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Discussion - started by Montyray, posted on 17-Jul-25 6:24AM
is anyone heading there today.? Might go for my first visit

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Comment #109 by Kernik in response to Samsavior ( view post )
Posted on 2-Sep-25 4:40PM
I had no reason to disbelieve the post. When having my last tests, the nurses did say there is a wave of sti's going around at the moment.
Comment #110 by Hornbyxxx in response to Kernik ( view post )
Posted on 2-Sep-25 5:22PM
But you know within a few hours that you're infected?
While he states that he only was unprotected during the oral part of the excitement.
But hey, each to it's own.
Posted on 3-Sep-25 1:52AM
I have no reason to lie. I get my self tested every 3mouths and it was in all honesty my 1st sexal contact before my last negative test so year it was contacted during my vist there i no I fucked up by not using full protection and year that's my fault and I deserve the flack for that but I could of happyley said nothing and left others unaware my original post was an attempt to reach out to the others who were there that night in a hope they would see the post but hey everyone is welcome to there own opinions but you what they say about that opinions they are like assholes everyone's got one
Posted on 3-Sep-25 9:58AM
Not trying to discredit you, just posting out facts.
If you do not have any symptoms and you want a sexual health check, we suggest an appointment 2 weeks after your last unprotected sex. This is because infections such as chlamydia and gonorrhoea may take up to 2 weeks to show up on tests. For some infections like syphilis and HIV it may take longer.
These are the STD tests that can be done 2-7 days (or within one week) post exposure and their corresponding accuracy at that time in parenthesis.
Chlamydia urine and swab test*
Gonorrhea urine and swab test*
Herpes swab test(only if sores are visible and wet)
*likely to be detected
Posted on 3-Sep-25 10:13AM
You have claimed to have caught two Sti's and the nurse informed you of this... But you said you got gonorrhea and the clap... The clap is gonorrhea. Also the nurse would never use the term "the clap"... And as pointed out the infection window is two weeks... Yet you claim to be infected within the hour.
Do you see why people are questioning your story.
It really sounds like you were already infected, and whilst trying to do the right thing and inform those you were playing with,it sounds like you are trying to hide the fact it was you who introduced it.
Or maybe your story is more sinister.
Comment #114 by Xbox101 in response to JonS100 ( view post )
Posted on 5-Sep-25 1:19PM
Did you make it in
Posted on 6-Sep-25 9:27PM
When Diversities open, they mentioned that sort of thing at Menfriends back then. Shame there aren't no bars of actually nice places to go
Comment #116 by MXC in response to SarahSloane ( view post )
Posted on 7-Sep-25 10:04AM
I see there's an all genders/ sexes/serial orientation party there towards the end of the month
Comment #117 by Mike4fun in response to MXC ( view post )
Posted on 7-Sep-25 8:38PM
Is there any more info on this yet???
Posted on 7-Sep-25 10:49PM
Yes 27th September. Likely will have to book a space. Further info will be given this week.
Comment #119 by Wayno88 in response to Thebodyshop ( view post )
Posted on 8-Sep-25 6:40AM
Awesome, great place, great buy. Looking forward to the changes you make
Posted on 9-Sep-25 5:34AM
Looking forward to that
Posted on 9-Sep-25 2:48PM
I am as well
Comment #122 by PhilGee in response to Millman ( view post )
Posted on 9-Sep-25 4:13PM
Hopefully a bright future with more options
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Comment #124 by Gameboy in response to Djkai22 ( view post )
Posted on 9-Sep-25 9:45PM
I,m going tomorrow
Posted on 10-Sep-25 7:17PM
Hey everyone, we have posted details of the party on the 27th on our Facebook page. Cheers
Posted on 11-Sep-25 6:42AM
great , planning on going to that in one of my hot school girl outfits , hope I get fiddled with behind the bike sheds
Posted on 11-Sep-25 7:20AM
Can you post a link for those with out an active Facebook account?
comment #128 was clobbered
Posted on 11-Sep-25 9:40AM
Ok thanks. Much appreciated
Posted on 25-Sep-25 8:47PM
Is this still happening
Posted on 25-Sep-25 9:27PM
Yes but is sold out. Next one is Halloween
Posted on 25-Sep-25 9:31PM
K
Comment #133 by MrandMrsSmith in response to the main topic
Posted on 27-Sep-25 6:15PM
Do they still have the glory holes
Posted on 27-Sep-25 6:17PM
Yes they do have a couple up there
Posted on 27-Sep-25 6:32PM
Nice
Comment #136 by Xbox101 in response to Thebodyshop ( view post )
Posted on 27-Sep-25 7:18PM
Hi guys have you got a report
On the 27th night ?. Love to find out cheers
Posted on 28-Sep-25 7:11AM
Mmm that would look sexy
Comment #138 by Thebodyshop in response to Xbox101 ( view post )
Posted on 28-Sep-25 12:05PM
Was a great turnout and everyone looked to have a fab night!
Posted on 28-Sep-25 4:39PM
Wouldn't have expected it any different
Love the little changes that you put in place. Hope to get there the next time
Posted on 28-Sep-25 7:34PM
Thanks very much.
Posted on 30-Sep-25 7:13PM
Are the hrs still the same
Posted on 30-Sep-25 8:51PM
Yes they are.
Comment #143 by jtnz in response to MissCassie ( view post )
Posted on 1-Oct-25 10:39PM
A few of them! Some are raised - you go up some stairs and poke it out through a hole that's about.... hmmm... about head height on the other side. Strange huh?
Others are all at the usual height.
It's a great set up there.
There's also a dungeon room with a cross and various bondage apparatus.
Comment #144 by jtnz in response to Thebodyshop ( view post )
Posted on 1-Oct-25 10:44PM
I'm really hoping to get down there again and visit your new and improved Menfriends - and catch up with you (both!!!) for another delicious massage sometime soon.
Comment #145 by MissCassie in response to jtnz ( view post )
Posted on 1-Oct-25 10:46PM
Yes I no .....I want to set up getting gangbanged with a group of 4 to 5 guys ..... in the dungeon rm whether it's the stock or the cross I've never put myself out there for that kind of group .....I'm prepared an in the mindset that this is going to happen
Posted on 3-Oct-25 9:06AM
If you want us to arrange someone to supervise then please let me know.
Posted on 3-Oct-25 3:34PM
Yum , never been involved in a gangbang ,would love to tho
Comment #148 by Perf in response to Alwayhorny ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-25 9:16PM
The incubation period for gonorrhea (the clap) is longer then the time you would have spent at menfriends. You couldn't have got it during your encounter there then tested positive straight away. Whats more likely is that it was missed during your test 3 months earlier.
Posted on 3-Oct-25 9:17PM
Did you know we (Menfriends) have free STI checks every Thursday 5-7pm.
Comment #150 by Kernik in response to Thebodyshop ( view post )
Posted on 4-Oct-25 7:01AM
That is good to know
Posted on 4-Oct-25 5:42PM
Any couples over 60 attend?Love to go but need to know what sort of age as I like older.
Comment #152 by Thebodyshop in response to the main topic
Posted on 12-Oct-25 11:20AM
We have Bathurst on today if anyone is keen to watch.
Posted on 12-Oct-25 11:35AM
I have bath thirst on
Comment #154 by Kernik in response to Thebodyshop ( view post )
Posted on 12-Oct-25 2:00PM
Great thinking
Comment #155 by jtnz in response to Thebodyshop ( view post )
Posted on 12-Oct-25 2:39PM
That would be brilliant, especially the chance to sit around nude and watch Bathurst, ideally with a few cold beers. Unfortunately I'm at the wrong end of the country. Hoping to look you up next time I'm down that way, maybe a couple of weeks from now.
Posted on 12-Oct-25 2:55PM
Excellent!
Posted on 15-Oct-25 10:59AM
Been following this thread and it sounds like you're really improving this place , wishing I lived in Christchurch lol .
Posted on 15-Oct-25 12:52PM
Hey thanks! We are certainly trying to make it a more enjoyable place for everyone.

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