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but but, we are already friends, are we not ?

ahhhhh

, I do enjoy a nice pair of legs although not sure that i have a foot fetish.

mmmm, drinkies sounds like fun....to start.

... now your just thinking with wrong brain...

Just making a point... with wee touch of sarcasm on edges

brain is in gear for the meet and greet.....don't upset the synchronisation., don't want to stall now that the lights are green.

sarcasm doesn't become a person of your class.

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Brain in gear always a good move...
Stalling at a green light never a good look...
Don't upset the synchronisation very good like that
sarcasm always looses a touch of emphasis when have to say ...was ..
But hey its a hovering in the best of us.

sorry you had to say....don't really pick up on sarcasm unless it jumps out and slaps me.

guess i'm just too cruisy and mellow.

Maybe needed more emoticons or !!!!!!! Around. And sometimes just loses all translation in here from brain to written word


Its OK cruisy an excellent place to be for you and you lady. .. pleased for you dude

yep.....we extremely happy despite one person always trying to undermine, who shall remain nameless but that person knows whom i'm referring to.
we refuse to rise to the bait.
both of us really looking forward to our couples group afternoon today.

And what you got planed for after as well

Why of course....should be a great evening.

Good for you so profile not honest as you only play as a couple

I disagree. FWB is great if you're both on the same page. I have 2 FWBs. Works for us.

Never happened in almost 3 years of FWB for me.

It does .... well I'll be!! They know there's another that on fwb page too!?

So you have a friends thing going on outside the sheets too. .. in real life public friend kinda thing. ...

Hey brucey! not sure that's any of your business

It's a meet and greet with people from here... there is never any set course to what happens 'in the after' and do believe it's in a public place ... casual meet and greet pure and simple

yes you are right

A friend you have sex with... no expectations... no strings.. no jealousy... trust... satisfaction... someone u see once in a while... simple relationship

A fuck buddy ....

Yes one name for it

Yup. They both know about each other. Sometimes we go out for coffee, speedway or share a meal. It's about having good communication skills.

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All three four or however more together out to dinner etc wow ... right well lucky you
(mmm !!)

So it's all just about having good communication skills. .. wow never realized was that easy to keep all quarters of equations OK with everyone else. ...

I think fwb is what works for the individuals involved...what one "couple" (for want of a better word) would see as genuine friendship with benefits others may disagree. I think it's all to do with the personal connection two people have. The details of the situation could be identical but the person connection between two people can be different compared to others in similar situations. This is where I think labelling things can be tricky...as there are many variables to be considered and can be different for everybody.

I totally agree

true to some of that ....

But think on this.....
2 involved in a actual fwb liason can still see it on a different basis BECAUSE male and female brain and sooooo many fudge truth of every situation to suit themselves. .. so never open and truthful EVER. (No matter how much they profess to be telling the truth )And because it's just a FUCK and your not in there real.life living with them you NEVER know the truth now do you girls!!?.. no matter how much you chat and talk with them they Always hide things. ... So it's just a FUCK whether it's a one time thing or on going to ultimately suit his life

Was just down in Wellington Cc... hell we could have met for a coffee and gone for a walk along Petone foreshore was lovely weather.... next time

I won't argue with that as you can't accept that not everyone is deceitful and self serving. You're entitled to your opinion...I'm happy with my fwb and have no issues whatsoever.

Lucky young lady then

Time and familiarity eeecks away at foundations fuck them while you have it miss

It was great weather. I've had a busy weekend.

Anybody who starts a pattern of making it suit them only isn't good fwb material. Soon as I spot that happening,I let them know I've noticed. How they react decides whether I continue seeing them or not.

I laugh when people say fwb is a NSA arrangement. It's not. You both agree to see each other when convenient for both, which makes it a two way street. Don't like that idea, then stick to one night stands. Simple.

Of course neither one will know aspects of the other's life. That's why it's fwb and not a step up to a full on romantic relationship. You take your chances on that but you do have the power to walk away if something sparks off one of your red flags.

An old friend once told me, just remember, one is always smarter than the other. Make sure it's you

Weather not so good on weekend was lot better during the week and walking good for all especially in perfect weather and lovely location. ..

Yeah we live in a beautiful spot. It is nice out there.

I've been with him over a year now...we have sussed out most things but communicate well and respect each other also.

absolutely with you on the be the savy one...

A few just dig hole bigger and bigger for themselves when they under estimate the intellect of a woman and think glossing over details when asked is clever


Hey its just a label that lots on here use to soften edge - when really its just a casual fuck - no.matter how often in attendance
And yeah everyone sees it how they want ...

not always but will admit when it's good it is nice

Oh well I love it even on a bad day

guess have to say that cause you live it...

That's right I do and I love everything about it.

A friend with weed is a friend indeed
A friend with tits and all the rest

There are FWB that?s friends frist and there are fuck buddys

So cynical. I sense you got burned and now believe all FWB arrangements are doomed. How sad. I have several FWB type relationships (picked up a couple since the last time I commented), they're all really cruisy.
Communication and self care are paramount. Pretty simple once you get the hang of it

Also it's very much real life. You don't have to be living with a personal in order to trust them. You seem to be rather insecure.

So you chastise what you don't understand? Do you know what cognitive dissonance is?

Yes, some of us hang out together. Why do you have a problem with understanding not everybody believes in monogamy, not everyone wants a committed relationship; some of us enjoy being free agents with no ties.

Well done you

Have another drink chick. ..

sign up here

Well done you ...

Thanks it's great to be happy and enjoy your life

aye Cc....
Life is good - exercise with a view a bonus all round...