on 29-May-25 7:23AM

Pity we so far away

Comment #27 by sledge in response to Hamish ( view post )

Posted on 30-May-25 10:51AM

love the photos

Comment #28 by Whynotu in response to sledge ( view post )

Posted on 30-May-25 1:14PM

Where are you. ? Hoping to do roadie through North Island later this year..

Comment #29 by sledge in response to Whynotu ( view post )

Posted on 1-Jun-25 5:17AM

I'm in Gisborne

Comment #30 by Whynotu in response to sledge ( view post )

Posted on 1-Jun-25 12:14PM

I'm hoping to get to east coast and travel south from about Coromandel Peninsula..

Comment #31 by sledge in response to Whynotu ( view post )

Posted on 1-Jun-25 8:27PM

During week days best for me

Comment #32 by Whynotu in response to sledge ( view post )

Posted on 1-Jun-25 8:30PM

Easily arranged..lol

Comment #33 by wishbone22 in response to Whynotu ( view post )

Posted on 1-Jun-25 8:33PM

Wish I could make arrangements easily

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Comment #35 by sledge in response to Whynotu ( view post )

Posted on 2-Jun-25 6:02AM

Nice

Comment #36 by Curiouslyadventurous69 in response to the main topic

Posted on 2-Jun-25 6:46AM

Im bi and married and sadly she doesnt have an adventurous open mind like myself so although she knows im bi she doesnt wish to join me for the journey of sexual exsploration and pleasures so sadly i have to bide my time until the opportunity presents itself whereby i can arrange a hookup with another guy.
I feel no shame or guilt afterwards as i was bi when we met and cant,wontchange how i feel when the urge for cock presents itself as its not something that can just be ignored as its a part of who i am as a man and quite honestly when i have denied it in the past and lead a straight life those feelings,urges,cravings,desir es never go away so denying it is lying to myself.hope that makes sense.