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What does slutty mean to you? Is it simply having experienced many sexual partners?

Some people just naturally see sex as a purely physical act so therefore can connect with many people. I’m not fond of the word promiscuous as it frequently has negative connotations.

Some people will be quite staid in their approach and then either driven by a partner who provides a safe space or driven by hormones will experience a sexual awakening of sorts and become more adventurous or ‘free’.

I feel that trying to replicate a female experience lacks authenticity as we all experience life differently and also preferences are consistently changing.

For myself; there are experiences I enjoy with one man that I would never speak about with anyone else I’m intimate with.

You’re your own person so whatever feels right for you is exactly the way it should be and what feels right will grow & change over time.

The whole human experience is both a spectrum & a journey - so long as you maintain physical & mental safety then whatever feels right is right in that moment.

Sexy Red is spot on!

I don't know if you are just a cross dresser that 'dresses' for nothing much more than sexual gratification, or actually going through genuine gender transition.

If you are going through transition, then what I say may be relevant to you.

I've been through it. I'm a long way along the path now.

In the earlier days, I guess I had the same, almost delusional thoughts that you may now have, that being a 'slut' is what women do. It's really not (generally).

With pro-longed hormone treatment, something amazing happens. You lose your libido and is replaced by something more valuable and powerful (to me anyway), and that is clarity of mind and self-respect, and the knowing that you don't need any man's validation to be a woman.

I already know that I am more woman than most men are 'men'.

I've been through the 'slutty' stage, I've also been a sex worker and made a lot of money, but lost so much more.

Sexy Red is right, do what you feel is best for you, only do it with a view to who you may become, and not who you are now.

So, that's my two cents worth :)

All the best xo
Katerina.

That's really interesting view points and thank you to the both of you for taking the time to respond.
I've been a CD for many years and first went out in public in 2010, as to where I'm going now I have no idea, probably too old and not femme enough looking to think of going further down that path?

I'm just trying to find who and where Sarah fits in with everything and do I look at having a relationship as her with someone?

Well put sexy red and Katerina, I'm currently enjoying an extended slutty stage, although if a man did it it would be called studly...but I could care less what other people define it as, it's liberating and empowering and I've never felt better.

I think those are the sensations/feelings I'm looking for

I say embrace the slutty urges and enjoy them . Let's call it having a libido !!! Slutty's good too lols

There are many ways to feel empowered and liberated as a woman that don’t involve a rampant sex life.

I mean - if you desire sex with many people by all means do it! It’s fun 🤩 But, honestly sometimes it can not be great as well (physically & mentally)

I feel empowered wearing a sassy slogan tshirt & doing something mundane like grocery shopping - I find it funny when people look twice at whatever scandalous thing my top says - some people have a little giggle & others are horrified. Either way I like that I am bold enough to wear what makes me happy.

Actually sex with one person would be nice, would love a female who didn't mind me switching personas

well said beautiful 💋💋

I need a female wing woman to guide me I think in this whole experience

You go girl!

Love hearing this. Sometimes all we want is to be immersed in pleasure and experience others. It’s a beautiful thing and a privilege to connect with someone on an intimate level.

I love it I’m the exact same we would get along very good I love how you’re bold but the goddamn with a body like that why wouldn’t you be together