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To be BI or not to be BI

Discussion - started by Tensaman, posted on 6-Apr-26 10:06AM

I’m curious how many retired male or female decide to check out a walk on the bi side for the first time. I hv met so many men single and married checking out the bi side. I too was a curious newbie a few years ago.

I think most men are curious closet bi’s but I will say this I hv been careful though reluctant to explore maybe fearful BUT my first experiences were with amazing open safe men also exploring

The open safe and respectful relationship is key. I still enjoy making love to women but I enjoy men just as much. Now I’m not so sure it’s about male or female love making It’s just lovemaking with another who enjoys love making and pleasuring each other that’s non judgmental and respectful.

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Comment #1 by Tritonman in response to the main topic

Posted on 7-Apr-26 9:18AM

I have been on my bi journey for some time now. Started late but have thoroughly enjoyed the experience to date. I think it has happened as I have become more open minded and accepting of the the many facets of sexual pleasure

Comment #2 by Kitt60 in response to Tritonman ( view post )

Posted on 7-Apr-26 11:02AM

I have also been on my bi journey but only for a short time and much later in life although I have known since teenage years I liked men as much as women. Sadly my bi experience has not been to pleasant thus far. I hope thing improve soon

Comment #3 by Tritonman in response to Kitt60 ( view post )

Posted on 7-Apr-26 11:14AM

Sorry to hear that your experiences have not been pleasant

Comment #4 by Kitt60 in response to Tritonman ( view post )

Posted on 7-Apr-26 11:19AM

Don't get me wrong I have learnt a lot and am now a bit weary of people and love some of the experiences I have had. I like your comments and thought, made me think, thanks.

Comment #5 by Tritonman in response to Kitt60 ( view post )

Posted on 7-Apr-26 11:21AM

You're welcome

Comment #6 by Kitt60 in response to Tritonman ( view post )

Posted on 7-Apr-26 11:23AM

Great, sorry I don't fit your criteria for some reason but I do think you are on the money in your thoughts. Cheers.

Comment #7 by Happycocks in response to the main topic

Posted on 7-Apr-26 12:26PM

For me it is something that i had a taste of long before retirement and after having had numerous female relationships i came to the realisation that a mans cock is a wonderful thing when it is sexually excited as it grows and gets very hard and is such a nice thing to suck and play with and is so nice when it orgasms and the fact that a man treats and takes care of my cock far better than most woman ever have. In our younger days i'm sure we all fucked like rabbits and had sex just about every night and were quite satisfied but as i've aged i much prefer a mans touch and the quality of treatment of my cock is far more important than just basic sex

Comment #8 by Kitt60 in response to Happycocks ( view post )

Posted on 7-Apr-26 12:34PM

I admire other mens cocks most probably because mine is small but I do like the look of a cock standing at attention once hard and sucking it and making him cum, so delicious.

Comment #9 by Happycocks in response to Kitt60 ( view post )

Posted on 7-Apr-26 12:50PM

Yes agree with you on that. It is so nice pleasuring a hard cock and most woman our age have very little interest in sex so it's an easy obvious choice

Comment #10 by Kitt60 in response to Happycocks ( view post )

Posted on 7-Apr-26 1:00PM

Yep have to agree with you, its an obvious choice and lots of fun!!!

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