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How would you define friends with benefits
Discussion - started by kiwiguy1119, posted on 6-Feb-18 8:02AM
What does friends with benefits mean to you

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Comment #1 by aktc in response to the main topic
Posted on 6-Feb-18 9:19AM
Some one where you can be friends and have the occasional sexual romps.
Comment #2 by HtownTranz in response to the main topic
Posted on 6-Feb-18 9:59AM
Providers
Comment #3 by One in response to aktc ( view post )
Posted on 6-Feb-18 12:18PM
Yep that's it
Comment #4 by backstop1 in response to the main topic
Posted on 6-Feb-18 1:08PM
an older man with no hassel or filth .Sone one you want to see often but not pushie Some one who enjoys cock fun 69 fingering and well what evet.
Comment #5 by jax12 in response to the main topic
Posted on 6-Feb-18 3:37PM
When You first Meet there is A Like or Love and then Benefits Come!
Comment #6 by Cherub in response to the main topic
Posted on 6-Feb-18 4:00PM
On here or from off here... FWB means nothing it's not real in any way...

You can't be everyday normal friends it just doesn't work, too many others in on same bit most of the time and just becomes messy with the normal everyday life part complicating it..

Off here its just FB's....

Comment #7 by jax12 in response to Cherub ( view post )
Posted on 6-Feb-18 4:02PM
FWB Hmm Big Responsibility To Know That it is FWB!
Comment #8 by Cherub in response to jax12 ( view post )
Posted on 6-Feb-18 4:15PM
Absofuckinglutley. ...
Comment #9 by jax12 in response to Cherub ( view post )
Posted on 6-Feb-18 4:36PM
Absofuckingloutely! You Know it!
Comment #10 by One in response to Cherub ( view post )
Posted on 7-Feb-18 12:28PM
Either wa you put it or explain it .its much the same how ever you may put it ...
For example. ... ifor I was your fuk buddy or you still would want Me to be friendly? ??
Comment #11 by Cherub in response to One ( view post )
Posted on 7-Feb-18 5:41PM
I think your talking a different friend label . . Can be friendly but not necessarily be 'friends'.
You have met be acquaintances but not necessarily friends. ..etc
Comment #12 by One in response to Cherub ( view post )
Posted on 7-Feb-18 6:11PM
Fair call
I guess Cherub
Comment #13 by Cherub in response to One ( view post )
Posted on 7-Feb-18 6:25PM
Phew...


Comment #14 by captcunninglus in response to jax12 ( view post )
Posted on 7-Feb-18 9:04PM
So a lady friend crashes her car and I go get it going again then a week latter turn up with some beers and she let's me give her a good licking is that mean I'm a fwb or just a nice fb
Posted on 7-Feb-18 9:14PM
Or paid for it ..
Comment #16 by helene-56 in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Feb-18 9:22PM
Usually fiends first...then sex happens without an issue..
But if youre looking for friends with benefits on ere.....best of..
Soooooo many haters & keyboard warriors...
Plus most on here just want the benefits...
Posted on 8-Feb-18 6:45AM
Yeah I did pay 30 bucks for parts and spend a couple of hrs on it. But then again if I took her to a movie and out for dinner I'd still be paying for it.
Comment #18 by bruce62 in response to Cherub ( view post )
Posted on 8-Feb-18 9:01AM
think you so right there no such thing
Comment #19 by bruce62 in response to helene-56 ( view post )
Posted on 8-Feb-18 9:04AM
you are right not friends just benefits and that works
Comment #20 by MrConfused in response to Cherub ( view post )
Posted on 8-Feb-18 4:39PM
Yes, and when sex happens on a regular basis there is always an emotional connection that's not just friends. Jealousy and possesiveness creeps in and bingo no bingo, no longer just a gratifying fuck.
Comment #21 by Cherub in response to MrConfused ( view post )
Posted on 8-Feb-18 7:30PM
Yep pretty much Mr C... think we've broached this wee study before

The exception to this for constant "bingo" would be if the 2 individuals (or one of the 2) are completely emotionally detached (or never speak during sex dont say your name at anytime during or after - usually for fear of saying wrong name in heat of the moment ) or able to play the part of supposed friend - just for the fuck...
but then that goes hand in hand with,accomplished liar and pretender who's just in the moment. They may come back for more making it seem FWB is on the table along with you but it's just that the fuck is still available. ..
Takes a huge amount of trust to establish FWB and with this comes time together - chats - fuck - chats - time. .. and then OMG bingo "what Mr C" said ....

So yeah FWB not a 2 way street or believable ...
Just fuck buddies
Comment #22 by Cherub in response to bruce62 ( view post )
Posted on 8-Feb-18 7:32PM
Why hello Brucey man profile back much better

Comment #23 by backstop1 in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Feb-18 5:59PM
someone you cant wait to see again and understand each others needs
Comment #24 by Cherub in response to backstop1 ( view post )
Posted on 9-Feb-18 8:56PM
In other words a fuck buddy
Posted on 9-Feb-18 9:05PM
Mmmm, now that's an option.
Posted on 9-Feb-18 9:12PM
But you are attached on profile
Posted on 9-Feb-18 9:20PM
Or comment #16... it seems that friends first and then sex just happens does it!?

Do you think alcohol had any part in that response....
Posted on 10-Feb-18 6:05AM
but but, we are already friends, are we not ?
Posted on 10-Feb-18 7:56AM
ahhhhh
Posted on 10-Feb-18 9:47AM
, I do enjoy a nice pair of legs although not sure that i have a foot fetish.

mmmm, drinkies sounds like fun....to start.
Posted on 10-Feb-18 9:58AM
... now your just thinking with wrong brain...

Just making a point... with wee touch of sarcasm on edges
Posted on 10-Feb-18 10:05AM
brain is in gear for the meet and greet.....don't upset the synchronisation., don't want to stall now that the lights are green.

sarcasm doesn't become a person of your class.
Posted on 10-Feb-18 10:20AM
..... .... ....

Brain in gear always a good move...
Stalling at a green light never a good look...
Don't upset the synchronisation very good like that
sarcasm always looses a touch of emphasis when have to say ...was ..
But hey its a hovering in the best of us.
Posted on 10-Feb-18 10:26AM
sorry you had to say....don't really pick up on sarcasm unless it jumps out and slaps me.

guess i'm just too cruisy and mellow.
Posted on 10-Feb-18 10:33AM
Maybe needed more emoticons or !!!!!!! Around. And sometimes just loses all translation in here from brain to written word


Its OK cruisy an excellent place to be for you and you lady. .. pleased for you dude
Posted on 10-Feb-18 10:40AM
yep.....we extremely happy despite one person always trying to undermine, who shall remain nameless but that person knows whom i'm referring to.
we refuse to rise to the bait.
both of us really looking forward to our couples group afternoon today.
Posted on 10-Feb-18 10:49AM
And what you got planed for after as well
Posted on 10-Feb-18 10:56AM
Why of course....should be a great evening.
Posted on 10-Feb-18 3:37PM
Good for you so profile not honest as you only play as a couple
Comment #40 by Vulpes in response to Cherub ( view post )
Posted on 10-Feb-18 4:21PM
I disagree. FWB is great if you're both on the same page. I have 2 FWBs. Works for us.
Comment #41 by Vulpes in response to MrConfused ( view post )
Posted on 10-Feb-18 4:22PM
Never happened in almost 3 years of FWB for me.
Comment #42 by Cherub in response to Vulpes ( view post )
Posted on 10-Feb-18 6:58PM
It does .... well I'll be!! They know there's another that on fwb page too!?

So you have a friends thing going on outside the sheets too. .. in real life public friend kinda thing. ...
Comment #43 by Cherub in response to bruce62 ( view post )
Posted on 10-Feb-18 7:34PM
Hey brucey! not sure that's any of your business

It's a meet and greet with people from here... there is never any set course to what happens 'in the after' and do believe it's in a public place ... casual meet and greet pure and simple
Comment #44 by bruce62 in response to Cherub ( view post )
Posted on 10-Feb-18 10:32PM
yes you are right
Comment #45 by hotntasty in response to the main topic
Posted on 11-Feb-18 11:10AM
A friend you have sex with... no expectations... no strings.. no jealousy... trust... satisfaction... someone u see once in a while... simple relationship
Comment #46 by Cherub in response to hotntasty ( view post )
Posted on 11-Feb-18 4:12PM
A fuck buddy ....
Comment #47 by bruce62 in response to Cherub ( view post )
Posted on 11-Feb-18 6:25PM
Yes one name for it

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