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Butt Toys for neWbies
Discussion - started by Troy, posted on 2-Oct-26 8:40AM
Recomendations? Do's and donts for a firsttimer

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Comment #1 by Cd_katie in response to the main topic
Posted on 2-Oct-26 9:49AM
Start small and always use plenty of lube.
Comment #2 by Wewilly in response to the main topic
Posted on 2-Oct-26 10:15AM
And relax
Comment #3 by mech9 in response to Wewilly ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 11:17AM
Agree with previous comments - definitely start small and a generous application of lube and enjoy
Comment #4 by Oldbutnot63 in response to mech9 ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 7:11PM
Good advice 😜 but sometimes I find hard to keep in place if too much lube, whats the longest time you've had a plug in and most unusual event or circumstances 😉
Comment #5 by Wewilly in response to Oldbutnot63 ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 7:19PM
Have same problem lol, I've had a plug in for about 15min, find the lube drys and plug sticks and then harder to pull out
Comment #6 by Oldbutnot63 in response to Wewilly ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 7:24PM
Mmmm Ive done a couple of hours doing jobs around the house needed to reinsert a few times, worn one when taking dog for a walk, got aroused and started to get hard when neighbor stopped to talk to me all I could think if only she new 🙃
Comment #7 by Wewilly in response to Oldbutnot63 ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 7:29PM
Done same walk to mall with it in, had to clench butt to keep it in
Comment #8 by Troy in response to Wewilly ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 7:42PM
Hot to think of. Love your pictures
Comment #9 by Wewilly in response to Troy ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 7:53PM
Thanks
Comment #10 by Oldbutnot63 in response to Wewilly ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 8:01PM
Nice do you masturbate with it in nice lingerie pics 😈
Comment #11 by Wewilly in response to Oldbutnot63 ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 8:06PM
Yup
Comment #12 by Troy in response to Wewilly ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 8:10PM
Do you eb cam these?
Comment #13 by Wewilly in response to Troy ( view post )
Posted on 2-Oct-26 8:11PM
No sorry
Comment #14 by Troy in response to the main topic
Posted on 2-Oct-26 10:16PM
Tried a butt plug (vibrating). I am going to love anal when sombody tops me for the first time.
Comment #15 by bixdress in response to the main topic
Posted on 3-Oct-26 12:43PM
I've walked around Christchurch cbd shopping with vibrating egg in
Comment #16 by ktt0630 in response to the main topic
Posted on 3-Oct-26 12:58PM
AS others have said plenty of lube. For dildos push back as if you are on the toilet as you push it in. It sounds counter productive but it relaxes the sphincter. I think i'm going to put a plug in right now!
Comment #17 by ChchBiGuy in response to bixdress ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-26 3:54PM
All of a sudden, shopping got far more interesting.
Comment #18 by Oldbutnot63 in response to Troy ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-26 6:20PM
Mmmm sounds lovely 😍
Comment #19 by Oldbutnot63 in response to bixdress ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-26 6:21PM
That's sexy as fck ,love it 😋
Comment #20 by Jockman01 in response to the main topic
Posted on 4-Oct-26 10:43AM
Normally have a butt plug in when home on the weekends
Posted on 4-Oct-26 10:46AM
Nice.... any tips to help keep in place for longer times moving around doing stuff, I find constantly have to reinsert 😅
Comment #22 by Bones24 in response to the main topic
Posted on 4-Oct-26 1:51PM
I love when the lube drys up after a while , thd tightness when trying to take out is mined blowing . Yes plenty of lube , small at first I have found I craved for bigger n thicker as soon as my arse adjust to the different sizes , try to sleep with a plug in
Comment #23 by Oldbutnot63 in response to Bones24 ( view post )
Posted on 4-Oct-26 1:52PM
Cheers thanks 😜
Comment #24 by mech9 in response to Oldbutnot63 ( view post )
Posted on 4-Oct-26 2:03PM
You can purchase butt plugs that are curved towards the prostate and stay secure as long as you wish. Very erotic feeling
Comment #25 by Bones24 in response to mech9 ( view post )
Posted on 4-Oct-26 2:04PM
That sounds n would feel nice
Comment #26 by ktt0630 in response to mech9 ( view post )
Posted on 4-Oct-26 3:31PM
I have one of those as well as a normal tear drop shape one
Comment #27 by NZuncut in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Oct-26 9:18AM
Important tip - don't use anything that doesn't have a flared base. Butts can be hungry, and the muscles can pull a toy fully inside where it could get stuck. Bases will help you keep the toy in your butt without losing it. Toys with these bases come in all shapes and sizes if you're planning on increasing your limits with anal training.

Save yourself an awkward trip to the ER (though if it does happen please don't hesitate to go in, they deal with stuff like that all the time!)
Comment #28 by gadget in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Oct-26 6:25PM
Start small or get inflatable to get used to the feeling,can get a lube inserter and put way I and yhen will slowly release down to keep plug lubed without drying out,Ilike driving or doing housework or lawns with a discrete ug.But now I have got used to quite large plugs znd love a good stretch/gape znd poppers help relaxing the muscles feels great getting that buzzon
Comment #29 by Oldbutnot63 in response to NZuncut ( view post )
Posted on 7-Oct-26 6:31PM
👆 seems like very good advice 😁

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